Who Should be Blamed..............? (Page 3)

The woman will be blamed in most cases.....for the unprotected sex, the pregnancy, abandoning the child, or for terminating the pregnancy.
In many cases let that same woman give birth to a child.... and then she is blamed and criticized for seeking child support. We live in an im-perfect world, and it sad that the innocent children have to suffer for the irresponsibility of adults.

Posted: at 2-05-2011 07:55 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

eii wait 4 me...

Posted: at 2-05-2011 08:54 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Bless you for this comment

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Posted: at 2-05-2011 10:24 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

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Posted: at 3-05-2011 09:02 AM (12 years ago) | Hero

condoms are not made only to prevent segxwal transmitted deseases but also unwanted pregnacy. both parties should be responsible for thier action but especially a mom who is a carrier. in most cases we try to please our men at our expense. if u are not ready to be a mom, tell the guy. if the man really loves you he'll respect ur decision. sometimes, these so-called boyfriends will force girls to abort. the onus lies on you if you want keep ur devil boyfriend who wants you to kill or you put your life first. there are plenty fish in the sea.

Posted: at 3-05-2011 09:10 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

both parties are to blame, cos it took the irresponsible girl to get impregnated by the irresponsible man, hence the unwanted child. Y would  girl allow herself to become pregnant with a child she knows she does not want to keep? What's the wisdom in dumping after birth? She is as guilty as committing an abortion. So, for every curse given as a result of a dumped child, both parties share are recipients of them.

Posted: at 3-05-2011 10:13 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

They should tame their snake 

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Posted: at 3-05-2011 11:08 AM (12 years ago) | Hero

That brings me back to a question i once asked "which will u prefere ........aborting a pregnancy or having a deformed child?"

before a single woman abandos her child , so many things comes into play .Most of them tried to abort them and either the abortion failed(illigale) or they changed their minds to keep them but discovered after delivery that the child is handicapped .

That is why i preach against sex before marriage because the risks are very high but "if u must , be responsible in your actions" dont ever allow your feelings to control your actions .
When a lady abondons her child ............its easier for her to to be repentant later and ask God for forgiveness because she knew what she did .So many men both young and old are beeing trailed by curses that they are not aware of.................like getting a lady pregnant without knowing and she abandons the child afterwards

as for the curses both share in it

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Posted: at 3-05-2011 11:33 AM (12 years ago) | Hero

That is really a very serious question here........

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Posted: at 3-05-2011 12:25 PM (12 years ago) | Hero

............waiting for a response 

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Posted: at 3-05-2011 12:37 PM (12 years ago) | Hero