Crying and Smiling wives (Page 7)

Date: 13-11-2011 10:31 pm (9 years ago) | Author: lynn
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- escapedprince at 14-11-2011 08:38 PM (9 years ago)
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Quote from: lynnclassic on 14-11-2011 08:08 PM
  think u r being harsh here why speaking in such manner we r all contributing not to blame her coz u don't know the real problem,u should rather give her an advice pls!!
[size=14p Truth hurts!!! i based my  response on what she wrote, I'm not here to hold anybody's hand i say it the way i see it,  by the way what are you contributing to? you should advise her to go home and pay attention to her husband, than listening to her one sided whinning, many women are deluded about the concept of marriage these days in the name of modernity and civilization they have shied  away from thier wifely duties, and have disguised irresponsibilty as a cultural truth and societal evolution.[/size]
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- kelechi86 at 14-11-2011 08:43 PM (9 years ago)
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mh!
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- dirtykid at 14-11-2011 08:58 PM (9 years ago)
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Quote from: holylies on 14-11-2011 07:12 PM
HEY!
ARE YOU A POLICE? IF YES, MAKE SURE YOU NEVER ARREST ANYBODY FROM THIS SITE OHHHHHHHHHHHHH.

AND FOR YOUR INCOOOOOO. NEXT TIME DONT SAY SCAMMERS WHILE NOT YOUR MEANT.



I pray u guys not to awake my grammatical grammarlogy becos the whole department of NP will not contain all of the grammartus grammarlogical i will produce.  Grin Grin

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- lynnclassic at 14-11-2011 09:01 PM (9 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on 14-11-2011 08:58 PM

I pray u guys not to awake my grammatical grammarlogy becos the whole department of NP will not contain all of the grammartus grammarlogical i will produce.  Grin Grin
pls produce it lol
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- Celestial1 at 14-11-2011 09:02 PM (9 years ago)
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The general consensus seems to be the woman is at fault here and she needs to do this and that to ensure the man doesn't stray.  Every recommendation is to tell her to freshen up, cook, submit etc.  My observation of seeing a fair share of women who have been in this situation is that there is not a bloody thing a woman can do to stop a  man from cheating on her. NOTHING!

If a man wants to cheat, he will cheat because cheating is character flaw like stealing, or lying.  Women have gone as far as to donate their kidney, bone marrow and the man still cheated when he got over his illness, divorced her azz, and is walking around with her body part in him while he goes on with his life.  If your man is cheating on you, do not get down in the dumps about it.  Reinvent yourself, go back to school and learn something new, advance yourself in every way, go out more with your girlfriends, take vacations and live your life.  Get a makeover, buy new clothes and get out there and live your life.  Now, I am not telling anybody to go out there and cheat, all I am saying is staying home bawling in your pillow, and thinking you did something wrong will only cause illness and send you to your grave sooner; then he marries one of those hussies and they come in your home and start raising your children while you are cold in the grave.  If that's the outcome you want then continue bawling and be depressed, because I have seen that too, but if you intend to be a survivor, then do like all survivors do.  Get out there and live your life, and don't let anybody tell you you need to jump through hoops and twist yourself into a pretzel to let him not stray.  Also  make sure that mofo uses a condom every time,  also make sure you have money saved in the event he kicks you to the curb.  
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- lynnclassic at 14-11-2011 09:13 PM (9 years ago)
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Quote from: Celestial1 on 14-11-2011 09:02 PM
The general consensus seems to be the woman is at fault here and she needs to do this and that to ensure the man doesn't stray.  Every recommendation is to tell her to freshen up, cook, submit etc.  My observation of seeing a fair share of women who have been in this situation is that there is not a bloody thing a woman can do to stop a  man from cheating on her. NOTHING!

If a man wants to cheat, he will cheat because cheating is character flaw like stealing, or lying.  Women have gone as far as to donate their kidney, bone marrow and the man still cheated when he got over his illness, divorced her azz, and is walking around with her body part in him while he goes on with his life.  If your man is cheating on you, do not get down in the dumps about it.  Reinvent yourself, go back to school and learn something new, advance yourself in every way, go out more with your girlfriends, take vacations and live your life.  Get a makeover, buy new clothes and get out there and live your life.  Now, I am not telling anybody to go out there and cheat, all I am saying is staying home bawling in your pillow, and thinking you did something wrong will only cause illness and send you to your grave sooner; then he marries one of those hussies and they come in your home and start raising your children while you are cold in the grave.  If that's the outcome you want then continue bawling and be depressed, because I have seen that too, but if you intend to be a survivor, then do like all survivors do.  Get out there and live your life, and don't let anybody tell you you need to jump through hoops and twist yourself into a pretzel to let him not stray.  Also  make sure that mofo uses a condom every time,  also make sure you have money saved in the event he kicks you to the curb.  
WOW U JUST HIT D POINT
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- segxykay at 14-11-2011 09:24 PM (9 years ago)
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am still single without galfriend, but not searching
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- dirtykid at 14-11-2011 09:28 PM (9 years ago)
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 Grin Grin Grin Cheesy Cheesy

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- djedeep at 14-11-2011 09:39 PM (9 years ago)
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Good day i really understand what u talking about, but believe is not just about nigerian men but men in general, this has been a longlife thing going from generation to generation.  but jet all men cant be bad,How many honest, intelligent, caring men in the world , so many  i know u talking about a wild %tage of men , u really have to meet Caring Men who knows what it means to love and be caring, i mean God fearing men, cos love is supose to be a supernatural relationship friendschip that can be adopted in to both sex of humanity ( male and female) with caring men u Are more Happier Than Traditional 'Macho' Men,
Dear sister im not jurging but belive me women are worse than men, men talks, women dont talk, women are very secrectful and clever when they are Checting . thesame thing we have good caring women, Traditional, God fearing women have taken on a more caring role than exposed educated women and this still holds true today.
This has become a problem, since European and national
policy started ...
so this is really personal not about men or women but who u are. greetings Austin
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- djedeep at 14-11-2011 09:39 PM (9 years ago)
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Quote from: segxykay on 14-11-2011 09:24 PM
am still single without galfriend, but not searching
Good day i really understand what u talking about, but belive is not just about nigerian men but men in general, this has been a longlife thing going from generation to generation.  but jet all men cant be bad,How many honest, intelligent, caring men in the world , so many  i know u talking about a wild %tage of men , u really have to meet Caring Men who knows what it means to love and be caring, i mean God fearing men, cos love is supose to be a supernatural relationship friendschip that can be adopted in to both sex of humanity ( male and female) with caring men u Are more Happier Than Traditional 'Macho' Men,
Dear sister im not jurging but belive me women are worse than men, men talks, women dont talk, women are very secrectful and clever when they are Checting . thesame thing we have good caring women, Traditional, God fearing women have taken on a more caring role than exposed educated women and this still holds true today.
This has become a problem, since European and national
policy started ...
so this is really personal not about men or women but who u are. greetings Austin
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- toibeli at 14-11-2011 10:05 PM (9 years ago)
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If you get married to someone you do not love, you are bound to cry a whole lot.
Posted: at 14-11-2011 10:05 PM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Hacco at 14-11-2011 10:41 PM (9 years ago)
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« posted : November 14, 2011, 03:34:26 AM (19 hrs ago) »




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(Married Women(WM) must take care of themselves even after married. You must always look your best. How can you look like Cinderella in your office then look like old granny when u get home? Plz get into the shower and freshen up. Even when u want to join him in bed, always look fresh. You don't have to look like a superstar but take good care of yourself.

Do not give 100% of your time to your children. Your husbands must continue to be the center of your life. See one day those children will grow up and move out but your marriage will not follow them. So spend quality time with your husbands. For example: If you r making love with him and your 2 months old baby was sleeping and then all of a sudden he started crying, you must not leave your husband to attain to the baby. Finish the Love-making with him first. But the baby's bed must be well secured.

Trust him to take care of your children, whether they are only 5 hours/days old. Even though he doesn't know how to change their diaper. If the baby is cryin in his arm, u must not take the baby unless he want u to.

Money do have wings and they may fly away from him today and he may fine another tomorrow. So you should always support him and never talk down on a man when he is financially bothered. Do not compare your marriage to other couples. If the bills are pile up, it means that your man is troubled so don't use that moment to tear him down with your mouth. Support him cover the bills o...

Surprise him, take him to a hotel, adore him, praise him, honor him, call him my little lord or whatever you like.

Appreciate him, real men don't show their love/feelings through words, they express it through actions. So learn how to understand your man. Say thank you. And define his hard work. Give him a beautiful comment on every little thing he does. IF your husband buy you a nice skirt, yeap, he just want you to wear it so that other men can be jealous of your sweet butts so wear it and thank him with a nice comment.

Teach your children how to be responsible on the dining table. Your 5 yrs old boy should pour that milk inside his own cup while you pour it inside your husband's cup. Your children must not say: mom can you pass me the salt? He should know how to get the salt on his own.. It gives them sense of belongings not sense of controlling or they may get spoil.

Your husbands shouldn't be the only one to initiate sex play. You should also do it often. You don't do it to make him detect what's on your mind. Just do it. Let him see it in your eyes that you want him period but use some characteristics, styles, plays and techniques but they must all be cleared. And whenever you guys argue or fight, please do not punish him from touching you. I repeat, do not punish him from touching you....!

Support him and do not always suspect him in public because real man always look but they never attempts to touch. They will even look at your sister, mom, cousin, and friends' butt. Even your grannies    so that must not bothered you or fight him when you all get home that night.

If you have been doing all these above, cleaning, cooking taking care of the kids and he does not show you any sign then stop cleaning, watching the dishes, don't even clean the floor. And when he ask you why, then you can tell him how much you want him to recognize the little contribution/effort to the family.

Your husband may not really know who he is or what he really want out life until maybe after few years of been your husband. Besides, he knew that you will help him become somebody tomorrow, so try to understand your husbands o....That's why its not good to jump into this Marriage thing o...cos its not a competition but a worthwhile lifestyle that you too must live to the fullest)........................................ I love your coment and let is work for u cos thats all i wanted from any so called woman and she will ferever have my heart then she will know that there wont be another angel here on earth asept her and the heavenly guidan Angels
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- Gulizar at 14-11-2011 11:01 PM (9 years ago)
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i feel u, my sister... for men being married and cheating on their wives is one of the greatest sins...but it doesnt stop 'em at all...and this fact makes me feel like not getting married in this life... in Ukraine if it happens people usually divorce but i kow it doest work in Nigeria... I WANT U TO STAY STRONG AND PUT URSELF 2GETHER THINKING ABOUT GOD (HE IS ALWAYS HERE FOR U)...BUT FOR STUPID CHEATING MEN THE PROVERB "WISDOM COMES WITH AGES BUT SOMETIMES AGE COMES ALONE" IS DIRECTED STRICTLY TO THEM... LET THESE GUYS FOOL THEMSELVES, CONCENTRATE ON UR INTERESTS AND GOALS WHERE THIS DISGUSTING MAN DOESNT TAKE PART... SHOW HIM THAT U R NOT BORROWED AND ALWAYS BUSY DOING SMTH... AND I HOPE WISDOM WILL VISIT THIS TYPE OF MEN...JUST BELIEVE THE FACT THAT WOMEN ARE STRONGER IN SPIRIT WITH PATIENCE THAN MEN... REMAIN BLESSED,MY DEAR... Wink
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- MYKELGUY at 14-11-2011 11:14 PM (9 years ago)
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U r very correct.The painful thing is dat bitch outside mit nt even said their wife in all standard.She mit be like a rag 2 their wife bt trust men they enjoy her cos she cn do d dir ty stuff the one inside cnt dare.Few reasons.......,
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- tony300 at 14-11-2011 11:52 PM (9 years ago)
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Quote from: 1daful on 14-11-2011 12:09 AM
I really hate it when women go through this.. i will comment later wen am in a good mood.
      my dear,i am very very sorry 2 hear that but i must tell you this if all you wrote here is true then the better you leave that man the earlier 4 you..that person is not your real husband & b4 you die b4 your time just call the marrage off now...
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- slowmotion at 15-11-2011 12:05 AM (9 years ago)
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 Huh?
"Wow! I'm an African-American man of 57-yrs. old and my birthday later this month of November 27, 2011, I'll be 58-yrs. old! I have been strongly married for 27 years this past October 13, 2011. I have never...I repeat the word 'NEVER'....have I gone outside of my marriage searching for an affair or just to get some other panties from any female. I could easily do it, but I won't do it because I truly do love my wifey. She feels that strong about me, as well. I know that she has never gone outside our marriage to be with another man for a sexual encounter or just to get some kind of attention that I am suppose to give her. So, I don't believe it has to do with being Nigerian, I believe it has to do with a 'LACK OF COMMITMENT' to God...His institution of marriage...to the wifey!"
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- slowmotion at 15-11-2011 12:08 AM (9 years ago)
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 Huh?
"Wow! I'm an African-American man of 57-yrs. old and my birthday later this month of November 27, 2011, I'll be 58-yrs. old! I have been strongly married for 27 years this past October 13, 2011. I have never...I repeat the word 'NEVER'....have I gone outside of my marriage searching for an affair or just to get some other panties from any female. I could easily do it, but I won't do it because I truly do love my wifey. She feels that strong about me, as well. I know that she has never gone outside our marriage to be with another man for a sexual encounter or just to get some kind of attention that I am suppose to give her. So, I don't believe it has to do with being Nigerian, I believe it has to do with a 'LACK OF COMMITMENT' to God...His institution of marriage...to the wifey!"
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- tony300 at 15-11-2011 12:23 AM (9 years ago)
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Quote from: lynnclassic on 14-11-2011 10:40 AM
eyah amen to it
    @lynnclassic i just wana tell you that is not every men are like that plz bcos your question is why nigerian men like to treat their woman bad & treat outside people like are queen...well i dont really know if that is really happening in this my nigeria but i must tell you this that nigeria is number one country that treat their woman very good ask anyone that is travelling very well he/she will tell you same thing i just tell you now but i believe there possiblities of having bad ones too in nigeria but not all...like me am not married yet but in relationship for 7years b4 she herself betray me bcos she cant even wait 4 me to come back & she got married 2 another person but we talk on phone very week two time & i send her things but she couldnt tell me about that she is gettin married while i myself was trying to come back & marry her,but i never see it like people was seeing it i just saw it that she was not my wife & we are not meant to each other.....so tell me now who betray who or is she not woman?
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- Adaokila at 15-11-2011 02:10 AM (9 years ago)
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My opinion is this, if a man knows that he isnt ready for marriage, let him not marry. Simple. No matter what your partner does, either the man or the woman. If you love and respect your partner and also have the fear of God in you, you wont cheat on yourselves. What about 70percent of men cheat on their wives when she is pregnant. Some hardly appreciate the woman or respect her. Most men dont allow their wives talk in the house, its all about them. Well, God knows best. Like sometimes i might be talking to my husband about something he did that i didnt like. He wont give me attention, what do u think happens. My anger will increase and i will keep talking just to get that attention. And at the end of the day it will ne tagged ""Nagging"", but when he is talking i must stand and listen. and because he is the man, he doesnt know how to say sorry, cos its a womans job. Mennnn, sometime its better of single...
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- Kenwisdom at 15-11-2011 02:20 AM (9 years ago)
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Quote from: Celestial1 on 14-11-2011 09:02 PM
The general consensus seems to be the woman is at fault here and she needs to do this and that to ensure the man doesn't stray.  Every recommendation is to tell her to freshen up, cook, submit etc.  My observation of seeing a fair share of women who have been in this situation is that there is not a bloody thing a woman can do to stop a  man from cheating on her. NOTHING!

If a man wants to cheat, he will cheat because cheating is character flaw like stealing, or lying.  Women have gone as far as to donate their kidney, bone marrow and the man still cheated when he got over his illness, divorced her azz, and is walking around with her body part in him while he goes on with his life.  If your man is cheating on you, do not get down in the dumps about it.  Reinvent yourself, go back to school and learn something new, advance yourself in every way, go out more with your girlfriends, take vacations and live your life.  Get a makeover, buy new clothes and get out there and live your life.  Now, I am not telling anybody to go out there and cheat, all I am saying is staying home bawling in your pillow, and thinking you did something wrong will only cause illness and send you to your grave sooner; then he marries one of those hussies and they come in your home and start raising your children while you are cold in the grave.  If that's the outcome you want then continue bawling and be depressed, because I have seen that too, but if you intend to be a survivor, then do like all survivors do.  Get out there and live your life, and don't let anybody tell you you need to jump through hoops and twist yourself into a pretzel to let him not stray.  Also  make sure that mofo uses a condom every time,  also make sure you have money saved in the event he kicks you to the curb.  

My dear, i disagree with u, especially those things that you just mentioned,take  vacations , makeover, buying new clothes, use condom every time & also make sure that she save money you get all wrong,secondly always remember that one day that body will surely be tied even the (bs) °1° will fall dawn 4sure, now listen my dear mostly people are suffering just because of their negative confession, let's people learn how to live with positive thinking ( optimistic ) is very very important.
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