Between The Devil And The Deep Blue Sea............ (Page 3)

My phone rang last night and I picked,  the number was hidden and before I could ask who was on the line, she asked me if I was so and so.  I confirmed in the affirmative.  Then she started her sad story of how she has been unlucky with men and how she now has three options left to her (none of them good, I THINK). She is in her late 30s, almost 40 now.

Option 1, Should she marry a guy who has signified interest to her who, a guy she doesnt love and who she says she will never get to love?

Option 2, Should she have a baby by any man willing to help her?  At least, she will see someone to love (so she says)....

Option 3, Should she remain single for the rest of her life, no hubby, no kid(s).

I tired to tell her to wait for God's time, but she said that is not an option becos she has been trusting God and waiting for Him ever since she was ready to get married.  I told her I dont have answers yet, I need to ask some people.  So here I am again, I need help please.  What do I tell her?

Sweetie, I have a problem with that.............I really hate to poke nose into people's past(s).......

Don't be offended swtheart for this my reply, but just think about the truth in it !!

But let me tell you, Time waits for no one, I believe and trust so much in God. People should learn how to respect God and listen well when God give them direction on certain things. We shouldn't be calling and disturbing God about things we knew He has already given us power over them. God created everything and made us human head over them here on earth. Our decisions here on earth starts from the inner mind. that instinct is always there with everyone to direct us, of which i believe is the spirit of the living God. he left everything for us here to make proper use of it. if we make mistakes, thats our fault and we all will give account of what we did here on earth with what He gave us.

To this lady issue, if i may ask, What was she doing all her youthful age, that she is seeking for tight option when time is almost over for her, and you're still mentioning of waiting for God's time ? at that age, soon she will enter menopause, You think everyone will be Sarah or Mary ? people makes allot of mistakes in life that when old age will catch up with them, they will start regretting there past, looking for where to hang blames. Maybe now her target is one young innocent man to tie down with that her option of making baby.