![-]( "Pointzero") Pointzero at 24-01-2011 11:21 PM (14 years ago)  (m) What is the ultimate desire in a woman's life,is it education or marriage,education without an husband/family dont do her any good,that's why most of these colored women here (States) dont have husbands,they put their jobs before men,she has to put her husband first not education.
education n marriage go hand in hand...........................so many marriages are broken 2day cos the wife has no job n vice versa.which is a negative effect of not having a degree.d decision wont be that easy here
NEMO DAT QUOD NON HABET | Posted: at 24-01-2011 11:21 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "kebella") kebella at 24-01-2011 11:23 PM (14 years ago) (f) WHO NO 
my name is kebella  ........yu already no that  ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! | Posted: at 24-01-2011 11:23 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "ILOVEIT") ILOVEIT at 24-01-2011 11:24 PM (14 years ago) (m) a friend of mine that is engaged is having problem with her fiance about school.
she got admission in Rivers State University of Education to Study Biology which is her dream course, and Rivpoly (partime) to study science lab tech. her parents are no financially stable to see her through school since her father lost his job and he is not getting any younger the only person sponsoring her school is her fiance who is saying that she has to do the patime for two years and stop at OND for the rest of her life becos he has a building project and he wants to go for his masters. but it has been her dream to be an educationist. he is dictating for her becos he is the person bring the money and he doesn't care if she is ok with it or not he gave her four reasons why she should g for the masters
1.that they may not get married at the end
2.she may betray him in school becos she may need money and he may not have to give to her
3. she may not finish becos he cant wait for her for four years
4. and if she finishes he may have gotten married to another person.
the lady is just 21yrs while the guy is 28yrs.
now friends what should this lady do? should she forget her dreams of becoming an educationist and marry the man becos of money to go to school and the four reasons he gave to her or should pursue her dreams and loose the man and her marriage.
hmm this is a delicate issue for real,and needs a mature/smart mind to handle..the way i see it, both doesn't want to back down to their respective dreams and wishes.. but if i may decide, i think it's better for the lady to choose the marriage not bcoz of the guy being the sponsor but anything can happen along the way.whereby the guy changse his mind..remember women are the key to men's heart.and they can easily wins a man heart provided she prove to be a good wife...so is better than none.
The difference between GENIUS and STUPIDITY is that, genius has it limits.. | Posted: at 24-01-2011 11:24 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "kebella") kebella at 24-01-2011 11:24 PM (14 years ago) (f) E no mean, just Tap am Small TAP GINI 
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! | Posted: at 24-01-2011 11:24 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "Michro") Michro at 24-01-2011 11:27 PM (14 years ago) (m) Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm Complicated and pathetic!!!
I am as gentle as a dove and as wise as a serpent | Posted: at 24-01-2011 11:27 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Abby") Abby at 24-01-2011 11:31 PM (14 years ago) (f) He wants her to be dependent on him forever. What are the chances he will marry her anyway?. His reasons are all about him and his insecurities. 1.that they may not get married at the end. Goes both ways if shes decides not to they may not get marry in the end. 2.she may betray him in school becos she may need money and he may not have to give to her. Insecure? She can betray him in or out of university... not valid. 3. she may not finish becos he cant wait for her for four years. Its really all about him 4. and if she finishes he may have gotten married to another person. Is he saying he is not going to be faithful? Depends on what she wants if she doesn't mind and he is capable or providing for them she can do ahead, if she really wants to go to university she is going to be miserable forever if they don't work out or if the have problems in the marriage because she always remember or remind him that she gave up education for him, or think what if. | Posted: at 24-01-2011 11:31 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "Pointzero") Pointzero at 24-01-2011 11:32 PM (14 years ago) (m) no be small 1 oohh
NEMO DAT QUOD NON HABET | Posted: at 24-01-2011 11:32 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "onyin") onyin at 24-01-2011 11:33 PM (14 years ago) (f) Seriously,if its not her heartdesire to get married at such age,then she should not.cos she might end up regretting it.let her sit down and think very well about it. it sounds like she is vulnerable becos of the country's situation..but note,a good husband always supports his wife in everything mostly education. the sentences in 1 n 2 is rampant in our country n i think a reasonable man will take his chances in dis kind a situation............cos the outcome might be unbearable I know,but they are both on the different page.The man is more in favour here,then the girl.i mean with such terms and conditions.they are two different people with different goals in life.cos the girl neva mentioned marriage.how can you be engaged to a guy and you are not thinking of marrying him.sounds more like she is expecting marriage after achieving her education,which is not bad.if a woman feels that way,is better she goes her separate way cos she might end up regretting one day. | Posted: at 24-01-2011 11:33 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "onyin") onyin at 24-01-2011 11:36 PM (14 years ago) (f) ask kennee,last night hmmmm | Posted: at 24-01-2011 11:36 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Pointzero") Pointzero at 24-01-2011 11:38 PM (14 years ago) (m) Seriously,if its not her heartdesire to get married at such age,then she should not.cos she might end up regretting it.let her sit down and think very well about it. it sounds like she is vulnerable becos of the country's situation..but note,a good husband always supports his wife in everything mostly education. the sentences in 1 n 2 is rampant in our country n i think a reasonable man will take his chances in dis kind a situation............cos the outcome might be unbearable I know,but they are both on the different page.The man is more in favour here,then the girl.i mean with such terms and conditions.they are two different people with different goals in life.cos the girl neva mentioned marriage.how can you be engaged to a guy and you are not thinking of marrying him.sounds more like she is expecting marriage after achieving her education,which is not bad.if a woman feels that way,is better she goes her separate way cos she might end up regretting one day. N if she do so.....................she will equally end up loosing her dream..................cos i cant see any help coming 4rm above except thru dis means.........dis is gonna be a bitter pill 2 swallow if i were her
NEMO DAT QUOD NON HABET | Posted: at 24-01-2011 11:38 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "kebella") kebella at 24-01-2011 11:40 PM (14 years ago) (f) Reply |
![-]( "ILOVEIT") ILOVEIT at 24-01-2011 11:41 PM (14 years ago) (m) truly complicated..coz they're both stubborn
The difference between GENIUS and STUPIDITY is that, genius has it limits.. | Posted: at 24-01-2011 11:41 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Pointzero") Pointzero at 24-01-2011 11:42 PM (14 years ago) (m) how are they stubborn bro?
NEMO DAT QUOD NON HABET | Posted: at 24-01-2011 11:42 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "diplomatik") diplomatik at 24-01-2011 11:43 PM (14 years ago) (f) a friend of mine that is engaged is having problem with her fiance about school.
she got admission in Rivers State University of Education to Study Biology which is her dream course, and Rivpoly (partime) to study science lab tech. her parents are no financially stable to see her through school since her father lost his job and he is not getting any younger the only person sponsoring her school is her fiance who is saying that she has to do the patime for two years and stop at OND for the rest of her life becos he has a building project and he wants to go for his masters. but it has been her dream to be an educationist. he is dictating for her becos he is the person bring the money and he doesn't care if she is ok with it or not he gave her four reasons why she should g for the masters
1.that they may not get married at the end
2.she may betray him in school becos she may need money and he may not have to give to her
3. she may not finish becos he cant wait for her for four years
4. and if she finishes he may have gotten married to another person.
the lady is just 21yrs while the guy is 28yrs.
now friends what should this lady do? should she forget her dreams of becoming an educationist and marry the man becos of money to go to school and the four reasons he gave to her or should pursue her dreams and loose the man and her marriage.
she needs to differentiate which is more important to her now being educated or being married bcos it seems her only reason for the said relationship is for her education its looking kinda whack they must come to an understanding somehow or dey will be ........
u've seen me right? i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either  , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool | Posted: at 24-01-2011 11:43 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "Pointzero") Pointzero at 24-01-2011 11:45 PM (14 years ago) (m) NB:some comments missin***
NEMO DAT QUOD NON HABET | Posted: at 24-01-2011 11:45 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "onyin") onyin at 24-01-2011 11:47 PM (14 years ago) (f) Seriously,if its not her heartdesire to get married at such age,then she should not.cos she might end up regretting it.let her sit down and think very well about it. it sounds like she is vulnerable becos of the country's situation..but note,a good husband always supports his wife in everything mostly education. the sentences in 1 n 2 is rampant in our country n i think a reasonable man will take his chances in dis kind a situation............cos the outcome might be unbearable I know,but they are both on the different page.The man is more in favour here,then the girl.i mean with such terms and conditions.they are two different people with different goals in life.cos the girl neva mentioned marriage.how can you be engaged to a guy and you are not thinking of marrying him.sounds more like she is expecting marriage after achieving her education,which is not bad.if a woman feels that way,is better she goes her separate way cos she might end up regretting one day. N if she do so.....................she will equally end up loosing her dream..................cos i cant see any help coming 4rm above except thru dis means.........dis is gonna be a bitter pill 2 swallow if i were her so your point is?.she should marry him all becos he's going to send her to school?.Naija condition can change at any time.maybe this year might be different,maybe this year will bring a change.If she feels that education is wat she wants,then i dont see any reason why she should marry him.cos she will be doing him awhole lots of harm than good if she marrys him.let a woman marry you on her own free will.or else,one day you will see the other side of her,which will bring sadness into his life.and he's not God,man is not God.Only God knows the best | Posted: at 24-01-2011 11:47 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "onyin") onyin at 24-01-2011 11:54 PM (14 years ago) (f) lol.its our little secret. | Posted: at 24-01-2011 11:54 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "trolling") trolling at 24-01-2011 11:56 PM (14 years ago) (m) Dont yall women know that it is all about the man.We come first,you must please us. | Posted: at 24-01-2011 11:56 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "ILOVEIT") ILOVEIT at 24-01-2011 11:56 PM (14 years ago) (m) how are they stubborn bro?
are u asking me huh? can't you see both are only interested on his/her own selfish interest. all they need is to compromise.
The difference between GENIUS and STUPIDITY is that, genius has it limits.. | Posted: at 24-01-2011 11:56 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "onyin") onyin at 24-01-2011 11:58 PM (14 years ago) (f) Dont yall women know that it is all about the man.We come first,you must please us.
.you are sumthing,must you say it that way.we know jor. | Posted: at 24-01-2011 11:58 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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