What did you guys think about Interracial Marriage or Dating??? (Page 4)

Date: 25-10-2011 8:25 am (13 years ago) | Author: Adaeze It Princess
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- serababy at 26-10-2011 11:14 AM (13 years ago)
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my dear is ur life , love dnt have colours so if u love him do ur tin , dey will get to like him later , ur happiness frist....
Posted: at 26-10-2011 11:14 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- olakelvin at 26-10-2011 11:27 AM (13 years ago)
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I think you might need to be patience , bcos i was in the same situation like you before when i'm dating 1 oyinbo girl . But , i final listen  to them  like prodigal son after i learnt bad experience from it . But parent advice is very important in our lives , but it takes me a while to understand that . i didn't say ur man is bad man , but i will just say u need to take time to look at both parties bcos love is blind and u might never know what was behind it . this is my piece advise for you .
Posted: at 26-10-2011 11:27 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- princeaduro at 26-10-2011 11:30 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: lopez2424 on 25-10-2011 09:31 AM
No one can say what the whole future will be. I know a girl who had the very same situation you're in, she is white dating a Nigeria guy,her family disapprove thier relationship,she turn them down and move on with her man they have 2kids... i was in thier house sunday all i see is LOVE i was really happy for them... Why does't your family approve? it's strictly because of the race issue? If that's the case then don't worry about what they think. If they don't approve because of who he is in general (personality etc.) then maybe you should hear them out..  Yes that is a tough choice, but there are a few issues here to consider

If this guy is of good character and your parents are prejudice of him because he is white, then I think you need to take a stand against this form of hate and discrimination that exists in society. Your family needs to be confronted with their racism and if you back down, they may never resolve this flaw within themselves.

We have to stand against hatred and bigotry if we ever want to see this world change to see all people treated with the dignity and respect they deserve. I know this is your family we’re talking about, but it doesn’t justify their behavior. They are trying to control you and you are an adult, free to make your own choices with your life.

I think that they will back down once they realize you love this guy and are not going to be manipulated by them. I’m sure they love you and don’t want to lose you so in time they’ll probably come around. Just be the bigger person and keep the doors of communication open even during the rough patch.

So the lessons to learn here are to always stand up for what you believe in and people who are being mistreated as well as never let anyone manipulate or control you. I know you’ll do the right thing and your family will learn how to be better people through your example. by the way i'm in Interracial marriage  too Cheesy Cheesy  Cool my husband is canadian.

All the best!

I so much appreciate your advice.
thumbs up.
Posted: at 26-10-2011 11:30 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- whitedove255 at 26-10-2011 11:38 AM (13 years ago)
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reading...
Posted: at 26-10-2011 11:38 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Youngstoriez at 26-10-2011 11:55 AM (13 years ago)
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make the guy go hug transformer
Posted: at 26-10-2011 11:55 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Youngstoriez at 26-10-2011 11:59 AM (13 years ago)
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Me myself no go allow white person for my houx Grin Grin
Posted: at 26-10-2011 11:59 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- walexdinho at 26-10-2011 12:16 PM (13 years ago)
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just go with your heart
Posted: at 26-10-2011 12:16 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- ochuko100 at 26-10-2011 12:36 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Adaeze7777 on 25-10-2011 08:34 AM
Sorry i'm 32years old
just pray hard.
Posted: at 26-10-2011 12:36 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- ochuko100 at 26-10-2011 12:38 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Adaeze7777 on 25-10-2011 08:34 AM
Sorry i'm 32years old
Posted: at 26-10-2011 12:38 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- 3nema at 26-10-2011 01:37 PM (13 years ago)
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Ur story s halfway....u did not give details of their reasons. I believe its not just because he s white.

Posted: at 26-10-2011 01:37 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- GOLDENMEDAH at 26-10-2011 02:39 PM (13 years ago)
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follow ur mind gurl as long as he's making u happy, go on marry her...
Posted: at 26-10-2011 02:39 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- akposy19 at 26-10-2011 04:10 PM (13 years ago)
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Listening
Posted: at 26-10-2011 04:10 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Ominiscience at 26-10-2011 04:25 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Sodman4luv on 26-10-2011 08:44 AM
lol
Adaeze is your name' meaning the kings daughter, talking about tradition and moral values.
One w'ld expect tracies of some wits, Its all good though' I mean no harm, keeping it open.
Cleopatra was a queen of the ancient Egyptian kingdom, dating  Alexander the great,
Snoop-dog "drop it like its hot - drop it like its hot...... " That's how the story goes..........
Like Catherine Turner and Michael Douglas, in romancing the stone. "Angelina Columbia."
If you read and understood my post, you w'ld not take it personal. I really hope you don't.
Good luck. Smiley
Posted: at 26-10-2011 04:25 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ajanni at 26-10-2011 09:15 PM (13 years ago)
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brb
Posted: at 26-10-2011 09:15 PM (13 years ago) | Grande Master
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- lopez2424 at 27-10-2011 09:47 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: princeaduro on 26-10-2011 11:30 AM
Quote from: lopez2424 on 25-10-2011 09:31 AM
No one can say what the whole future will be. I know a girl who had the very same situation you're in, she is white dating a Nigeria guy,her family disapprove thier relationship,she turn them down and move on with her man they have 2kids... i was in thier house sunday all i see is LOVE i was really happy for them... Why does't your family approve? it's strictly because of the race issue? If that's the case then don't worry about what they think. If they don't approve because of who he is in general (personality etc.) then maybe you should hear them out..  Yes that is a tough choice, but there are a few issues here to consider

If this guy is of good character and your parents are prejudice of him because he is white, then I think you need to take a stand against this form of hate and discrimination that exists in society. Your family needs to be confronted with their racism and if you back down, they may never resolve this flaw within themselves.

We have to stand against hatred and bigotry if we ever want to see this world change to see all people treated with the dignity and respect they deserve. I know this is your family we’re talking about, but it doesn’t justify their behavior. They are trying to control you and you are an adult, free to make your own choices with your life.

I think that they will back down once they realize you love this guy and are not going to be manipulated by them. I’m sure they love you and don’t want to lose you so in time they’ll probably come around. Just be the bigger person and keep the doors of communication open even during the rough patch.

So the lessons to learn here are to always stand up for what you believe in and people who are being mistreated as well as never let anyone manipulate or control you. I know you’ll do the right thing and your family will learn how to be better people through your example. by the way i'm in Interracial marriage  too Cheesy Cheesy  Cool my husband is canadian.

All the best!

I so much appreciate your advice.
thumbs up.


Thank you Smiley
Posted: at 27-10-2011 09:47 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Lekan22 at 27-10-2011 11:38 AM (13 years ago)
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There is nothing wrong in it.
Posted: at 27-10-2011 11:38 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ajanni at 27-10-2011 03:22 PM (13 years ago)
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if due process is follow
Posted: at 27-10-2011 03:22 PM (13 years ago) | Grande Master
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- lastdonn at 27-10-2011 09:30 PM (13 years ago)
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you are really a nice and good girl,you have enough of time to listen to people's voice that is nice of you,if i were you i think to do the right thing for my life,who are they to decide for me?any way i wish you goodluck.
Posted: at 27-10-2011 09:30 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- jeffrey4u at 27-10-2011 11:43 PM (13 years ago)
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follow ya heart
Posted: at 27-10-2011 11:43 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Denallan at 27-10-2011 11:52 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Adaeze7777 on 25-10-2011 08:34 AM
Sorry i'm 32years old

Aren't u too old 2 be deferring matters of the heart to your parents?
Posted: at 27-10-2011 11:52 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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