Should you date a man fresh out of a divorce?

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Posted: at 14-04-2011 11:10 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

HOW?

Posted: at 14-04-2011 11:15 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

IT IS NOT A CRIME

WAT A PDS POST

Posted: at 14-04-2011 11:17 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

He cnt possibly fall in love with a woman rite out of divorce!
He nids time!
It's a no no 4 me...until he must've put himself together,picked up d pieces of his life,and moved ahead!!

Posted: at 14-04-2011 11:26 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

he's trouble because he does not trust any woman. he'll just use as to satisfy his desires.

Posted: at 15-04-2011 07:51 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

[Dating a man who's fresh out of his divorce is always a dangerous undertaking.Recently divorced men have special agendas.Some want to play hard & have as many women as possible as quickly as possible to reassure themselves that they're still sexy,desirable & really better off single.Others want to get into another relationship right away to show their ex-wives that they can easily be replaced with another woman!Freshly divorced men r often still wounded by what they lost in d divorce,accusations that were made,& d unfairness of it all. They aren't ready to get into a real relationship,& d women they date right after d divorce r usually so called " interim woman",women who r filling an emptiness & not really women they want to spend their lives with.These men often don't look around,but instead grab d first woman they see, as a security blanket against loneliness.So many times, the interim woman is used as a sounding board,listening endlessly to tales of what the ex-wife did wrong,what she took that she didn't deserve,& how the guy was a great husband & d ex wife was a lousy wife.Then,when he feels stronger,when his life is back on a more even keel,& he begins to think he could survive being alone,he dumps the interim woman.]

Dating a man who's fresh out of his divorce is always a dangerous undertaking.Recently divorced men have special agendas.Some want to play hard & have as many women as possible as quickly as possible to reassure themselves that they're still sexy,desirable & really better off single.Others want to get into another relationship right away to show their ex-wives that they can easily be replaced with another woman!
Freshly divorced men r often still wounded by what they lost in d divorce,accusations that were made,& d unfairness of it all. They aren't ready to get into a real relationship,& d women they date right after d divorce r usually so called " interim woman",women who r filling an emptiness & not really women they want to spend their lives with.These men often don't look around,but instead grab d first woman they see, as a security blanket against loneliness.
So many times, the interim woman is used as a sounding board,listening endlessly to tales of what the ex-wife did wrong,what she took that she didn't deserve,& how the guy was a great husband & d ex wife was a lousy wife.Then,when he feels stronger,when his life is back on a more even keel,& he begins to think he could survive being alone,he dumps the interim woman.

Posted: at 15-04-2011 09:45 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

what is fresh after divorce
na second hand now
abeg tell me another thing

Posted: at 15-04-2011 09:47 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

thanks bittersweet. what you said its true. i'll be careful now

Posted: at 15-04-2011 11:10 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

 

Posted: at 15-04-2011 11:16 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

[You're welcome!]

thanks bittersweet. what you said its true. i'll be careful now

You're welcome!

Posted: at 15-04-2011 11:50 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

blame it on men!!!
 

Posted: at 15-04-2011 11:56 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

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Posted: at 15-04-2011 12:01 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

thanks bittersweet. what you said its true. i'll be careful now

where you or currently dating a fresh divorced huh?

Posted: at 15-04-2011 12:08 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Should you date a man fresh out of a divorce?

Nah...buh i can actually date him if he feels its d right thing for him to do @ dat moment...nothing spoil

Posted: at 15-04-2011 12:15 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

Ble this ya pix na elele ooooo

 

Posted: at 15-04-2011 12:17 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

@sobeit, nope. just learning

Posted: at 15-04-2011 01:40 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

[Dating a man who's fresh out of his divorce is always a dangerous undertaking.Recently divorced men have special agendas.Some want to play hard & have as many women as possible as quickly as possible to reassure themselves that they're still sexy,desirable & really better off single.Others want to get into another relationship right away to show their ex-wives that they can easily be replaced with another woman!Freshly divorced men r often still wounded by what they lost in d divorce,accusations that were made,& d unfairness of it all. They aren't ready to get into a real relationship,& d women they date right after d divorce r usually so called " interim woman",women who r filling an emptiness & not really women they want to spend their lives with.These men often don't look around,but instead grab d first woman they see, as a security blanket against loneliness.So many times, the interim woman is used as a sounding board,listening endlessly to tales of what the ex-wife did wrong,what she took that she didn't deserve,& how the guy was a great husband & d ex wife was a lousy wife.Then,when he feels stronger,when his life is back on a more even keel,& he begins to think he could survive being alone,he dumps the interim woman.]

Dating a man who's fresh out of his divorce is always a dangerous undertaking.Recently divorced men have special agendas.Some want to play hard & have as many women as possible as quickly as possible to reassure themselves that they're still sexy,desirable & really better off single.Others want to get into another relationship right away to show their ex-wives that they can easily be replaced with another woman!
Freshly divorced men r often still wounded by what they lost in d divorce,accusations that were made,& d unfairness of it all. They aren't ready to get into a real relationship,& d women they date right after d divorce r usually so called " interim woman",women who r filling an emptiness & not really women they want to spend their lives with.These men often don't look around,but instead grab d first woman they see, as a security blanket against loneliness.
So many times, the interim woman is used as a sounding board,listening endlessly to tales of what the ex-wife did wrong,what she took that she didn't deserve,& how the guy was a great husband & d ex wife was a lousy wife.Then,when he feels stronger,when his life is back on a more even keel,& he begins to think he could survive being alone,he dumps the interim woman.

wow, thumbs up BS

Posted: at 15-04-2011 01:49 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

Before even saying yes to a previously divorced man or woman-whether fresh or stale, u need to do ur independent findings on what led to the divorce.....weigh the factors before taking the big leap

Posted: at 15-04-2011 01:56 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

 

Posted: at 15-04-2011 02:14 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

[Dating a man who's fresh out of his divorce is always a dangerous undertaking.Recently divorced men have special agendas.Some want to play hard & have as many women as possible as quickly as possible to reassure themselves that they're still sexy,desirable & really better off single.Others want to get into another relationship right away to show their ex-wives that they can easily be replaced with another woman!Freshly divorced men r often still wounded by what they lost in d divorce,accusations that were made,& d unfairness of it all. They aren't ready to get into a real relationship,& d women they date right after d divorce r usually so called " interim woman",women who r filling an emptiness & not really women they want to spend their lives with.These men often don't look around,but instead grab d first woman they see, as a security blanket against loneliness.So many times, the interim woman is used as a sounding board,listening endlessly to tales of what the ex-wife did wrong,what she took that she didn't deserve,& how the guy was a great husband & d ex wife was a lousy wife.Then,when he feels stronger,when his life is back on a more even keel,& he begins to think he could survive being alone,he dumps the interim woman.]

Dating a man who's fresh out of his divorce is always a dangerous undertaking.Recently divorced men have special agendas.Some want to play hard & have as many women as possible as quickly as possible to reassure themselves that they're still sexy,desirable & really better off single.Others want to get into another relationship right away to show their ex-wives that they can easily be replaced with another woman!
Freshly divorced men r often still wounded by what they lost in d divorce,accusations that were made,& d unfairness of it all. They aren't ready to get into a real relationship,& d women they date right after d divorce r usually so called " interim woman",women who r filling an emptiness & not really women they want to spend their lives with.These men often don't look around,but instead grab d first woman they see, as a security blanket against loneliness.
So many times, the interim woman is used as a sounding board,listening endlessly to tales of what the ex-wife did wrong,what she took that she didn't deserve,& how the guy was a great husband & d ex wife was a lousy wife.Then,when he feels stronger,when his life is back on a more even keel,& he begins to think he could survive being alone,he dumps the interim woman.

wow, thumbs up BS

Posted: at 15-04-2011 02:43 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

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