dirtykid
Quote from: bittersweet on 6-04-2011 03:07 PM
@DK:I hear you, but it's not easy to handle such a situation at all!
Absolutely ! is not an easy thing to handle, i pity ladies in such situation.
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Quote from: bittersweet on 6-04-2011 03:07 PM @DK:I hear you, but it's not easy to handle such a situation at all! Absolutely ! is not an easy thing to handle, i pity ladies in such situation. DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !!
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Quote from: blessedme on 6-04-2011 03:07 PM BS d chase could be very interesting and enjoyable atimes ooo I knew it, i wanted to touch this side before, but i withdraw it  DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !!
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Quote from: bittersweet on 6-04-2011 03:03 PM Quote from: sobeit on 6-04-2011 03:00 PM Quote from: bittersweet on 6-04-2011 02:34 PM Quote from: sobeit on 6-04-2011 02:29 PM Quote from: bittersweet on 6-04-2011 02:21 PM Quote from: sobeit on 6-04-2011 02:16 PM Quote from: bittersweet on 6-04-2011 01:55 PM Quote from: sobeit on 6-04-2011 01:51 PM Quote from: bittersweet on 6-04-2011 12:49 PM The thing that separates a stalker from a silly moonstruck pest intent on following u around ,is that the stalker is firmly fixated on u, whether out of a perverted kind of love or out of hatred for u.He may be a former intimate partner or he may be an erotomaniac, but either way,he believes that he is hopelessly in love with u (yes, he: there are four times as many male stalkers as females; 8% of all women will, at sometime in their lives, be stalked by a male, whereas only 2% of men will be stalked by a women). And,even worse, he believes that, if u are not already in love with him, it is inevitable that u will fall in love with him. Have u ever been in such a situation and how can u get rid of such a person, in a nice way(no police)? oh! i thought you said, you love being stalk by someone that love you huh  so why the change of mind?Huh? When I said that? If u reffer at "types of men" topic,it's not the same at all!There it's about a person u have a relationship with and not the other way around! Try to get my point! Check my previous answers here! It would be easy to involve the authorities, but I was wondering if u can stop it in a nice way! i don't search for personal away to stop such person when there is absolutely no way. the earlier you report him/her to the authorities the easier and better for your life.cuz in some cases they do kill their victim. Come on!I'm not talking about killers here,but just of ppl who doesn't let u be but trying and trying, again and again! well maybe you haven't heard about some people been killed by stalker b4....or do we have another definition of stalker huh? now let me narrate a true life story to you.it happened sometime ago last year here. there was a teacher in one of the collage here that was stab to death by one of her student.simple because she refused to accept the boy proposal.which was, to marry her..in the beginning she thought it was a joke but she was wrong,the boy keep begging and pressuring her to marry him,but she keep saying NO!!. but the boy didn't want to give up.to an extend he keep following the woman around from school to her apartment etc. so to cut the story short,she decided to report the boy to the authorities,and finally the authorities decided to arrest the boy,caution him and let him go.but it didn't stop there.one faithful day the woman left school,arriving at her home she wanted to open the door but didn't have any clue that the boy was following her back home.so as soon as she wanted to open the door the boy came from behind and stab her several times and even cut her throat..IF YOU WANT TO KNOW MORE ABOUT THIS STORY, I BELIEVE YOU CAN GET IT ONLINE. That's madness! 
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Quote from: dirtykid on 6-04-2011 03:10 PM Quote from: blessedme on 6-04-2011 03:07 PM BS d chase could be very interesting and enjoyable atimes ooo I knew it, i wanted to touch this side before, but i withdraw it Come on,guys! Live and let live!
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@SBI:I hear u ReplyLive and let live!
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Quote from: dirtykid on 6-04-2011 03:04 PM Quote from: bittersweet on 6-04-2011 02:56 PM Quote from: dirtykid on 6-04-2011 02:54 PM Quote from: bittersweet on 6-04-2011 02:48 PM Quote from: dirtykid on 6-04-2011 02:40 PM Quote from: bittersweet on 6-04-2011 02:32 PM Quote from: dirtykid on 6-04-2011 02:28 PM Quote from: blessedme on 6-04-2011 02:17 PM Quote from: dirtykid on 6-04-2011 02:12 PM Quote from: blessedme on 6-04-2011 02:03 PM Quote from: dirtykid on 6-04-2011 01:58 PM Some stalker will even hunt you in your dream world ... Pray you all out there don't get involve with a serious Male stalker, then u must agree by force My bf is one stalker any woman will never pray to meet.....he was stalking me for close to a year and i had no choice than to say yessssssssssssssssssssssss You see, this is exactly what i mean, Mostly male stalker's hardly give up, You see one year and still he keep hunting for u, There's always like 70% girls that will say Yes because of the pressure and uncomfortable life they will make u to be living, What i mean by dream worlds, is like you will get ready to go out somewhere, once you remember he will be around the corner waiting for u to start all the sermon all over, You will develop cold feet and so on. is not easy to let such person off the hook. he has ma time table in his palm like i drafted it for him Of course he will, You're the only thing that bothers him at that moment, Don't be surprise ! His feelings for you that moment is what we call Erotomania in Psychological world. He will never let go unless his mission is complete. And what if she doesn't want to be involved in his damn "mission "? A chronic stalker don't care about that, if she agree or not, He will continue, never give up, because he wants to fill a gap of low self-esteem, trying to prove to himself that he got some real balls, to be honest with you, the earlier the victim accept him the better, there's some boundaries you can't push a chronic stalker to, Once it gets there, there Love earlier could automatically turn to hatred and they will continue hunting without given up,...... but then the victim got to be extra smart if she notice some changes in his approach. He might come up with plan B. Then you got to report this to the authority in charge . What if they were in a relationship before, but she decided to put an end to it,but he doesn't want to accept that? She doesn't want to involve the authorities, because the guy is not life threatening, but just doesn't let her to move on! Such is not a stalker .... He's simply obsessed with what they share in common before during the relationship thing, as time goes on this type will give up, if the girl involve will present a new guy around few times, this kind of obsessed person will channel his way off the girl gradually. and also the guy is not life threatening, he has been with her and knows almost about her, so the dangers and risks are limit. I said "stalker " because he behaves like one! It's not life threatening, but really tiresome! I heard and read what you mean, But i tell you one simple truth, He might behave anything similar to that, but he is not !! Because there was a normal relationship before, of which the stalking issue wasn't the result of the breakup, Unless there was some components of stalker's behavior noticed in him that lead to the break up, if not He's not stalker and cannot be....... Moment of truth about this, Some guys can't stand a breakup, likewise some girls, The feel their world has come to an end, Such situation always lead to some people to take their own life or try to commit suicide if someone wasn't there to talk them back to normal. A stalker will never try to take his own life just like that. DK u r right in everything u said but i have seen reports of stalkers that took their own life simply because they couldnt get the woman of their dream while they are actually living hell for that woman
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Quote from: bittersweet on 6-04-2011 03:09 PM Quote from: blessedme on 6-04-2011 03:07 PM BS d chase could be very interesting and enjoyable atimes ooo Come ooooon! Not in that case when you don't want to hear anything about him again! some could be so annoying that u wish he wasnt born while some could be fun all thru
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Quote from: truenaija2 on 6-04-2011 03:07 PM Quote from: sobeit on 6-04-2011 03:00 PM Quote from: bittersweet on 6-04-2011 02:34 PM Quote from: sobeit on 6-04-2011 02:29 PM Quote from: bittersweet on 6-04-2011 02:21 PM Quote from: sobeit on 6-04-2011 02:16 PM Quote from: bittersweet on 6-04-2011 01:55 PM Quote from: sobeit on 6-04-2011 01:51 PM Quote from: bittersweet on 6-04-2011 12:49 PM The thing that separates a stalker from a silly moonstruck pest intent on following u around ,is that the stalker is firmly fixated on u, whether out of a perverted kind of love or out of hatred for u.He may be a former intimate partner or he may be an erotomaniac, but either way,he believes that he is hopelessly in love with u (yes, he: there are four times as many male stalkers as females; 8% of all women will, at sometime in their lives, be stalked by a male, whereas only 2% of men will be stalked by a women). And,even worse, he believes that, if u are not already in love with him, it is inevitable that u will fall in love with him. Have u ever been in such a situation and how can u get rid of such a person, in a nice way(no police)? oh! i thought you said, you love being stalk by someone that love you huh so why the change of mind?Huh? When I said that? If u reffer at "types of men" topic,it's not the same at all!There it's about a person u have a relationship with and not the other way around! Try to get my point! Check my previous answers here! It would be easy to involve the authorities, but I was wondering if u can stop it in a nice way! i don't search for personal away to stop such person when there is absolutely no way. the earlier you report him/her to the authorities the easier and better for your life.cuz in some cases they do kill their victim. Come on!I'm not talking about killers here,but just of ppl who doesn't let u be but trying and trying, again and again! well maybe you haven't heard about some people been killed by stalker b4....or do we have another definition of stalker huh? now let me narrate a true life story to you.it happened sometime ago last year here. there was a teacher in one of the collage here that was stab to death by one of her student.simple because she refused to accept the boy proposal.which was, to marry her..in the beginning she thought it was a joke but she was wrong,the boy keep begging and pressuring her to marry him,but she keep saying NO!!. but the boy didn't want to give up.to an extend he keep following the woman around from school to her apartment etc. so to cut the story short,she decided to report the boy to the authorities,and finally the authorities decided to arrest the boy,caution him and let him go.but it didn't stop there.one faithful day the woman left school,arriving at her home she wanted to open the door but didn't have any clue that the boy was following her back home.so as soon as she wanted to open the door the boy came from behind and stab her several times and even cut her throat..IF YOU WANT TO KNOW MORE ABOUT THIS STORY, I BELIEVE YOU CAN GET IT ONLINE. i remember when i was a child my uncle brought a girl to her house when he left for work the boyfriend came killed her and left and this an environment where we have so many people , my other uncle taking care of us as kids hadto clean up the blood they said the blood was all over the house  it's to terrible hearing and seeing this kind of story. those people are really sick!! so what happened to the boy?
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Quote from: blessedme on 6-04-2011 03:15 PM Quote from: bittersweet on 6-04-2011 03:09 PM Quote from: blessedme on 6-04-2011 03:07 PM BS d chase could be very interesting and enjoyable atimes ooo Come ooooon! Not in that case when you don't want to hear anything about him again! some could be so annoying that u wish he wasnt born while some could be fun all thru Hmm,but I'm referring at the annoying ones! Live and let live!
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Quote from: dirtykid on 6-04-2011 03:10 PM Quote from: blessedme on 6-04-2011 03:07 PM BS d chase could be very interesting and enjoyable atimes ooo I knew it, i wanted to touch this side before, but i withdraw it
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Quote from: sobeit on 6-04-2011 03:15 PM Quote from: truenaija2 on 6-04-2011 03:07 PM Quote from: sobeit on 6-04-2011 03:00 PM Quote from: bittersweet on 6-04-2011 02:34 PM Quote from: sobeit on 6-04-2011 02:29 PM Quote from: bittersweet on 6-04-2011 02:21 PM Quote from: sobeit on 6-04-2011 02:16 PM Quote from: bittersweet on 6-04-2011 01:55 PM Quote from: sobeit on 6-04-2011 01:51 PM Quote from: bittersweet on 6-04-2011 12:49 PM The thing that separates a stalker from a silly moonstruck pest intent on following u around ,is that the stalker is firmly fixated on u, whether out of a perverted kind of love or out of hatred for u.He may be a former intimate partner or he may be an erotomaniac, but either way,he believes that he is hopelessly in love with u (yes, he: there are four times as many male stalkers as females; 8% of all women will, at sometime in their lives, be stalked by a male, whereas only 2% of men will be stalked by a women). And,even worse, he believes that, if u are not already in love with him, it is inevitable that u will fall in love with him. Have u ever been in such a situation and how can u get rid of such a person, in a nice way(no police)? oh! i thought you said, you love being stalk by someone that love you huh so why the change of mind?Huh? When I said that? If u reffer at "types of men" topic,it's not the same at all!There it's about a person u have a relationship with and not the other way around! Try to get my point! Check my previous answers here! It would be easy to involve the authorities, but I was wondering if u can stop it in a nice way! i don't search for personal away to stop such person when there is absolutely no way. the earlier you report him/her to the authorities the easier and better for your life.cuz in some cases they do kill their victim. Come on!I'm not talking about killers here,but just of ppl who doesn't let u be but trying and trying, again and again! well maybe you haven't heard about some people been killed by stalker b4....or do we have another definition of stalker huh? now let me narrate a true life story to you.it happened sometime ago last year here. there was a teacher in one of the collage here that was stab to death by one of her student.simple because she refused to accept the boy proposal.which was, to marry her..in the beginning she thought it was a joke but she was wrong,the boy keep begging and pressuring her to marry him,but she keep saying NO!!. but the boy didn't want to give up.to an extend he keep following the woman around from school to her apartment etc. so to cut the story short,she decided to report the boy to the authorities,and finally the authorities decided to arrest the boy,caution him and let him go.but it didn't stop there.one faithful day the woman left school,arriving at her home she wanted to open the door but didn't have any clue that the boy was following her back home.so as soon as she wanted to open the door the boy came from behind and stab her several times and even cut her throat..IF YOU WANT TO KNOW MORE ABOUT THIS STORY, I BELIEVE YOU CAN GET IT ONLINE. he just came in like a ghost and went out like a ghost, such people are very smart and u know there is no dna to trace him , thats why they should not be taken lightly , cos they dont look soo dangerous but are more dangerous than u can imagine i remember when i was a child my uncle brought a girl to her house when he left for work the boyfriend came killed her and left and this an environment where we have so many people , my other uncle taking care of us as kids hadto clean up the blood they said the blood was all over the house it's to terrible hearing and seeing this kind of story. those people are really sick!! so what happened to the boy?
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@Ble Ble>>>>.. See free buying and lift Reply DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !!
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Hmmmmmmmmm Reply Live and let live!
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Quote from: truenaija2 on 6-04-2011 03:23 PM Quote from: sobeit on 6-04-2011 03:15 PM Quote from: truenaija2 on 6-04-2011 03:07 PM Quote from: sobeit on 6-04-2011 03:00 PM Quote from: bittersweet on 6-04-2011 02:34 PM Quote from: sobeit on 6-04-2011 02:29 PM Quote from: bittersweet on 6-04-2011 02:21 PM Quote from: sobeit on 6-04-2011 02:16 PM Quote from: bittersweet on 6-04-2011 01:55 PM Quote from: sobeit on 6-04-2011 01:51 PM Quote from: bittersweet on 6-04-2011 12:49 PM The thing that separates a stalker from a silly moonstruck pest intent on following u around ,is that the stalker is firmly fixated on u, whether out of a perverted kind of love or out of hatred for u.He may be a former intimate partner or he may be an erotomaniac, but either way,he believes that he is hopelessly in love with u (yes, he: there are four times as many male stalkers as females; 8% of all women will, at sometime in their lives, be stalked by a male, whereas only 2% of men will be stalked by a women). And,even worse, he believes that, if u are not already in love with him, it is inevitable that u will fall in love with him. Have u ever been in such a situation and how can u get rid of such a person, in a nice way(no police)? oh! i thought you said, you love being stalk by someone that love you huh so why the change of mind?Huh? When I said that? If u reffer at "types of men" topic,it's not the same at all!There it's about a person u have a relationship with and not the other way around! Try to get my point! Check my previous answers here! It would be easy to involve the authorities, but I was wondering if u can stop it in a nice way! i don't search for personal away to stop such person when there is absolutely no way. the earlier you report him/her to the authorities the easier and better for your life.cuz in some cases they do kill their victim. Come on!I'm not talking about killers here,but just of ppl who doesn't let u be but trying and trying, again and again! well maybe you haven't heard about some people been killed by stalker b4....or do we have another definition of stalker huh? now let me narrate a true life story to you.it happened sometime ago last year here. there was a teacher in one of the collage here that was stab to death by one of her student.simple because she refused to accept the boy proposal.which was, to marry her..in the beginning she thought it was a joke but she was wrong,the boy keep begging and pressuring her to marry him,but she keep saying NO!!. but the boy didn't want to give up.to an extend he keep following the woman around from school to her apartment etc. so to cut the story short,she decided to report the boy to the authorities,and finally the authorities decided to arrest the boy,caution him and let him go.but it didn't stop there.one faithful day the woman left school,arriving at her home she wanted to open the door but didn't have any clue that the boy was following her back home.so as soon as she wanted to open the door the boy came from behind and stab her several times and even cut her throat..IF YOU WANT TO KNOW MORE ABOUT THIS STORY, I BELIEVE YOU CAN GET IT ONLINE. i remember when i was a child my uncle brought a girl to her house when he left for work the boyfriend came killed her and left and this an environment where we have so many people , my other uncle taking care of us as kids hadto clean up the blood they said the blood was all over the house it's to terrible hearing and seeing this kind of story. those people are really sick!! so what happened to the boy?he just came in like a ghost and went out like a ghost, such people are very smart and u know there is no dna to trace him , thats why they should not be taken lightly , cos they dont look soo dangerous but are more dangerous than u can imagine
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Quote from: bittersweet on 6-04-2011 03:17 PM Quote from: blessedme on 6-04-2011 03:15 PM Quote from: bittersweet on 6-04-2011 03:09 PM Quote from: blessedme on 6-04-2011 03:07 PM BS d chase could be very interesting and enjoyable atimes ooo Come ooooon! Not in that case when you don't want to hear anything about him again! some could be so annoying that u wish he wasnt born while some could be fun all thru Hmm,but I'm referring at the annoying ones! 
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Dk not so oo but these guys could go to some extent and u will actually think they are crazy Replyimagine one i never like seeing his face.....went to where i use to have ma lunch and paid for one month advance and liase wif d woman to always give him a flash wen ever am around for lunch
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Quote from: blessedme on 6-04-2011 03:37 PM Dk not so oo but these guys could go to some extent and u will actually think they are crazy imagine one i never like seeing his face.....went to where i use to have ma lunch and paid for one month advance and liase wif d woman to always give him a flash wen ever am around for lunch Cheiii Another mumulayor
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Quote from: dirtykid on 6-04-2011 03:09 PM Quote from: bittersweet on 6-04-2011 03:07 PM @DK:I hear you, but it's not easy to handle such a situation at all! Absolutely ! is not an easy thing to handle, i pity ladies in such situation. So,what could a woman in such a situation do? (Repeat, in a nice and mature way! ) Live and let live!
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