Wat wuld u do?

If ur spouse.....who uv been married to for 15 years with kids, suddenly decides he or she is uncomfortable with d sex and wants a sex change....a.k.a becomes gay


wuld u divorce him/her and battle for the custody of ur kids or continue d marriage?

Posted: at 25-06-2007 06:31 PM (17 years ago) | Newbie

lol..never tot of it dat way cos ive discussed it with peeps b4...some pple just feel they r in d wrong body...they fancy d same sex..beats me y they do but they do..

As for me, i'l file for divorce cos there'z obviously no need to starve myself in dat marriage and i'l fight to get the custody of d kids...

I pray it dosnt happen though 

Posted: at 26-06-2007 09:26 AM (17 years ago) | Newbie

lol....even if Gani was his lawyer, only a fooligh jury will give a gay man d right to raise my kids....cos therez every tendency dat they'l turn gay. Besides, its more natural to have a sane woman raise kids dan an insane man!
 

Posted: at 26-06-2007 11:12 AM (17 years ago) | Newbie

rily?..howz dat?...who did God give dat responsibility to?....u guyz shuld b d ones carrying dem for 9 months...not after we've suffered, u'l go to court and battle to have them easy....c'mon! 

Posted: at 26-06-2007 04:10 PM (17 years ago) | Newbie

Sweety, u misuderstood God....he gave dat responsibility to women...he told them to carry d child and wean the child....dat is y he hooks women with children....U want to tell me u r more capable of weaning, Bosom feeding, packing poos, cleaning diapers and stuff?..abi na already made u wan raise? (age 10)...naaa.. therez nuttn like a motherz love 

Posted: at 26-06-2007 04:49 PM (17 years ago) | Newbie

good...i take it u agree dat in a baby/child's life, women come first...it is only after the jury or judge has seen that d woman isnt capable of handling her duties dat d man is considered...
 

Posted: at 27-06-2007 08:49 AM (17 years ago) | Newbie

A marriage of 15yrs is a long way, mine is 16years old and things are getting better cos the children are all growing into there teens, one should not allow a relationship that long to be ditorted by whatever forces, if you always have a good relationship segxwally, i see no reason why a man or woman would want to opt out of the relationship especially when children are invovled.

Posted: at 12-07-2007 09:00 PM (17 years ago) | Newbie

I'm not married yet so I don't know how my views will sound.But I guess I'll just let my spouse be and fight to keep the kids.No Lesbo woman will raise me kids.Period.

Posted: at 15-07-2007 12:01 PM (17 years ago) | Newbie

THIS IS BETTER  IMAGINED NOT EXPERIENCED.

MEEEEEN, AFTER 15 YEARS TOGETHER HA
WELL, I WILL TAKE MY KIDS FINAL AND LET GOD TAKE CARE OF THE REST ITS HIS SPECIALITY.

BUT SINCERLY ITS HARD.

GOD BLESS

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Posted: at 27-07-2007 08:49 AM (17 years ago) | Upcoming

whoa this is gonna be tough......i guess we have to sit down and slow talk.....i have to ask him what went wrong....what did i do wrong....what makes him to turn out this way.....the decison depends on his replies of course....if he still wanna be a gay,i definitely will have to fight for my kids....i wouldn't want my kids to be raised in that kind of environment and which might result in him turning out like his dad....but man....i seriously don't wanna be in this situation...i have heard of an australian couple whose life turns out this way....the wife divorced the guy and took her kids but the gay dad was allowed to see the kids once in a while though....but this situation sucks big time man....

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Posted: at 15-08-2007 06:40 PM (17 years ago) | Addicted Hero