I was seeing "Ben" last July. We met through a friend and he lives pretty far away, but not too far that it would be hard to hang out on weekends. We hung out a few times and the dates were wonderful. But his car broke down and I don't drive. So for the past 6 months we've been talking on the phone and exchanging emails just about every other night, so I know we're compatible, and we still tell each other about our feelings.
Although his car is broken down, he still hasn't made any other efforts to see me. I hadn't seen any other guys because of my feelings for him, but after he promised we'd do something whenever he's chanced and I never got angry. I started seeing "George" recently; I like him a lot, and I see him a lot. The only problem is that I still have strong feelings for "Ben."
Recently, George has been promising we're going to see each other. So, when I finally told Ben about George, he explained to me the reason he'd been promising is because he just bought a car and was going to surprise me with a visit.
Now I do not know what to do or who to go for.
George is much more practical and stable, while Ben has a lot of issues and things. But I can't help my strong feelings for Ben. He's a very noble guy and isn't angry at me for this, he just feels guilty because he knows he could've prevented the situation. So I do not know what to do or who to choose because George also expressed his feelings towards me.
I can't pretend that everything is in order.
Any advise will be welcomed.
From a ~confused woman
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Posted: at 31-05-2012 04:33 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
sophiebaby at 31-05-2012 04:57 PM (12 years ago) (f)
lol..shes confused indeed..she shud go for george...i dont have reason sha...or if she like make she follow the other guy wey buy motor..if shes materialistic..stupid confused woman
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 31-05-2012 04:57 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
escapedprince at 2-06-2012 05:07 AM (12 years ago) (m)
You've still got feelings for Ben, But you've started to date George , and you don't find that repulsive ?? That makes you a two timing bitch !!!, my opinion is; you're a cheap slut !, And not a wife material because you're not steadfast , just phyuk off !!!.
Posted: at 2-06-2012 05:07 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
jossy4reall at 2-06-2012 09:14 AM (12 years ago) (m)
Quote from: Beauti4 on 2-06-2012 01:24 AM
help me ask am ooo. But come you men and naija girl self. SMH
Naija gals no dey carry last naa.....but its not about men now its about a lady and her numerous boy friends...........so leave we men out of dis matter
Love or Hate me its ur Biz, I have more important things to think abt since u never gonna change me
Posted: at 2-06-2012 09:14 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
Treasure2 at 2-06-2012 09:21 AM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: jossy4reall on 2-06-2012 09:14 AM
Naija gals no dey carry last naa.....but its not about men now its about a lady and her numerous boy friends...........so leave we men out of dis matter
Chaiii,.......
Posted: at 2-06-2012 09:21 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
........yu already no that 
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