![-]( "HOPEA23") HOPEA23 at 15-03-2011 01:57 PM (14 years ago)  (f) It is the obligation of the woman to be submissive be it girlfriend or wife....the Bible says we should respect them (even bfs0
It is the right of the woman to be loved and the responsibility of the husband to show her love-the Bible admonishes men to love their wives.
Now, these two obligations - submission and love - sound so simple, but in reality, they could be otherwise; it takes discipline, patience, sacrifice, endurance and above all, God's grace to fulfill these obligations especially in these end time
i like your comment sha...but the bible didn't says gf should be submissvie but wife only..
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE. | Posted: at 15-03-2011 01:57 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "kinkino") kinkino at 15-03-2011 01:58 PM (14 years ago) (f) @Kinkino.........the scripture passage you quoted specifically said WIVES, not gal friends...........so how do you fit into your boyfriend's plan even though he doesnt do his own part?
[/color] DP...honestly its not easy to cope when he is not doin his part...lov is all abt giv and take...submission is also submit, reciv and appreciat...if he dosent do his own part, i will try to put up and remain submisiv...but to an extent...cos if he insist...den i wil let him go...
[/color] i am under obligation to submit to him even if as we ar not married yet...hence he is goin to be my futur hus...but if he did not deserv my submission, den i let him go...cant toil wit my emotion lol... | Posted: at 15-03-2011 01:58 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "pholake") pholake at 15-03-2011 02:00 PM (14 years ago) (f) in our today society...there is nothing like unconditional love again....the existing love is now conditional love
for instance ladies submit thier ass for money from the men...the men go extra mile to please a lady inorder to see wat is inbetween thier laps
to answer ya question
Q1...very few men that has the fear of God in them really love thier wives like christ love the church....ma reason is 95% of married men cheat and its not suppose to be so
Q2...let's not decieve ourself...in our society of today no girl is ready to submit to a man whom she has not known her stand with....even if there are such girls the men will take them for granted....example of this is maself....i ve been in a r/s whereby i submitted maslf to the point of becoming his house maid/wifey material all in d name of love buh at d end i found out i was only being used to satisfy his desires
Q3...yes she could actually submit when she get marry cos she will find out that is her home and where she will raise her own family...if she doesnt submit then she has herself to blame
Q4...from ma experience a little submission but to an extent
God bless you jare....no be only you ooooo ma dear ma own submission turn to mumu...make i no talk cos its a public site i fit inbox u d level of ma own mumu all in d name of love and submission submmission ma ass that's why I keep saying it takes both the man and the woman to make it work...one party can't do it alone...I wish ruther(cant recall the rest of d name now) is reading this......some men are simply impossible | Posted: at 15-03-2011 02:00 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "dirtykid") dirtykid at 15-03-2011 02:01 PM (14 years ago) (m) The rate at which marriages crumble these days is alarming. For the a great number of the men, the excuse for walking out is that their wives are not submissive. For the women, they claim their hubbies cheat on them (of course if you as a man love your wife truly, you shouldnt cheat on her). This is not limited to married couples alone, even ordinary friendships or courtships crumble based on these allegations.
Having established that, I would like to say that submissiveness on the part of the woman is linked to unconditional love on the part of the man. We remember that the holy book(Bible) said that the woman should submit to her husband and the man should love his wife just like Christ loved the Church and died for her........Now my questions:
How many men love their wives like Christ loved and still loves the Church?
Is it necessary for a gal to submit to a man that hasnt paid her bride prize?
Guys, do you think that a gal that refused to submit to a man while they were dating would eventually submit when they marry?
Gals, would you submit to a man you arent married to?...
Sorry for those ( Ladies) who don't understand what that word means to all Men !! Submissive, Submission, Submit, surrender all you got in the exchange of his Love......... is the first Key element a woman should apply to win the man's harden & strictly heart. If you this, You got him at the danger point. No matter how silly you will think a man is, Ladies take Note !! A man never forget a humble lady, even if the relationship didn't workout to the extent that both will be husband and wife... He will always remember you with that, and can testify to many in your absent ! I think both in courtship not just married people, Submission should be first priority !! The Key element that could drive the man to ask your hand in marriage. If men would understand why we are Men !! they should Love their half ( wife ) just like they Love themselves.. Personally i think my part as a man on earth is to Obey & Love God, Love My wife and to protect my country ! Other things can join the line from there. Yes if a girl is not submissive, is like a turn off, No man will ever take her serious, even if the man will pretend to be with her in the name of courtship, is just to sleep with her and let her off later.. definitely the man's eye is still outside searching, even when they're both together in such relationship. Submit today, you will see Love Blossom like never before, even if your man is a truck pusher, relax, You've given him reason to know that you're there all the time & thats what Men always want to feel.. and this submission plays a big role to trust in any relationship, is like oil to the engine. I gbadun your contribution dorti pikin.....but as you can see that in red, that love is conditional.........and besides it takes a zombie to surrender everything...........am saying this becos it seems that some men even though they cant give unconditional love, yet they dont want a woman that has a mind of her own.......... Dorti pikin, tell me, can you say a woman that has a mind of her own is unsubmissive? How can a woman who has a mind of her own combine everything and remain totally submissive?...... Conditional or unconditional.... that doesn't matter........ we just have to face the real fact of what has been and what is happening currently in so many relationship. If you really want to quote me The scripture's version of this.... Don't forget in the beginning was Adam first before Eve !! and God made man demigod over the earth to take care of all he created including Woman!! for sure a man must Love back what so ever that is submissive to him, even an animal.
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !! | Posted: at 15-03-2011 02:01 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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The rate at which marriages crumble these days is alarming. For the a great number of the men, the excuse for walking out is that their wives are not submissive. For the women, they claim their hubbies cheat on them (of course if you as a man love your wife truly, you shouldnt cheat on her). This is not limited to married couples alone, even ordinary friendships or courtships crumble based on these allegations.
Having established that, I would like to say that submissiveness on the part of the woman is linked to unconditional love on the part of the man. We remember that the holy book(Bible) said that the woman should submit to her husband and the man should love his wife just like Christ loved the Church and died for her........Now my questions:
How many men love their wives like Christ loved and still loves the Church?
Is it necessary for a gal to submit to a man that hasnt paid her bride prize?
Guys, do you think that a gal that refused to submit to a man while they were dating would eventually submit when they marry?
Gals, would you submit to a man you arent married to?...
I can not say how many men, but i knw they exist
I think it is in all situations the woman shud b submissiv to her husband and even bf at a limit
I am not married yet but i am submissive to my man, if i am not my relationship wudn work the
way it is suppose to.....
He is your baby papa na...........would you have submitted if he wasnt?
When ur man respects u and giv u freedom of speech, u must b submissive... | Posted: at 15-03-2011 02:01 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "pholake") pholake at 15-03-2011 02:03 PM (14 years ago) (f) It is the obligation of the woman to be submissive be it girlfriend or wife....the Bible says we should respect them (even bfs0
It is the right of the woman to be loved and the responsibility of the husband to show her love-the Bible admonishes men to love their wives.
Now, these two obligations - submission and love - sound so simple, but in reality, they could be otherwise; it takes discipline, patience, sacrifice, endurance and above all, God's grace to fulfill these obligations especially in these end time
i like your comment sha...but the bible didn't says gf should be submissvie but wife only.. Hope, the nature of man requires women respect them....moreso, I don't presume u'll go into a relationship that does not have the potentials to lead into marriage.....when I said bfs, i mean with potentials to become ur MR. | Posted: at 15-03-2011 02:03 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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in our today society...there is nothing like unconditional love again....the existing love is now conditional love
for instance ladies submit thier ass for money from the men...the men go extra mile to please a lady inorder to see wat is inbetween thier laps
to answer ya question
Q1...very few men that has the fear of God in them really love thier wives like christ love the church....ma reason is 95% of married men cheat and its not suppose to be so
Q2...let's not decieve ourself...in our society of today no girl is ready to submit to a man whom she has not known her stand with....even if there are such girls the men will take them for granted....example of this is maself....i ve been in a r/s whereby i submitted maslf to the point of becoming his house maid/wifey material all in d name of love buh at d end i found out i was only being used to satisfy his desires
Q3...yes she could actually submit when she get marry cos she will find out that is her home and where she will raise her own family...if she doesnt submit then she has herself to blame
Q4...from ma experience a little submission but to an extent
God bless you jare....no be only you ooooo ma dear ma own submission turn to mumu...make i no talk cos its a public site i fit inbox u d level of ma own mumu all in d name of love and submission submmission ma ass I can imagine what u've gone thru. Speaking out of experience too | Posted: at 15-03-2011 02:03 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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The rate at which marriages crumble these days is alarming. For the a great number of the men, the excuse for walking out is that their wives are not submissive. For the women, they claim their hubbies cheat on them (of course if you as a man love your wife truly, you shouldnt cheat on her). This is not limited to married couples alone, even ordinary friendships or courtships crumble based on these allegations.
Having established that, I would like to say that submissiveness on the part of the woman is linked to unconditional love on the part of the man. We remember that the holy book(Bible) said that the woman should submit to her husband and the man should love his wife just like Christ loved the Church and died for her........Now my questions:
How many men love their wives like Christ loved and still loves the Church?
Is it necessary for a gal to submit to a man that hasnt paid her bride prize?
Guys, do you think that a gal that refused to submit to a man while they were dating would eventually submit when they marry?
Gals, would you submit to a man you arent married to?...
I can not say how many men, but i knw they exist
I think it is in all situations the woman shud b submissiv to her husband and even bf at a limit
I am not married yet but i am submissive to my man, if i am not my relationship wudn work the
way it is suppose to.....my dear he is the father of your son...you guys live under d same roof and u have also define your relationship so its different.....see its a thing for a man to get u pregnant and its another thing for him to stand to his responsiblity and it is another thing for him to stand and care for d child till he/she grows and become something which is the most important aspect in every home so thank God for ya man
But in d same way u say it is normal for me to b submissiv bcos we liv togeda and hav our son
many ppl tell me i can not do this or i can not do tht or i am havin a bastard as a child bcos we r not
married..... so i shud b submissiv but i dont hav d rites like a married woman does? | Posted: at 15-03-2011 02:04 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 15-03-2011 02:04 PM (14 years ago) (m) It is the obligation of the woman to be submissive be it girlfriend or wife....the Bible says we should respect them (even bfs0
It is the right of the woman to be loved and the responsibility of the husband to show her love-the Bible admonishes men to love their wives.
Now, these two obligations - submission and love - sound so simple, but in reality, they could be otherwise; it takes discipline, patience, sacrifice, endurance and above all, God's grace to fulfill these obligations especially in these end time
i like your comment sha...but the bible didn't says gf should be submissvie but wife only..  hopea u too funny...anyway many interesting contribution..brb | Posted: at 15-03-2011 02:04 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "truenaija2") truenaija2 at 15-03-2011 02:05 PM (14 years ago) (f) i dont like people talking about the holy bible as if it were a mere toy dats y i respect muslims cos they dont play with thier holy book there is no where in the bible that fornication is right fornication is sin so please dfont associate sin with the bible boyfriend girlfriend is not recognised , so submissiveness dont have nothing to do with fornication wht is all dis sef | Posted: at 15-03-2011 02:05 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "simele") simele at 15-03-2011 02:05 PM (14 years ago) (m) Q1. None
Q2. Yeah buh to some extent
Q3. She might and she might not, its depends
Q4. Hmmmmm yeah buh not 100% submission
I dey come sha.
not hw long a man spend have sex with woman that she will give birth to twice | Posted: at 15-03-2011 02:05 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "blessedme") blessedme at 15-03-2011 02:05 PM (14 years ago) (f) @Kinkino.........the scripture passage you quoted specifically said WIVES, not gal friends...........so how do you fit into your boyfriend's plan even though he doesnt do his own part?
[/color] DP...honestly its not easy to cope when he is not doin his part...lov is all abt giv and take...submission is also submit, reciv and appreciat...if he dosent do his own part, i will try to put up and remain submisiv...but to an extent...cos if he insist...den i wil let him go... Like Ble was saying, you arent under any obligation to submit to a man u arent married to....ble shebi? submission but to an extent...... | Posted: at 15-03-2011 02:05 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "pholake") pholake at 15-03-2011 02:07 PM (14 years ago) (f) The rate at which marriages crumble these days is alarming. For the a great number of the men, the excuse for walking out is that their wives are not submissive. For the women, they claim their hubbies cheat on them (of course if you as a man love your wife truly, you shouldnt cheat on her). This is not limited to married couples alone, even ordinary friendships or courtships crumble based on these allegations.
Having established that, I would like to say that submissiveness on the part of the woman is linked to unconditional love on the part of the man. We remember that the holy book(Bible) said that the woman should submit to her husband and the man should love his wife just like Christ loved the Church and died for her........Now my questions:
How many men love their wives like Christ loved and still loves the Church?
Is it necessary for a gal to submit to a man that hasnt paid her bride prize?
Guys, do you think that a gal that refused to submit to a man while they were dating would eventually submit when they marry?
Gals, would you submit to a man you arent married to?...
I can not say how many men, but i knw they exist
I think it is in all situations the woman shud b submissiv to her husband and even bf at a limit
I am not married yet but i am submissive to my man, if i am not my relationship wudn work the
way it is suppose to.....
He is your baby papa na...........would you have submitted if he wasnt?
When ur man respects u and giv u freedom of speech, u must b submissive...Exactly! | Posted: at 15-03-2011 02:07 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "larredy") larredy at 15-03-2011 02:08 PM (14 years ago) (m) I hv a woman.......... Both not married yet... But she was totally submissive to me....... If love reigns... Nofin is IMPOSSIBLE! | Posted: at 15-03-2011 02:08 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 15-03-2011 02:10 PM (14 years ago) (m) i dont like people talking about the holy bible as if it were a mere toy dats y i respect muslims cos they dont play with thier holy book there is no where in the bible that fornication is right fornication is sin so please dfont associate sin with the bible boyfriend girlfriend is not recognised , so submissiveness dont have nothing to do with fornication wht is all dis sef
good talk, fornication is not included...that's the problem with some christain they like to twist the Bible | Posted: at 15-03-2011 02:10 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "truenaija2") truenaija2 at 15-03-2011 02:11 PM (14 years ago) (f) @flymamacita your baby is no bastard every child is a precious gift of GOD and a blessing , he is beautifully and wonderfully made by GOD anybody that tells u that should go and check the dictionary meaning of bastard mayb d person doesnt understand english | Posted: at 15-03-2011 02:11 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "truenaija2") truenaija2 at 15-03-2011 02:11 PM (14 years ago) (f) i dont like people talking about the holy bible as if it were a mere toy dats y i respect muslims cos they dont play with thier holy book there is no where in the bible that fornication is right fornication is sin so please dfont associate sin with the bible boyfriend girlfriend is not recognised , so submissiveness dont have nothing to do with fornication wht is all dis sef
good talk, fornication is not included...that's the problem with some christain they like to twist the Bible and i dont undertsand why they twist the bible thats why i respect muslims | Posted: at 15-03-2011 02:11 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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The rate at which marriages crumble these days is alarming. For the a great number of the men, the excuse for walking out is that their wives are not submissive. For the women, they claim their hubbies cheat on them (of course if you as a man love your wife truly, you shouldnt cheat on her). This is not limited to married couples alone, even ordinary friendships or courtships crumble based on these allegations.
Having established that, I would like to say that submissiveness on the part of the woman is linked to unconditional love on the part of the man. We remember that the holy book(Bible) said that the woman should submit to her husband and the man should love his wife just like Christ loved the Church and died for her........Now my questions:
How many men love their wives like Christ loved and still loves the Church?
Is it necessary for a gal to submit to a man that hasnt paid her bride prize?
Guys, do you think that a gal that refused to submit to a man while they were dating would eventually submit when they marry?
Gals, would you submit to a man you arent married to?...
I can not say how many men, but i knw they exist
I think it is in all situations the woman shud b submissiv to her husband and even bf at a limit
I am not married yet but i am submissive to my man, if i am not my relationship wudn work the
way it is suppose to.....
He is your baby papa na...........would you have submitted if he wasnt?
When ur man respects u and giv u freedom of speech, u must b submissive...But some men's idea of submissiveness is when u turn 'deaf and dumb'.........
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 15-03-2011 02:12 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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in our today society...there is nothing like unconditional love again....the existing love is now conditional love
for instance ladies submit thier ass for money from the men...the men go extra mile to please a lady inorder to see wat is inbetween thier laps
to answer ya question
Q1...very few men that has the fear of God in them really love thier wives like christ love the church....ma reason is 95% of married men cheat and its not suppose to be so
Q2...let's not decieve ourself...in our society of today no girl is ready to submit to a man whom she has not known her stand with....even if there are such girls the men will take them for granted....example of this is maself....i ve been in a r/s whereby i submitted maslf to the point of becoming his house maid/wifey material all in d name of love buh at d end i found out i was only being used to satisfy his desires
Q3...yes she could actually submit when she get marry cos she will find out that is her home and where she will raise her own family...if she doesnt submit then she has herself to blame
Q4...from ma experience a little submission but to an extent
God bless you jare....no be only you ooooo ma dear ma own submission turn to mumu...make i no talk cos its a public site i fit inbox u d level of ma own mumu all in d name of love and submission submmission ma ass that's why I keep saying it takes both the man and the woman to make it work...one party can't do it alone...I wish ruther(cant recall the rest of d name now) is reading this......some men are simply impossible Hmmmmm pholake and who might that be...i mean ruther abi wetin u call am. | Posted: at 15-03-2011 02:13 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "larredy") larredy at 15-03-2011 02:14 PM (14 years ago) (m) It is the obligation of the woman to be submissive be it girlfriend or wife....the Bible says we should respect them (even bfs0
It is the right of the woman to be loved and the responsibility of the husband to show her love-the Bible admonishes men to love their wives.
Now, these two obligations - submission and love - sound so simple, but in reality, they could be otherwise; it takes discipline, patience, sacrifice, endurance and above all, God's grace to fulfill these obligations especially in these end time
i like your comment sha...but the bible didn't says gf should be submissvie but wife only.. Hope, the nature of man requires women respect them....moreso, I don't presume u'll go into a relationship that does not have the potentials to lead into marriage.....when I said bfs, i mean with potentials to become ur MR. Flaky.......... Well supported... | Posted: at 15-03-2011 02:14 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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