wat do u think about sex b4 marriage (Page 16)

i think sex before marriage is something really good so both get enough experience,...even with the guy ur going to marry i cant gettin married to somebody i havent tasted before haha maybe in the weddingnight the big surprise? no thx

my child is a fruit of sex without marriage and i love myself for that what came out 

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Posted: at 5-07-2008 09:40 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming

Sex is not a sacred thing. It is a perfectly natural thing and something all humans AND animals have in common.

It is "marriage" that is the artificial concept here. Suppose you marry in one country and then holiday in a place where that marriage is not recognised.

Remember, most religion frowns on sex because it likes to control what its followers do

Posted: at 6-07-2008 08:43 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie

hi,
 i believe sex is scared and should be saved for marriage,but your priority for staying away from sex should not be for the sake of your husband but for the very fact that u don't want to offend God.Bsides the bible has warned against it.It is the only sin committed against your body whichi s the temple of christ.Though views vary everyone is entitled to his or her opinions.

Posted: at 6-07-2008 09:45 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie

I don't see nothing wrong wit it. I mena if you want to have sex, then have it. I highly doubt whoever you marry will care about it. There's a high chance you(husband or wife) had sex b4 they are married.  But for me, i believe in the old time. I'm Celibacy. And to tell youthe truth. I've had many of my boyfriends break up with me because of that.  Shit, i tell boys that shit b4 we even begin to date, so they won't except me to do stuff that i won't do. But i don't knock a sister for sleeping with a guy b4 marriage, after all it's her decision.   

Posted: at 6-07-2008 11:04 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie

i agree about d whole no sex b4 marriage thing, but it's soo hard to stick with when u've got a boyfriend dat doesn't want d same thing. nd i really respect those dat actually adhere to it.

Posted: at 7-07-2008 10:12 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming

for me it wise and morally right for  one to keep his or herself till he or she is married.biblically the bible says sex is ment to nourishe marriage,not only that when you get married to your first date the blessing attached is great.some of us dont knowanything about soul tight,that when it is tied wrongly it causes problem which we might know.for me am 24 yrs but i have never had sex not because i cannot but iam determined to keep myself for that lady whom i will hook up with as my wife.there is nothing wrong abstaining from sex till u get married.

Posted: at 8-07-2008 03:41 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie

i don't believe in sex before marriage but everyone makes they're choices

Posted: at 8-07-2008 08:53 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie

Hi naija,there is nothing wrong in sex before marriage,but accordinly to Bible it's wrong.but let me give u a through life story,just briefly,there is this girl and a guy dating while they're in school,both of them are born again christians,along there relationship they have no sex,their wedding night they decised to make love unkowingly the guy couldn't come up,the sister have to massage the bro before he came up,so she accept her faith,so it has been like that.sex before marriga i advise is good,as long as u know ur relationship will lead u to marriage.

Posted: at 9-07-2008 09:10 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie

I think it up to yourself if you want to save your self for marriage or not.
I started way to young i know that I don't regret not waiting i just regret the age i was in.
But i was young and stupid believing the guys lies. so i did my best teaching my daughters the
the things guys will say to get you in bed. and they were older then me then when they started.
i say before you get married you have to make sure that you are happy with that person in every way. If you are not happy with the sex life in your marriage, you will start looking else where to get what you are missing.
And from the christian point of view. I do believe that God made a special person for each one of us. but sometimes we do not find that person right away. It took me 39 years to find my true love. And what about the days before Moses, Adam and Eve and all that. God putt people on this earth way before them. there were no churches and temples to get married in. a man just picked a woman and had her as his live partner. So actually as soon as to hearts find each other and you feel, that is your mate you are married in your heart.

Posted: at 10-07-2008 10:29 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie

i have really laughed at you guys...i aint here to judge anyone but then...we know that sex before marriage is bad.  Really bad!!! What the heck is wrong with us; we wanna be different from others, yet we move with pple we wanna be diff from.  The 21st century, so what?  I don't move with the crowd and just because 100% of you tink is right doesn't mean that it is right.  Call a pot a pot, not a cooking pot or a frying pot.  Get something straight here pple;  SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE IS BAD....AND A GREAT SIN.  It is the only sin that you commit with your own body.  And point of correction, if you think that after keeping yourself, you'll end up in the wrong marriage.  That is a blutant lie.  You are what you think.  If you go into marriage coz of the wrong reason, you'll find yourself at the wrong side.   There is no way you can make the day 25hrs instead of 24.  Hell no!!!  So God's law still stands, 21st century or not. 

Posted: at 11-07-2008 12:10 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie