How Do You Cope With A Female Colleague At The Office? (Page 8)

Date: 10-02-2012 9:13 am (12 years ago) | Author: Vivian Johnson
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- sophiebaby at 10-02-2012 05:01 PM (12 years ago)
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 Cool

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- ezecyyyy at 10-02-2012 05:02 PM (12 years ago)
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Since u have tried every other thing, what about prayer? Give it a try, hope it will work for u..Gud luck
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- xter at 10-02-2012 05:08 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Treasure2 on 10-02-2012 09:13 AM
I have tried everything possible to work in peace with my female colleague in the office, but all effort seems like am wasting my time.
I have been patience where am not suspose to be, been quite where i should not be, but all in vain. 

Someone should advise me on the best way to cope with a female colleague b4 i go Mad.


NO INSULT PLS.
if there is anyone who decides to hate u & u know it, just be happy u knew.

Some ppl are sadists, no matter how hard u try to make up with dem they'll still hate u deep down.

My advice is; wind her up by doing d right thing always, do d right thing all the time. Once u have any small blot on ur copybook she's ready to use it against you.....just continue ur job with happiness & do d right thing...her sadness will kill her someday

Posted: at 10-02-2012 05:08 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- xter at 10-02-2012 05:09 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Treasure2 on 10-02-2012 09:13 AM
I have tried everything possible to work in peace with my female colleague in the office, but all effort seems like am wasting my time.
I have been patience where am not suspose to be, been quite where i should not be, but all in vain. 

Someone should advise me on the best way to cope with a female colleague b4 i go Mad.


NO INSULT PLS.
if there is anyone who decides to hate u & u know it, just be happy u knew.

Some ppl are sadists, no matter how hard u try to make up with dem they'll still hate u deep down.

My advice is; wind her up by doing d right thing always, do d right thing all the time. Once u have any small blot on ur copybook she's ready to use it against you.....just continue ur job with happiness & do d right thing...her sadness will kill her someday

Posted: at 10-02-2012 05:09 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Treasure2 at 10-02-2012 05:12 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: xter on 10-02-2012 05:09 PM
if there is anyone who decides to hate u & u know it, just be happy u knew.

Some ppl are sadists, no matter how hard u try to make up with dem they'll still hate u deep down.

My advice is; wind her up by doing d right thing always, do d right thing all the time. Once u have any small blot on ur copybook she's ready to use it against you.....just continue ur job with happiness & do d right thing...her sadness will kill her someday
ow you are talking, How u dey jare.
Posted: at 10-02-2012 05:12 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- Treasure2 at 10-02-2012 05:13 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: blings_is_back on 10-02-2012 04:53 PM
treasure if she beef u again just dial my number
will
Posted: at 10-02-2012 05:13 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- blings_is_back at 10-02-2012 05:17 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 10-02-2012 04:53 PM
Shocked

y?
Posted: at 10-02-2012 05:17 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- Treasure2 at 10-02-2012 05:20 PM (12 years ago)
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lol
Posted: at 10-02-2012 05:20 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- kebella at 10-02-2012 05:44 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: blings_is_back on 10-02-2012 04:10 PM
who stole my pant?
cud dat be d one i saw soph with Huh? Shocked

Posted: at 10-02-2012 05:44 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Treasure2 at 10-02-2012 05:48 PM (12 years ago)
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No pant is missing here, biko kwa
Posted: at 10-02-2012 05:48 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- blings_is_back at 10-02-2012 05:52 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: kebella on 10-02-2012 05:44 PM
cud dat be d one i saw soph with Huh? Shocked

is it gstring?......... then its mine
Posted: at 10-02-2012 05:52 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 10-02-2012 05:53 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: kebella on 10-02-2012 05:44 PM
cud dat be d one i saw soph with Huh? Shocked

is it this dirty pant? with some  semen?  Grin Grin Grin Grin pls com carry ur man panties joor

Posted: at 10-02-2012 05:53 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- itmomoh at 10-02-2012 06:02 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Treasure2 on 10-02-2012 09:53 AM
Just came bad from oversea trip and went round to say hello to all but went to her office first and got what i list bargain. Her reason is that i did not take permission from her b4 travelling. 4 x my senior in the job but my junior bc of the office am in.

babe, d tin there is simple, 1, she is older dan u. 2, u r lik a boss to her in same office, at least u shd kn dat u ladies always ve dis tin "i am on top" at least u shd kn dat she want u to respect her being dat she is older dan u and if nt 4 d job, u wldn't talk to her d way u do at time and in d oda hand u see urself as her senior in office so u do tins d way u lik nt mindin if it hurts odas 'd pride of bein d boss'.

my advise is try to show her some respect being dat she is ur elder n talk wit her 4 her to understand u really didnt mean to hurt her feelins of somtn lik dat.  above all pray b4 approaching her.  tins will work out
Posted: at 10-02-2012 06:02 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Treasure2 at 10-02-2012 06:39 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: itmomoh on 10-02-2012 06:02 PM
babe, d tin there is simple, 1, she is older dan u. 2, u r lik a boss to her in same office, at least u shd kn dat u ladies always ve dis tin "i am on top" at least u shd kn dat she want u to respect her being dat she is older dan u and if nt 4 d job, u wldn't talk to her d way u do at time and in d oda hand u see urself as her senior in office so u do tins d way u lik nt mindin if it hurts odas 'd pride of bein d boss'.

my advise is try to show her some respect being dat she is ur elder n talk wit her 4 her to understand u really didnt mean to hurt her feelins of somtn lik dat.  above all pray b4 approaching her.  tins will work out

Thanks for your peace of advise but i must tell you one thing, you got it all wrong.  I'm on top never happen and will not bc of department. 2. Respect is always there hence my patience with her. 3 i don't boss her at all and will not. 4 No point talking again after 7 yrs of trying hard, it makes no sense at all. I need not approach bc she lack understanding. Really appreciate your peace of advise. 
Posted: at 10-02-2012 06:39 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- interpo77 at 10-02-2012 07:20 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Treasure2 on 10-02-2012 09:28 AM
@Sophie, (is she been competitive,overbearing,unpleasant..or a backstabber?)

If is competition, she is not my equal at all, am in managerial level while she is in Admin.
IF SHE IS NO COMPETITIVE THEN MUST U WAIST UR TIME BEFFING HER?SHE IS JUNIOR TO UR LEVEL UNLESS U RE NOT SAYING EVERY EVERY
Posted: at 10-02-2012 07:20 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kebella at 10-02-2012 07:35 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: blings_is_back on 10-02-2012 05:52 PM
is it gstring?......... then its mine
since when do yu start wearing G-strings Huh?

Posted: at 10-02-2012 07:35 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- kebella at 10-02-2012 07:36 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 10-02-2012 05:53 PM
is it this dirty pant? with some  semen?  Grin Grin Grin Grin pls com carry ur man panties joor
re yu pant collector Grin Grin Grin Grin  leave d semen there  Angry

Posted: at 10-02-2012 07:36 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Senegal at 10-02-2012 08:08 PM (12 years ago)
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Shit!
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- Ominiscience at 10-02-2012 08:16 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Treasure2 on 10-02-2012 09:53 AM
Just came back from oversea trip and went round to say hello to all but went to her office first and got what i list bargain. Her reason is that i did not take permission from her b4 travelling. 4 x my senior in the job but my junior bc of the office am in.

It is a thin line between hate and love" you must agree. It may also interest you to know, that you both have more in common than you may have sensed till now.
According to your information, you just cameback from oversea trip, went around to say hello to everybody but went to her first!!!  *** 
Evidence of emotional attachment on a subconscious level. Now you may consider this approach, buy a substantial present for her when next you make a trip, or relay back to me for more strategic approach. Significantly expressed as an ice breaker, for the long years of suppressed undefined emotions......  She may have a lot to tell you, perhaps a lot better than some of your present colleagues may claim to be. You only need to be courageous in finding out, don't forget you have nothing to loose......you can only gain either ways... kudos for your intelligence.
Posted: at 10-02-2012 08:16 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- gree212 at 10-02-2012 08:24 PM (12 years ago)
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