wat do u think about sex b4 marriage (Page 17)

I really don't like it,the truth is that we are both sure we are going to get married so why the rush? Abeg wetin no good no get another name dem dey call am! Some pple rush into sex before marriage cos the guy will say he wants to see if the girl can be pregnant but the truth of the matter is that it is God that gives children, so all things are in his hands. If you rush into sex before marriage and both of you later get married, there will be a circumstance that will arise and the male will use it to abuse the female and if she wants to defend herself the guy will say he just pushed it to her to see if she will accept and she was too gullible to eat the bait. ladies beware, all the blame will come upon you later, if you want trust in your marriage, should abstain from this, we as youths should always learn to speak the truth. Thanks. It's me Blesyn a.k.a. Shining angel (A Nigerian with a Difference). Datz ma msg to all. Peace out

Posted: at 11-07-2008 02:29 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie

wat i think, is dat sex b4 marriage is not bad bcos I PERSONALLY will want to kown inside N' outside of who am making the life time committment with.

Posted: at 11-07-2008 07:17 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie

i think the need to absence yourself from sex before marriage is very crucial and important because both of you will respect each other when you eventually becomes couples. it gives honour and protection.

Posted: at 12-07-2008 01:14 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie

its no bigdeal cos no one buys a ride without test driving it

Posted: at 12-07-2008 06:10 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie

it is a matter of decision!!!!!!!!!

Posted: at 14-07-2008 10:47 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie

well......if u are from my home town i will say yes but if not nope!

Posted: at 14-07-2008 02:26 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie

sex b4 marriage isnt so gud, to b on d safer side against all odds its beta to abstain

Posted: at 14-07-2008 11:34 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie

love or hate ukoma has said it all,pls let others don't give people wrong orientation

Posted: at 15-07-2008 06:26 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie

Well the truth though many may refute it is that sex before marriage is totally wrong. First it is a habit that is been condemned by our LOVING CREATOR. How hypocritical are you all who make right what Your creator says is bad. Let us even look at the clarity in God's decision. Sex is supposed to be done between two legally married individuals, and those who engaged in it outside marriage have a lot of frustration in it. Some end up being dumped for another because possibly the guys find them not satisfactory any longer and then such heartless guys goes for other girls as their sex preys. If females out there are reading my notes you woulkd quite agree with me that none of ya do enjoy been dumped for another. It has even led many to commit atrocities as murder. you just think, if we all could keep y God's law on sex all this jealousy, hatred, murder would not come to be. For the fact that our GOD JEHOVAH, is one whose wisdom could not be comprehended, HIS law are simply fr our benefit and nothing more. Saying that such law is oldfashioned is as good as saying I dont care what my CREATOR cares anyway. So you ladies out there who were deeply supporting the free sex stuff, what will you have to say about all these: the pain, the humiliation, the lost of dignity and most important your severing your cherished relationship with your HEAVENLY FATHER that has the power to give you abundant life

Posted: at 15-07-2008 12:59 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie

sex before marriage depends on individualpinion on what  he or she wants from it.sex to people have different meaning to them.but i think in a way itis advisable you know the kind of man or woman you want to marry even up to the segxwal part of it.HOW CAN YOU TELLIF A MAN IS IMPOTENT OR NOT?

Posted: at 15-07-2008 03:00 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie