![-]( "blessedme") blessedme at 6-04-2011 02:51 PM (14 years ago)  (f) Some stalker will even hunt you in your dream world ... Pray you all out there don't get involve with a serious Male stalker, then u must agree by force  My bf is one stalker any woman will never pray to meet.....he was stalking me for close to a year and i had no choice than to say yessssssssssssssssssssssss
But what if,for example, u want to break up with him,but he doesn't want to let u go?see i ve dated this guy for close to 7yrs and he wouldnt allow any guy come close to me....sometimes he sieze ma fones and pick ma calls etc and for these reason i ve call off d r/ship for many times but he just wouldnt lemme be...instead he promise to kill/cause havoc on ma wedding day to any other man.... such threats should not be taken lightly look for another environment another country to stay if you cant marry him,cos i have seen where someone sent a flower to somebody like death and threatened to kill her, i thought it was a joke, but today she is dead they said she was shot severally just tro besure she dies on the road in owerri , she was my boss very beautiful woman | Posted: at 6-04-2011 02:51 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "blessedme") blessedme at 6-04-2011 02:52 PM (14 years ago) (f) Some stalker will even hunt you in your dream world ... Pray you all out there don't get involve with a serious Male stalker, then u must agree by force My bf is one stalker any woman will never pray to meet.....he was stalking me for close to a year and i had no choice than to say yessssssssssssssssssssssss You see, this is exactly what i mean, Mostly male stalker's hardly give up, You see one year and still he keep hunting for u, There's always like 70% girls that will say Yes because of the pressure and uncomfortable life they will make u to be living, What i mean by dream worlds, is like you will get ready to go out somewhere, once you remember he will be around the corner waiting for u to start all the sermon all over, You will develop cold feet and so on. is not easy to let such person off the hook. wat really baffle me at times is that i dont just know he knows all ma schedule.....he follows me everywhere like a fly he has ma time table in his palm like i drafted it for him Of course he will, You're the only thing that bothers him at that moment, Don't be surprise ! His feelings for you that moment is what we call Erotomania in Psychological world. He will never let go unless his mission is complete. dont be surprise that i almost got raped by another stalker....buh thank God for ma dad who tot him a lesson...next time he sees me he goes a different direction i went on an errand for ma dad at 8pm with ma nickers on and a top carried wrapper as d weather was getting cold and this guy just appeared from nowhere started talking and d next thing he used his leg for me to fall..he tore ma nicker.....two women came to ma rescue.......it wasnt funny oo    That's serious! Thanks God that it wasn't worse than that!  I just thank God | Posted: at 6-04-2011 02:52 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "kebella") kebella at 6-04-2011 02:53 PM (14 years ago) (f) learning n' jolting
my name is kebella  ........yu already no that  ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! | Posted: at 6-04-2011 02:53 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "dirtykid") dirtykid at 6-04-2011 02:54 PM (14 years ago) (m) Some stalker will even hunt you in your dream world ... Pray you all out there don't get involve with a serious Male stalker, then u must agree by force My bf is one stalker any woman will never pray to meet.....he was stalking me for close to a year and i had no choice than to say yessssssssssssssssssssssss You see, this is exactly what i mean, Mostly male stalker's hardly give up, You see one year and still he keep hunting for u, There's always like 70% girls that will say Yes because of the pressure and uncomfortable life they will make u to be living, What i mean by dream worlds, is like you will get ready to go out somewhere, once you remember he will be around the corner waiting for u to start all the sermon all over, You will develop cold feet and so on. is not easy to let such person off the hook. wat really baffle me at times is that i dont just know he knows all ma schedule.....he follows me everywhere like a fly he has ma time table in his palm like i drafted it for him Of course he will, You're the only thing that bothers him at that moment, Don't be surprise ! His feelings for you that moment is what we call Erotomania in Psychological world. He will never let go unless his mission is complete. A chronic stalker don't care about that, if she agree or not, He will continue, never give up, because he wants to fill a gap of low self-esteem, trying to prove to himself that he got some real balls, to be honest with you, the earlier the victim accept him the better, there's some boundaries you can't push a chronic stalker to, Once it gets there, there Love earlier could automatically turn to hatred and they will continue hunting without given up,...... but then the victim got to be extra smart if she notice some changes in his approach. He might come up with plan B. Then you got to report this to the authority in charge .
She doesn't want to involve the authorities, because the guy is not life threatening, but just doesn't let her to move on!Such is not a stalker .... He's simply obsessed with what they share in common before during the relationship thing, as time goes on this type will give up, if the girl involve will present a new guy around few times, this kind of obsessed person will channel his way off the girl gradually. and also the guy is not life threatening, he has been with her and knows almost about her, so the dangers and risks are limit.
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !! | Posted: at 6-04-2011 02:54 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Some stalker will even hunt you in your dream world ... Pray you all out there don't get involve with a serious Male stalker, then u must agree by force My bf is one stalker any woman will never pray to meet.....he was stalking me for close to a year and i had no choice than to say yessssssssssssssssssssssss You see, this is exactly what i mean, Mostly male stalker's hardly give up, You see one year and still he keep hunting for u, There's always like 70% girls that will say Yes because of the pressure and uncomfortable life they will make u to be living, What i mean by dream worlds, is like you will get ready to go out somewhere, once you remember he will be around the corner waiting for u to start all the sermon all over, You will develop cold feet and so on. is not easy to let such person off the hook. wat really baffle me at times is that i dont just know he knows all ma schedule.....he follows me everywhere like a fly he has ma time table in his palm like i drafted it for him Of course he will, You're the only thing that bothers him at that moment, Don't be surprise ! His feelings for you that moment is what we call Erotomania in Psychological world. He will never let go unless his mission is complete. dont be surprise that i almost got raped by another stalker....buh thank God for ma dad who tot him a lesson...next time he sees me he goes a different direction i went on an errand for ma dad at 8pm with ma nickers on and a top carried wrapper as d weather was getting cold and this guy just appeared from nowhere started talking and d next thing he used his leg for me to fall..he tore ma nicker.....two women came to ma rescue.......it wasnt funny oo I just thank God
Live and let live! | Posted: at 6-04-2011 02:54 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "truenaija2") truenaija2 at 6-04-2011 02:54 PM (14 years ago) (f) Some stalker will even hunt you in your dream world ... Pray you all out there don't get involve with a serious Male stalker, then u must agree by force My bf is one stalker any woman will never pray to meet.....he was stalking me for close to a year and i had no choice than to say yessssssssssssssssssssssss
But what if,for example, u want to break up with him,but he doesn't want to let u go?see i ve dated this guy for close to 7yrs and he wouldnt allow any guy come close to me....sometimes he sieze ma fones and pick ma calls etc and for these reason i ve call off d r/ship for many times but he just wouldnt lemme be...instead he promise to kill/cause havoc on ma wedding day to any other man.... such threats should not be taken lightly look for another environment another country to stay if you cant marry him,cos i have seen where someone sent a flower to somebody like death and threatened to kill her, i thought it was a joke, but today she is dead they said she was shot severally just tro besure she dies on the road in owerri , she was my boss very beautiful woman ma dear...wish i had ma way i would have elope quickly...sorry about ur boss....so sad!! :'( :'( Thanks just be praying to GOD to deliver you from him | Posted: at 6-04-2011 02:54 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Some stalker will even hunt you in your dream world ... Pray you all out there don't get involve with a serious Male stalker, then u must agree by force My bf is one stalker any woman will never pray to meet.....he was stalking me for close to a year and i had no choice than to say yessssssssssssssssssssssss You see, this is exactly what i mean, Mostly male stalker's hardly give up, You see one year and still he keep hunting for u, There's always like 70% girls that will say Yes because of the pressure and uncomfortable life they will make u to be living, What i mean by dream worlds, is like you will get ready to go out somewhere, once you remember he will be around the corner waiting for u to start all the sermon all over, You will develop cold feet and so on. is not easy to let such person off the hook. wat really baffle me at times is that i dont just know he knows all ma schedule.....he follows me everywhere like a fly he has ma time table in his palm like i drafted it for him Of course he will, You're the only thing that bothers him at that moment, Don't be surprise ! His feelings for you that moment is what we call Erotomania in Psychological world. He will never let go unless his mission is complete. A chronic stalker don't care about that, if she agree or not, He will continue, never give up, because he wants to fill a gap of low self-esteem, trying to prove to himself that he got some real balls, to be honest with you, the earlier the victim accept him the better, there's some boundaries you can't push a chronic stalker to, Once it gets there, there Love earlier could automatically turn to hatred and they will continue hunting without given up,...... but then the victim got to be extra smart if she notice some changes in his approach. He might come up with plan B. Then you got to report this to the authority in charge .
She doesn't want to involve the authorities, because the guy is not life threatening, but just doesn't let her to move on!Such is not a stalker .... He's simply obsessed with what they share in common before during the relationship thing, as time goes on this type will give up, if the girl involve will present a new guy around few times, this kind of obsessed person will channel his way off the girl gradually. and also the guy is not life threatening, he has been with her and knows almost about her, so the dangers and risks are limit.
It's not life threatening, but really tiresome!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 6-04-2011 02:56 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Stalkers in da house............one tried in real life though but didnt hold on for long becos when my mind is made up about anything, I speak with so much passion and stress every word that you dont have a problem getting what am trying to say.........
I see,but I was referring, for ex.,at a person who was once dear to u,but from different reasons, u want to put an
end to any kind of relationship with that person, and u want to do it in a nice way,but he doesn't want to understand ? what about the scenario: I met this guy on a rainy day and after 4 weeks he popped the 'huge' question.......damn, I wasnt expecting that and I didnt think I wanted such with him and he kept bothering my life, insisting on me accepting becos he cant imagine a life without me.....hmmm, do I accept out of pity or what?....no no, I wont......I had a hard time trying to explain why I cant accept: My only reason was that I couldnt picture him in my future, I tried to create the picture, but it wouldnt fit. Forget about love here, becos it was too early too to start talking about that.........I had a hard time getting him off. He came to my place of work (dats where we met) but I had to make the security men to stop him from coming into my office, but he would patiently wait outside till i close. When i close, I will walk to the park and pretend i didnt see him, but he would try to board same bus as me or follow in another closely. He even wrote me letters filled with threats. Finally, I got traced home and that was when I threatened to report him to the police and also threatened to show the police the letters he wrote him. That did the job for me.... EZIOKWU!! so you are among the picky women huh?
What would u want her to do? To accept any dude who wakes up one day with the idea that he can't do without her?
Come on!Help me ask SBI ooo
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! | Posted: at 6-04-2011 02:57 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 6-04-2011 03:00 PM (14 years ago) (m) The thing that separates a stalker from a silly moonstruck pest intent on following u around ,is that the stalker is firmly fixated on u, whether out of a perverted kind of love or out of hatred for u.He may be a former intimate partner or he may be an erotomaniac, but either way,he believes that he is hopelessly in love with u (yes, he: there are four times as many male stalkers as females; 8% of all women will, at sometime in their lives, be stalked by a male, whereas only 2% of men will be stalked by a women). And,even worse, he believes that, if u are not already in love with him, it is inevitable that u will fall in love with him.
Have u ever been in such a situation and how can u get rid of such a person, in a nice way(no police)?
oh! i thought you said, you love being stalk by someone that love you huh  so why the change of mind?
When I said that?
If u reffer at "types of men" topic,it's not the same at all!There it's about a person u have a relationship with and not the other way around!
Try to get my point!
Check my previous answers here!yeah! i understand its difference.but my point is that,a stalker out of relationship will still be the same in relationship. meaning if he stalks you to a point you accept his proposal. believe it or not he will keep doing the same thing..in fact stalker is a sickness the only way to avoid such person is to report him/her to the authorities. I t would be easy to involve the authorities, but I was wondering if u can stop it in a nice way!i don't search for personal away to stop such person when there is absolutely no way. the earlier you report him/her to the authorities the easier and better for your life.cuz in some cases they do kill their victim. well maybe you haven't heard about some people been killed by stalker b4....or do we have another definition of stalker huh? now let me narrate a true life story to you.it happened sometime ago last year here. there was a teacher in one of the collage here that was stab to death by one of her student.simple because she refused to accept the boy proposal.which was, to marry her..in the beginning she thought it was a joke but she was wrong,the boy keep begging and pressuring her to marry him,but she keep saying NO!!. but the boy didn't want to give up.to an extend he keep following the woman around from school to her apartment etc. so to cut the story short,she decided to report the boy to the authorities,and finally the authorities decided to arrest the boy,caution him and let him go.but it didn't stop there.one faithful day the woman left school,arriving at her home she wanted to open the door but didn't have any clue that the boy was following her back home.so as soon as she wanted to open the door the boy came from behind and stab her several times and even cut her throat.. IF YOU WANT TO KNOW MORE ABOUT THIS STORY, I BELIEVE YOU CAN GET IT ONLINE. | Posted: at 6-04-2011 03:00 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "blessedme") blessedme at 6-04-2011 03:00 PM (14 years ago) (f) Some stalker will even hunt you in your dream world ... Pray you all out there don't get involve with a serious Male stalker, then u must agree by force My bf is one stalker any woman will never pray to meet.....he was stalking me for close to a year and i had no choice than to say yessssssssssssssssssssssss You see, this is exactly what i mean, Mostly male stalker's hardly give up, You see one year and still he keep hunting for u, There's always like 70% girls that will say Yes because of the pressure and uncomfortable life they will make u to be living, What i mean by dream worlds, is like you will get ready to go out somewhere, once you remember he will be around the corner waiting for u to start all the sermon all over, You will develop cold feet and so on. is not easy to let such person off the hook. wat really baffle me at times is that i dont just know he knows all ma schedule.....he follows me everywhere like a fly he has ma time table in his palm like i drafted it for him Of course he will, You're the only thing that bothers him at that moment, Don't be surprise ! His feelings for you that moment is what we call Erotomania in Psychological world. He will never let go unless his mission is complete. dont be surprise that i almost got raped by another stalker....buh thank God for ma dad who tot him a lesson...next time he sees me he goes a different direction i went on an errand for ma dad at 8pm with ma nickers on and a top carried wrapper as d weather was getting cold and this guy just appeared from nowhere started talking and d next thing he used his leg for me to fall..he tore ma nicker.....two women came to ma rescue.......it wasnt funny oo That means you must have something that attracts the bees to the honey pot You're Lucky such stalker is a local one, Don't dare Intelligent ones, because most stalkers are average brilliant thinkers, thats why they could record yr schedules and movement without mistaking. Dk sometimes i feel there is someone out there feeding them wif d info | Posted: at 6-04-2011 03:00 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Stalkers in da house............one tried in real life though but didnt hold on for long becos when my mind is made up about anything, I speak with so much passion and stress every word that you dont have a problem getting what am trying to say.........
I see,but I was referring, for ex.,at a person who was once dear to u,but from different reasons, u want to put an
end to any kind of relationship with that person, and u want to do it in a nice way,but he doesn't want to understand ? what about the scenario: I met this guy on a rainy day and after 4 weeks he popped the 'huge' question.......damn, I wasnt expecting that and I didnt think I wanted such with him and he kept bothering my life, insisting on me accepting becos he cant imagine a life without me.....hmmm, do I accept out of pity or what?....no no, I wont......I had a hard time trying to explain why I cant accept: My only reason was that I couldnt picture him in my future, I tried to create the picture, but it wouldnt fit. Forget about love here, becos it was too early too to start talking about that.........I had a hard time getting him off. He came to my place of work (dats where we met) but I had to make the security men to stop him from coming into my office, but he would patiently wait outside till i close. When i close, I will walk to the park and pretend i didnt see him, but he would try to board same bus as me or follow in another closely. He even wrote me letters filled with threats. Finally, I got traced home and that was when I threatened to report him to the police and also threatened to show the police the letters he wrote him. That did the job for me.... EZIOKWU!! so you are among the picky women huh?
What would u want her to do? To accept any dude who wakes up one day with the idea that he can't do without her?
Come on!Help me ask SBI ooo 
Live and let live! | Posted: at 6-04-2011 03:01 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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The thing that separates a stalker from a silly moonstruck pest intent on following u around ,is that the stalker is firmly fixated on u, whether out of a perverted kind of love or out of hatred for u.He may be a former intimate partner or he may be an erotomaniac, but either way,he believes that he is hopelessly in love with u (yes, he: there are four times as many male stalkers as females; 8% of all women will, at sometime in their lives, be stalked by a male, whereas only 2% of men will be stalked by a women). And,even worse, he believes that, if u are not already in love with him, it is inevitable that u will fall in love with him.
Have u ever been in such a situation and how can u get rid of such a person, in a nice way(no police)?
oh! i thought you said, you love being stalk by someone that love you huh so why the change of mind?
When I said that?
If u reffer at "types of men" topic,it's not the same at all!There it's about a person u have a relationship with and not the other way around!
Try to get my point!
Check my previous answers here!yeah! i understand its difference.but my point is that,a stalker out of relationship will still be the same in relationship. meaning if he stalks you to a point you accept his proposal. believe it or not he will keep doing the same thing..in fact stalker is a sickness the only way to avoid such person is to report him/her to the authorities. I t would be easy to involve the authorities, but I was wondering if u can stop it in a nice way!i don't search for personal away to stop such person when there is absolutely no way. the earlier you report him/her to the authorities the easier and better for your life.cuz in some cases they do kill their victim. well maybe you haven't heard about some people been killed by stalker b4....or do we have another definition of stalker huh? now let me narrate a true life story to you.it happened sometime ago last year here. there was a teacher in one of the collage here that was stab to death by one of her student.simple because she refused to accept the boy proposal.which was, to marry her..in the beginning she thought it was a joke but she was wrong,the boy keep begging and pressuring her to marry him,but she keep saying NO!!. but the boy didn't want to give up.to an extend he keep following the woman around from school to her apartment etc. so to cut the story short,she decided to report the boy to the authorities,and finally the authorities decided to arrest the boy,caution him and let him go.but it didn't stop there.one faithful day the woman left school,arriving at her home she wanted to open the door but didn't have any clue that the boy was following her back home.so as soon as she wanted to open the door the boy came from behind and stab her several times and even cut her throat.. IF YOU WANT TO KNOW MORE ABOUT THIS STORY, I BELIEVE YOU CAN GET IT ONLINE.
Live and let live! | Posted: at 6-04-2011 03:03 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 6-04-2011 03:03 PM (14 years ago) (m) Stalkers in da house............one tried in real life though but didnt hold on for long becos when my mind is made up about anything, I speak with so much passion and stress every word that you dont have a problem getting what am trying to say.........
I see,but I was referring, for ex.,at a person who was once dear to u,but from different reasons, u want to put an
end to any kind of relationship with that person, and u want to do it in a nice way,but he doesn't want to understand ? what about the scenario: I met this guy on a rainy day and after 4 weeks he popped the 'huge' question.......damn, I wasnt expecting that and I didnt think I wanted such with him and he kept bothering my life, insisting on me accepting becos he cant imagine a life without me.....hmmm, do I accept out of pity or what?....no no, I wont......I had a hard time trying to explain why I cant accept: My only reason was that I couldnt picture him in my future, I tried to create the picture, but it wouldnt fit. Forget about love here, becos it was too early too to start talking about that.........I had a hard time getting him off. He came to my place of work (dats where we met) but I had to make the security men to stop him from coming into my office, but he would patiently wait outside till i close. When i close, I will walk to the park and pretend i didnt see him, but he would try to board same bus as me or follow in another closely. He even wrote me letters filled with threats. Finally, I got traced home and that was when I threatened to report him to the police and also threatened to show the police the letters he wrote him. That did the job for me.... EZIOKWU!! so you are among the picky women huh? Why I no go pick?........he was many things a woman would want for in a man (physically, but the 'real human' in him was nothing to write home about. He looked down on people, he was a spoilt brat, dat was and is still not my idea of my ideal man hmmm ic..no more comment. | Posted: at 6-04-2011 03:03 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "dirtykid") dirtykid at 6-04-2011 03:04 PM (14 years ago) (m) Some stalker will even hunt you in your dream world ... Pray you all out there don't get involve with a serious Male stalker, then u must agree by force My bf is one stalker any woman will never pray to meet.....he was stalking me for close to a year and i had no choice than to say yessssssssssssssssssssssss You see, this is exactly what i mean, Mostly male stalker's hardly give up, You see one year and still he keep hunting for u, There's always like 70% girls that will say Yes because of the pressure and uncomfortable life they will make u to be living, What i mean by dream worlds, is like you will get ready to go out somewhere, once you remember he will be around the corner waiting for u to start all the sermon all over, You will develop cold feet and so on. is not easy to let such person off the hook. wat really baffle me at times is that i dont just know he knows all ma schedule.....he follows me everywhere like a fly he has ma time table in his palm like i drafted it for him Of course he will, You're the only thing that bothers him at that moment, Don't be surprise ! His feelings for you that moment is what we call Erotomania in Psychological world. He will never let go unless his mission is complete. A chronic stalker don't care about that, if she agree or not, He will continue, never give up, because he wants to fill a gap of low self-esteem, trying to prove to himself that he got some real balls, to be honest with you, the earlier the victim accept him the better, there's some boundaries you can't push a chronic stalker to, Once it gets there, there Love earlier could automatically turn to hatred and they will continue hunting without given up,...... but then the victim got to be extra smart if she notice some changes in his approach. He might come up with plan B. Then you got to report this to the authority in charge .
She doesn't want to involve the authorities, because the guy is not life threatening, but just doesn't let her to move on!Such is not a stalker .... He's simply obsessed with what they share in common before during the relationship thing, as time goes on this type will give up, if the girl involve will present a new guy around few times, this kind of obsessed person will channel his way off the girl gradually. and also the guy is not life threatening, he has been with her and knows almost about her, so the dangers and risks are limit.
It's not life threatening, but really tiresome! I heard and read what you mean, But i tell you one simple truth, He might behave anything similar to that, but he is not !! Because there was a normal relationship before, of which the stalking issue wasn't the result of the breakup, Unless there was some components of stalker's behavior noticed in him that lead to the break up, if not He's not stalker and cannot be....... Moment of truth about this, Some guys can't stand a breakup, likewise some girls, The feel their world has come to an end, Such situation always lead to some people to take their own life or try to commit suicide if someone wasn't there to talk them back to normal. A stalker will never try to take his own life just like that.
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !! | Posted: at 6-04-2011 03:04 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "blessedme") blessedme at 6-04-2011 03:05 PM (14 years ago) (f) Some stalker will even hunt you in your dream world ... Pray you all out there don't get involve with a serious Male stalker, then u must agree by force My bf is one stalker any woman will never pray to meet.....he was stalking me for close to a year and i had no choice than to say yessssssssssssssssssssssss
But what if,for example, u want to break up with him,but he doesn't want to let u go?see i ve dated this guy for close to 7yrs and he wouldnt allow any guy come close to me....sometimes he sieze ma fones and pick ma calls etc and for these reason i ve call off d r/ship for many times but he just wouldnt lemme be...instead he promise to kill/cause havoc on ma wedding day to any other man.... such threats should not be taken lightly look for another environment another country to stay if you cant marry him,cos i have seen where someone sent a flower to somebody like death and threatened to kill her, i thought it was a joke, but today she is dead they said she was shot severally just tro besure she dies on the road in owerri , she was my boss very beautiful woman ma dear...wish i had ma way i would have elope quickly...sorry about ur boss....so sad!! :'( :'( Thanks just be praying to GOD to deliver you from him thanks dear  | Posted: at 6-04-2011 03:05 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "blessedme") blessedme at 6-04-2011 03:06 PM (14 years ago) (f) Some stalker will even hunt you in your dream world ... Pray you all out there don't get involve with a serious Male stalker, then u must agree by force My bf is one stalker any woman will never pray to meet.....he was stalking me for close to a year and i had no choice than to say yessssssssssssssssssssssss You see, this is exactly what i mean, Mostly male stalker's hardly give up, You see one year and still he keep hunting for u, There's always like 70% girls that will say Yes because of the pressure and uncomfortable life they will make u to be living, What i mean by dream worlds, is like you will get ready to go out somewhere, once you remember he will be around the corner waiting for u to start all the sermon all over, You will develop cold feet and so on. is not easy to let such person off the hook. wat really baffle me at times is that i dont just know he knows all ma schedule.....he follows me everywhere like a fly he has ma time table in his palm like i drafted it for him Of course he will, You're the only thing that bothers him at that moment, Don't be surprise ! His feelings for you that moment is what we call Erotomania in Psychological world. He will never let go unless his mission is complete. dont be surprise that i almost got raped by another stalker....buh thank God for ma dad who tot him a lesson...next time he sees me he goes a different direction i went on an errand for ma dad at 8pm with ma nickers on and a top carried wrapper as d weather was getting cold and this guy just appeared from nowhere started talking and d next thing he used his leg for me to fall..he tore ma nicker.....two women came to ma rescue.......it wasnt funny oo I just thank God yea | Posted: at 6-04-2011 03:06 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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@DK:I hear you, but it's not easy to handle such a situation at all!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 6-04-2011 03:07 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "blessedme") blessedme at 6-04-2011 03:07 PM (14 years ago) (f) BS d chase could be very interesting and enjoyable atimes ooo | Posted: at 6-04-2011 03:07 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "truenaija2") truenaija2 at 6-04-2011 03:07 PM (14 years ago) (f) The thing that separates a stalker from a silly moonstruck pest intent on following u around ,is that the stalker is firmly fixated on u, whether out of a perverted kind of love or out of hatred for u.He may be a former intimate partner or he may be an erotomaniac, but either way,he believes that he is hopelessly in love with u (yes, he: there are four times as many male stalkers as females; 8% of all women will, at sometime in their lives, be stalked by a male, whereas only 2% of men will be stalked by a women). And,even worse, he believes that, if u are not already in love with him, it is inevitable that u will fall in love with him.
Have u ever been in such a situation and how can u get rid of such a person, in a nice way(no police)?
oh! i thought you said, you love being stalk by someone that love you huh so why the change of mind?
When I said that?
If u reffer at "types of men" topic,it's not the same at all!There it's about a person u have a relationship with and not the other way around!
Try to get my point!
Check my previous answers here!yeah! i understand its difference.but my point is that,a stalker out of relationship will still be the same in relationship. meaning if he stalks you to a point you accept his proposal. believe it or not he will keep doing the same thing..in fact stalker is a sickness the only way to avoid such person is to report him/her to the authorities. I t would be easy to involve the authorities, but I was wondering if u can stop it in a nice way!i don't search for personal away to stop such person when there is absolutely no way. the earlier you report him/her to the authorities the easier and better for your life.cuz in some cases they do kill their victim. well maybe you haven't heard about some people been killed by stalker b4....or do we have another definition of stalker huh? now let me narrate a true life story to you.it happened sometime ago last year here. there was a teacher in one of the collage here that was stab to death by one of her student.simple because she refused to accept the boy proposal.which was, to marry her..in the beginning she thought it was a joke but she was wrong,the boy keep begging and pressuring her to marry him,but she keep saying NO!!. but the boy didn't want to give up.to an extend he keep following the woman around from school to her apartment etc. so to cut the story short,she decided to report the boy to the authorities,and finally the authorities decided to arrest the boy,caution him and let him go.but it didn't stop there.one faithful day the woman left school,arriving at her home she wanted to open the door but didn't have any clue that the boy was following her back home.so as soon as she wanted to open the door the boy came from behind and stab her several times and even cut her throat.. IF YOU WANT TO KNOW MORE ABOUT THIS STORY, I BELIEVE YOU CAN GET IT ONLINE.i remember when i was a child my uncle brought a girl to her house when he left for work the boyfriend came killed her and left and this an environment where we have so many people , my other uncle taking care of us as kids hadto clean up the blood they said the blood was all over the house | Posted: at 6-04-2011 03:07 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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BS d chase could be very interesting and enjoyable atimes ooo
Come ooooon!
Not in that case when you don't want to hear anything about him again!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 6-04-2011 03:09 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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