A hater is someone who is jealous and envious and spends all their time trying to make you look small so they can look tall.
They are very negative people to say the least. Nothing is ever good enough!
When you make your mark, you will always attract some haters...
That's why you have to be careful with whom you share your blessings and your dreams, because some folk can't handle seeing you blessed...
It's dangerous to be like somebody else... If God wanted you to be like somebody else, He would have given you what He gave them! Right?
You never know what people have gone through to get what they have... The problem I have with haters is that they see my glory, but they don't know my story... If the grass looks greener on the other side of the fence, you can rest assured that the water bill is higher there too!
We've all got some haters among us!
Some people envy you because you can: a) Have a relationship with God b) Light up a room when you walk in c) Start your own business d) Tell a man / woman to hit the curb (if he / she isn't about the right thing) e) You can be happy and at peace
Haters can't stand to see you happy. Haters will never want to see you succeed.
Most of our haters are people who are supposed to be on our side.
How do you handle your undercover haters?
You can handle these haters by:
1. Knowing who you are (VERY IMPORTANT!!) 2. Having a purpose to your life: Purpose does not mean having a job. You can have a job and still be unfulfilled. A purpose is having a clear sense of what God has called you to be. Your purpose is not defined by what others think about you. 3. By remembering what you have is by divine prerogative and not human manipulation.
Fulfill your dreams! You only have one life to live...when its your time to leave this earth, you 'want' to be able to say, 'I've lived my life and fulfilled 'my' dreams,... Now I'm ready to go HOME!
When God gives you favor, you can tell your haters, 'Don't look at me...Look at Who is in charge of me...'
As you all begin to venture into relationships and learning to relate to others please be aware of your haters. Pray for them, that their life can be as fulfilled as yours! Always Watch out for Haters...BUT most of all don't become a HATER! I'm watching,lol.......
LADIES: Always remember!!!!!'A woman's heart should be so hidden in Christ that a man should have to seek Him first to find her.' Maya Angelou *Bless many and burden few....
There is nothing like a American born Nigerian woman, often copied however never duplicated....Se ope!! The struggle is tattooed in my soul.The life of those that sacrificed that I might have an opinion won't go in vain on my part.
Posted: at 28-03-2012 05:36 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
jossy4reall at 28-03-2012 07:24 AM (13 years ago) (m)
Dis is serious .........Young lady are u having nightmares recently
Love or Hate me its ur Biz, I have more important things to think abt since u never gonna change me
Posted: at 28-03-2012 07:24 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
Empress_Ameera at 29-03-2012 12:55 AM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: jossy4reall on 28-03-2012 07:24 AM
Dis is serious .........Young lady are u having nightmares recently
No I do not have nightmares, are you trying to be sarcastic???
There is nothing like a American born Nigerian woman, often copied however never duplicated....Se ope!! The struggle is tattooed in my soul.The life of those that sacrificed that I might have an opinion won't go in vain on my part.
Posted: at 29-03-2012 12:55 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
Brnsugarbabe37 at 29-03-2012 09:11 AM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Empress_Ameera on 28-03-2012 05:36 AM
A hater is someone who is jealous and envious and spends all their time trying to make you look small so they can look tall.
They are very negative people to say the least. Nothing is ever good enough!
When you make your mark, you will always attract some haters...
That's why you have to be careful with whom you share your blessings and your dreams, because some folk can't handle seeing you blessed...
It's dangerous to be like somebody else... If God wanted you to be like somebody else, He would have given you what He gave them! Right?
You never know what people have gone through to get what they have... The problem I have with haters is that they see my glory, but they don't know my story... If the grass looks greener on the other side of the fence, you can rest assured that the water bill is higher there too!
We've all got some haters among us!
Some people envy you because you can: a) Have a relationship with God b) Light up a room when you walk in c) Start your own business d) Tell a man / woman to hit the curb (if he / she isn't about the right thing) e) You can be happy and at peace
Haters can't stand to see you happy. Haters will never want to see you succeed.
Most of our haters are people who are supposed to be on our side.
How do you handle your undercover haters?
You can handle these haters by:
1. Knowing who you are (VERY IMPORTANT!!) 2. Having a purpose to your life: Purpose does not mean having a job. You can have a job and still be unfulfilled. A purpose is having a clear sense of what God has called you to be. Your purpose is not defined by what others think about you. 3. By remembering what you have is by divine prerogative and not human manipulation.
Fulfill your dreams! You only have one life to live...when its your time to leave this earth, you 'want' to be able to say, 'I've lived my life and fulfilled 'my' dreams,... Now I'm ready to go HOME!
When God gives you favor, you can tell your haters, 'Don't look at me...Look at Who is in charge of me...'
As you all begin to venture into relationships and learning to relate to others please be aware of your haters. Pray for them, that their life can be as fulfilled as yours! Always Watch out for Haters...BUT most of all don't become a HATER! I'm watching,lol.......
LADIES: Always remember!!!!!'A woman's heart should be so hidden in Christ that a man should have to seek Him first to find her.' Maya Angelou *Bless many and burden few....
HAV U EVER HERD OF THE COMEDIAN KAT WILLIAMS, HE TALKS ABOUT HATERS, SAYIN THEY HAV A JOB 2 DO WHICHIS HATE SO LET THEM DO THERE JOB THEY NEED 2 WORK 2, I AGREE WIT SUM OF YUR POST LOL!!! SO U SHOW LET YO HATER STAY EMPLOYED I NO I DO LET THEM HATE CAUS THEY WORK HARD AT IT!!!!
Posted: at 29-03-2012 09:11 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Empress_Ameera at 30-03-2012 01:13 AM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Brnsugarbabe37 on 29-03-2012 09:11 AM
HAV U EVER HERD OF THE COMEDIAN KAT WILLIAMS, HE TALKS ABOUT HATERS, SAYIN THEY HAV A JOB 2 DO WHICHIS HATE SO LET THEM DO THERE JOB THEY NEED 2 WORK 2, I AGREE WIT SUM OF YUR POST LOL!!! SO U SHOW LET YO HATER STAY EMPLOYED I NO I DO LET THEM HATE CAUS THEY WORK HARD AT IT!!!!
Yes I got that performance on DVD.....
There is nothing like a American born Nigerian woman, often copied however never duplicated....Se ope!! The struggle is tattooed in my soul.The life of those that sacrificed that I might have an opinion won't go in vain on my part.
Posted: at 30-03-2012 01:13 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming