wat do u think about sex b4 marriage (Page 18)

simisola really make alot of sence in wht she said, i find it  hard to believe at 16, she could sound like dis. let us stop lieing to ourselvies. there,s no way u can marry anybody without having sex with him or her. even pastors do have sex b4 they marry.  we know is bad N d bible said so, but come to think of it. there,s no way any man or woman can marry if their sex life does not go down well. so, dat,s wht i know 4 sure.

Posted: at 15-07-2008 06:23 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie

Sex b4 marriage is totally wrong bcos is a sin b4 God. I name it segxwal immorality,dat kills ones glory.It's a weapon in the hands of satan,and his agents.It has been used to dim many glorious stars,crippled wonderful destinies,destroyed,weakened and incapacitated vibrant ministers and ministries.And it is regular prayers and fasting,renewal of our mind with Gods word will enable us to overcome.

Posted: at 16-07-2008 02:18 AM (16 years ago) | Newbie

ohhh my fren in house pls don't let prolong the mater the fert is that you we know how to play your game with ur love is not on till you marry or you her not marry you we sex you keep your self out of casual sex becoz ta the end of the game you we se your self as noting els

Posted: at 16-07-2008 03:20 AM (16 years ago) | Newbie

Anyway i dnt ave much to say abt this, biblecaly it is wrong but let look at this aspect: apart from the fact that a scourtship might not end in marriage wat if after marrige u discovered that ur guy or lady can not up wt ur segxwal demand as in the strenght to substain him or her for ur demand and the had never have sex b4 marriage how would they handle this definately it wouldn't work out bcos they will never enjoy theirself which will to having extra-marital affairs so ppl shld consider this b4 getting marry without sex.aaaaeven sm guys could nt produce and u wouldn't know cos u've nt tested ur partner, so pls think very well b4 doing it.Thank u

Posted: at 16-07-2008 12:21 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie

I dont know why we hide /refrain from/ make it holy or taboo this activity of human body?  This is the best pleasure god has ever created for humans ( Challenge it if anyone think otherwise - here I am not referring to those who have not experienced this sacred pleasure). I feel.... it is like any other activity of the body. why such a hue n cry about it ? what do u do when u feel thirsty...Drink.....Right ? what do u do when you feel hungry......Eat....... Right ?  what do u do wen u have an urge to ease yourself..you go to toilet and ease yourself....right ? what do u do when u have an urge to scratch any part of ur body.........u scratch it ...right.....? when eve u have an urge to get high n tipsy......You drink wine/alcohol /heroin .....right ? 
So what should one do wen one feels horny......? Simple....Masturbate when alone or have sex if with partner. this is like any other natural thing god almighty has made for one and all. which should not be related with marriage.

Does anyone know why sex or copulation was restricted to married couples ?........ Because anciently this was done by one and all without any restrictions which posed a big problem for community/society and then for the country. Most of the copulations resulted in pregnancies;Men refused to own kids which happened out of the act and rejected the responsibility of their brought-up. It required commitment, efforts, honesty to have pleasure and responsibility at the same time. So our fore-fathers made it compulsory that if you will impregnate a woman you will also take joint responsibility of the pleasure u shared with that woman by taking care of  kids . So thats how Marriage came into being.

sooooooooooooooo........

1. Have sex whenever u like (cradle to grave) 
2. Make love not babies...
3. It is like any other natural activity of the body made by God
4. Dont feel guilty about it
5. if u still feel it is not logical....try & not drink water/ease urself / eat / until u get married.

Have fun guys...........
Deepak



         

Posted: at 16-07-2008 03:52 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie

To some people it sounds bad,but i don't see any problem with it. How can i have a girlfriend without sex,especially if she is making the request. Sex b4 marriage is the best.

Posted: at 16-07-2008 04:23 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie

many people do things in the name of civlizations, do u know how many lives and destiny that has been destroy cos of this sex thing.offcourse sex is cool and sweet, that does make it right if u are doing it before marriage. it amazing the rate  of immorality,and its even alarming that parents are even encouraging thier children and wards to practice premarital sex, but is it the will of God?any thing that God did not approve is a sin.offcouse some will say God is a merciful God and that he will always forgive and trully he will forgive if one repents truly but one will face the consequences of that sins.consequences of forinication is broken marriages, cos there is no SPARK in the relationship,cos "U HAVE SEEN IT ALL".I know there is a serious desire to do these things, but we all need to have certain controls of ourselves. we all have destructive tendencies we should seek God to give us the grace to control them, and the truth is if we ask him and be sincere about it, he will surely help. i know it is not easy but we should all learn to trust God what our weaknessess.The truth is that whenever u have sex u will never be secure, there is always this sense of fear and guilt but most of just shrugged it off and leave our lives again as if nothing happened at all,the question is if everybody is doing it does it make it right?AND FOR MEN,WE ALL LOVE HAPPENINGS BABES BUT CAN WE ACTUALLY MARRY THEM?AND WE IF DO MARRY THEM CAN WE ACTUALLY TRUST THEM?.clubbing is not a sin but what we do there actually matters alot!AND FOR LADIES IF U ALLOW YOUR BOYFRIEND TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU, HE WILL EVENTUALLY GET TIRED OF YOU AND FIND ANOTHER GAME TO CONQUER COS TO MOST MEN YOU ARE A GAME AND WILL ADD YOU TO HIS COLLECTOR'S  LIST AND WILL DEFINITELY TELL HIS FRIEND HOW "GOOD YOU ARE" OR HOW "POORLY YOU PERFORM"  AND IF BY PITY HE MARRIES YOU THEN BE SURE THAT IT WONT LAST ,the choice is yours!

Posted: at 16-07-2008 07:21 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie

i believe it is totally wrong,dignity and self esteem is very important

Posted: at 16-07-2008 07:59 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie

a friend of mine once refers to it as testing ground....... but i tell you it is a sin to some people
Nevertheless how many prophets in the bible waited till after marriage before having sex? David? Solomon? Moses?Abraham?Judah?Noah?Saul now Paul before being coverted?Etc All of them enjoyed themselves and they still enter the kingdom of God. Proverb 5 verse 18-20 says we should enjoy the Bosom  of the wife of our youth and that we should be satisfied with her love, but we should make sure it only ours and not from another man cristern......... so my dear bro/sis in the lord enjoy your self with your boy friend/girl friend.. it is the lord's doing and its mavelous in our sight....halleluyah

Posted: at 17-07-2008 11:27 AM (16 years ago) | Newbie

Having premarital sex is matter of choice between two people. If you want to look at it from the point of view of social development , it might not really matter whether you have it before or after marriage as long as both parties  agreed to the act.

In this age of open heaven, I am totally in support of sex before marriage as long as is mutual

Posted: at 18-07-2008 10:42 AM (16 years ago) | Newbie