Crying and Smiling wives (Page 7)

mh!

Posted: at 14-11-2011 08:43 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

pls produce it lol

Posted: at 14-11-2011 09:01 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

WOW U JUST HIT D POINT

Posted: at 14-11-2011 09:13 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

 

---

Posted: at 14-11-2011 09:28 PM (12 years ago) | Hero

Good day i really understand what u talking about, but belive is not just about nigerian men but men in general, this has been a longlife thing going from generation to generation.  but jet all men cant be bad,How many honest, intelligent, caring men in the world , so many  i know u talking about a wild %tage of men , u really have to meet Caring Men who knows what it means to love and be caring, i mean God fearing men, cos love is supose to be a supernatural relationship friendschip that can be adopted in to both sex of humanity ( male and female) with caring men u Are more Happier Than Traditional 'Macho' Men,
Dear sister im not jurging but belive me women are worse than men, men talks, women dont talk, women are very secrectful and clever when they are Checting . thesame thing we have good caring women, Traditional, God fearing women have taken on a more caring role than exposed educated women and this still holds true today.
This has become a problem, since European and national
policy started ...
so this is really personal not about men or women but who u are. greetings Austin

Posted: at 14-11-2011 09:39 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie

« posted : November 14, 2011, 03:34:26 AM (19 hrs ago) »




--------------------------------------------------------------------------------

(Married Women(WM) must take care of themselves even after married. You must always look your best. How can you look like Cinderella in your office then look like old granny when u get home? Plz get into the shower and freshen up. Even when u want to join him in bed, always look fresh. You don't have to look like a superstar but take good care of yourself.

Do not give 100% of your time to your children. Your husbands must continue to be the center of your life. See one day those children will grow up and move out but your marriage will not follow them. So spend quality time with your husbands. For example: If you r making love with him and your 2 months old baby was sleeping and then all of a sudden he started crying, you must not leave your husband to attain to the baby. Finish the Love-making with him first. But the baby's bed must be well secured.

Trust him to take care of your children, whether they are only 5 hours/days old. Even though he doesn't know how to change their diaper. If the baby is cryin in his arm, u must not take the baby unless he want u to.

Money do have wings and they may fly away from him today and he may fine another tomorrow. So you should always support him and never talk down on a man when he is financially bothered. Do not compare your marriage to other couples. If the bills are pile up, it means that your man is troubled so don't use that moment to tear him down with your mouth. Support him cover the bills o...

Surprise him, take him to a hotel, adore him, praise him, honor him, call him my little lord or whatever you like.

Appreciate him, real men don't show their love/feelings through words, they express it through actions. So learn how to understand your man. Say thank you. And define his hard work. Give him a beautiful comment on every little thing he does. IF your husband buy you a nice skirt, yeap, he just want you to wear it so that other men can be jealous of your sweet butts so wear it and thank him with a nice comment.

Teach your children how to be responsible on the dining table. Your 5 yrs old boy should pour that milk inside his own cup while you pour it inside your husband's cup. Your children must not say: mom can you pass me the salt? He should know how to get the salt on his own.. It gives them sense of belongings not sense of controlling or they may get spoil.

Your husbands shouldn't be the only one to initiate sex play. You should also do it often. You don't do it to make him detect what's on your mind. Just do it. Let him see it in your eyes that you want him period but use some characteristics, styles, plays and techniques but they must all be cleared. And whenever you guys argue or fight, please do not punish him from touching you. I repeat, do not punish him from touching you....!

Support him and do not always suspect him in public because real man always look but they never attempts to touch. They will even look at your sister, mom, cousin, and friends' butt. Even your grannies    so that must not bothered you or fight him when you all get home that night.

If you have been doing all these above, cleaning, cooking taking care of the kids and he does not show you any sign then stop cleaning, watching the dishes, don't even clean the floor. And when he ask you why, then you can tell him how much you want him to recognize the little contribution/effort to the family.

Your husband may not really know who he is or what he really want out life until maybe after few years of been your husband. Besides, he knew that you will help him become somebody tomorrow, so try to understand your husbands o....That's why its not good to jump into this Marriage thing o...cos its not a competition but a worthwhile lifestyle that you too must live to the fullest)........................................ I love your coment and let is work for u cos thats all i wanted from any so called woman and she will ferever have my heart then she will know that there wont be another angel here on earth asept her and the heavenly guidan Angels

Posted: at 14-11-2011 10:41 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie

U r very correct.The painful thing is dat bitch outside mit nt even said their wife in all standard.She mit be like a rag 2 their wife bt trust men they enjoy her cos she cn do d dir ty stuff the one inside cnt dare.Few reasons.......,

Posted: at 14-11-2011 11:14 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

 "Wow! I'm an African-American man of 57-yrs. old and my birthday later this month of November 27, 2011, I'll be 58-yrs. old! I have been strongly married for 27 years this past October 13, 2011. I have never...I repeat the word 'NEVER'....have I gone outside of my marriage searching for an affair or just to get some other panties from any female. I could easily do it, but I won't do it because I truly do love my wifey. She feels that strong about me, as well. I know that she has never gone outside our marriage to be with another man for a segxwal encounter or just to get some kind of attention that I am suppose to give her. So, I don't believe it has to do with being Nigerian, I believe it has to do with a 'LACK OF COMMITMENT' to God...His institution of marriage...to the wifey!"

Posted: at 15-11-2011 12:05 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie

    @lynnclassic i just wana tell you that is not every men are like that plz bcos your question is why nigerian men like to treat their woman bad & treat outside people like are queen...well i dont really know if that is really happening in this my nigeria but i must tell you this that nigeria is number one country that treat their woman very good ask anyone that is travelling very well he/she will tell you same thing i just tell you now but i believe there possiblities of having bad ones too in nigeria but not all...like me am not married yet but in relationship for 7years b4 she herself betray me bcos she cant even wait 4 me to come back & she got married 2 another person but we talk on phone very week two time & i send her things but she couldnt tell me about that she is gettin married while i myself was trying to come back & marry her,but i never see it like people was seeing it i just saw it that she was not my wife & we are not meant to each other.....so tell me now who betray who or is she not woman?

Posted: at 15-11-2011 12:23 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie

My dear, i disagree with u, especially those things that you just mentioned,take  vacations , makeover, buying new clothes, use condom every time & also make sure that she save money you get all wrong,secondly always remember that one day that body will surely be tied even the (bs) °1° will fall dawn 4sure, now listen my dear mostly people are suffering just because of their negative confession, let's people learn how to live with positive thinking ( optimistic ) is very very important.

Posted: at 15-11-2011 02:20 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming