Are you benefiting from your partner, or is your partner benefiting from you in the wrong ways? Here are three problems with that type of relationship:
1. It leaves room for speculation and criticism None of us like to be criticized for our relationship status or the reasons behind it, but a relationship based on convenience will always be questioned, whether the intentions are pure or not. And as if your parents or friends needed another reason to be nosy about your relationships.
2. What’s really keeping that person around? While you would probably like to think that your man is with you because you’re just that amazing, if you’re being used, once what he’s trying to get from you is gone or withheld (money, contacts, sex, etc), you’re going to be left faster than a bad hairdresser who doesn’t understand the definition of a “trim” (the opposite of a big chop). Being used like that and allowing it to happen in the hopes that something real will form can bring on more heartbreak than is necessary.
3. What type of statement are you making about yourself? And if you are the user in this relationship, how are you representing yourself, taking part in a relationship that doesn’t seem meaningful? It could come across as saying that you are only the type of person who dates for status, money, convenience, etc. I’m not saying that you’re a gold-digger, but…you kind of are.
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Posted: at 17-05-2012 04:22 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
No be today these things r exist....go check downtown..all the students girls dem try survive catch a rich chif who go sponsor dem..nothin bad there till both side know whats up...waitin u go do now if situation bad??woman and man dem use what God gives dem...if u got the opportunity to use am...use it well o
"THE WICKED MAN FLEES THOUGHT NO ONE PURSUES, BUT THE RIGHTEOUD ARE AS BOLD AS A LION"
Posted: at 18-05-2012 02:19 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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