All right its time to roll up ur sleeves & work wit me on this one, i know it can get deep when you begin dealing with what you want, but sumbody has 2 break this down so we can get on with it. Its amazing to me how much energy we put into categorizing our "Type" of man/woman yet i find very few people ever marrying their type. Which indicates to me that for most part, our "type" just "ain't right" for us most of the time. Now dat statement just sent shivers up some sisters spine, i know cos i just felt the earth move from where i was typing this. Lol.
I know of some girls that will say if he is not this or dat, i won't even consider him, they want him to look like Denzel washington, will Smith, Jim Iyke or Chidi Mokeme...Come ön gurls you know the list..lol. Now shake it off & lets get down 2 business. What is the benefit of having a pretty house if no one is at home? Or worse still, someone is at home but there are no lights upstairs. If u know what i mean. A handsome man/ pretty woman is good, but they are by no means a guarantee of a lasting relationshp. It will take more than enjoying the view to keep the house standing and make the relationshp work. The bigger question to ask yourself is what would you like your relationshp to look like and then find sum1 who makes dat happens. The person might come in a package you were not expecting. It is an imperfect world, and so that perfect mate you search for, may not be found in your race. So stop looking at people's faults...my point is...if you look closely, it is the flaws that make people interesting. Its my opinion anyway.
On top of the world...in front of the crowd
Posted: at 18-01-2012 04:11 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
giftmurphy at 18-01-2012 07:03 PM (13 years ago) (f)
noted! but some guys,if not omotola or genevieve...no one...
Posted: at 18-01-2012 07:03 PM (13 years ago) | Hero