ok, i really have a problem. i`m dating this guy for almost 2 months... ok. i met him in a club... everything was ok. he likes me, i like him too. but he is.. too cold i guess. i am never on the first place to him. today i asked him.. what is his opinion about our relationship he told me: "it`s casual, we need to build it" and i asked him how, he said "one step at a time, i don`t like to rush things, i am not good at rushing things".
boys, girls... what do u think???
ok, i understand that he is busy, he works and he`s doing his masters. but dunno`... sometimes this whole things resumes at me, going to his place and spend the night there. ok... we went out to clubs or for coffee but... dunno... he`s just not paying to me as much attention as i want. i tried to tell him once. he started by saying that he likes me, he has nothin against me... and im the end he ended up by saying"go find someone else who will kiss your ass" ok... after this we make up... he said he was nervous but... offff
i don`t know what to believe... he likes me or not... what does he want from me? should i go on with this relationship or not? is it worth?
Posted: at 25-12-2008 12:13 AM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
yeah... i am serious. i really care about him... but u know... sometimes he is very nice, sometimes he is very cold, sometimes he call me twice a day... sometimes we just talk a bit on y mess....
at the beginning dunno`... maybe he had more freetime or... maybe i was sooooooo phyukin` wrong by sleeping with him too soon.
but u know... it comes a day .. and we talked about that. when u realise that it`s not important after how many time u make love with the person next to u... it`s important the desire, and what u feel.
i don`t know what to do... if i try totalk with him about our relationship... it`s always the same answer: one step at a time. but hell no... it`s been almost 2 months... nothin` has changed... either he is busy... as he pretends... either he doesn`t give a f.uck
Posted: at 25-12-2008 12:24 AM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
papamedupin at 25-12-2008 12:37 AM (16 years ago) (m)
dont know wat 2 say really.but b patient,study him well.if after somtym u still feel uncomfortable,let him know n discuss wit him.if it doesnt workout still.... bail out.
Posted: at 25-12-2008 12:37 AM (16 years ago) | Newbie
dont know wat 2 say really.but b patient,study him well.if after somtym u still feel uncomfortable,let him know n discuss wit him.if it doesnt workout still.... bail out.
study his creepy DUNNO mind?
Posted: at 25-12-2008 12:38 AM (16 years ago) | Hero
oh... not just hearing i mean... we went out.. i went to his place, spent the nigh there... i know his friends... bl abla bla but... not too often, in my opinion. lol
Posted: at 25-12-2008 12:46 AM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
i mean... from the first time when we were into the club and he looked into my eyes...(even if was pretty dark lol) i felt like... butterflies in my stomach... and when he touches me i`m just... melting... i feel just high
Posted: at 25-12-2008 01:06 AM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
do u think that the religion can be a factor? i mean... he is a muslim and... muslims have a different way to threat theiw women as far as i know...
i remember this time... we were in a club... with his friends. we were staying all together. he was staying with his friends, and with me, next to me.. he bought me drinks, we kissed a hugged few times bla bla bla but he didn`t approach too much. when we left home in the car he started to hug me, kiss me u know... and i asked him why he changed the behaviour and he said "well... when we are with my friends, u have to come to me and kiss me, hug me, i will never come to you". And that was the explanation. lol. i was... stunned but.. what to do? this is life.. i really try hard to understand him.
Posted: at 25-12-2008 01:13 AM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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