obinobest at 2-06-2012 04:57 PM (12 years ago) (m) If I were him, I'll go on and marry her to prove to her that my love is unconditional Posted: at 2-06-2012 04:57 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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anyiboss at 2-06-2012 05:15 PM (12 years ago) (m) What was she doing in the hotel b4 the rape? forgetting is only two weeks to her wedding right? has it been she was kidnapped and rape that would hv been a different case. women are full of stories.. Posted: at 2-06-2012 05:15 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie | |
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anyiboss at 2-06-2012 05:16 PM (12 years ago) (m) What was she doing in the hotel b4 the rape? forgetting is only two weeks to her wedding right? had it been she was kidnapped and rape that would hv been a different case. women are full of stories..
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Omg, this is too much for one person. The guy is heartless; at a time when she needs all the love, he abandons her. What if this had happened after he had married her...stupid guy. Feel for the girl; God help her recover.
nicely said hun Posted: at 2-06-2012 06:18 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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ohis07 at 2-06-2012 06:47 PM (12 years ago) (m) the guy is not mean. wetin the girl find go for guest house? she should explain that first
My broda, no mind all these senseless comment from senseless idiots here. They are all blaming the fiancé for calling off the wedding. meanwhile,they have minimized the fact that the girl was raped in a guest house. What will a responsible girl be doing in a questionable place? rubbish... Posted: at 2-06-2012 06:47 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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ghanalove at 2-06-2012 06:49 PM (12 years ago) (f) LOL I got ur point, but first i wanna ask u a question. Locked in a room with a sexy and beautiful lady for two hours, will you rape her if she's not down for sex? there are millions of decent men who would never rape a woman irrespective of their situation. 2ndly, i never said close friends tricked her. All i meant was they could tell her something about her a close friend, her boyfriend or even a family member just to get her to the guest house. They could cook up a convincing story and she'll fall for it. I think when dealing with issues in life generally, it's best to look at it from different point of view instead of jumping into conclusions.
Don't worry much about him,once this happens to his wife,sister,miom,or female frd. he will change his argument.I really don't understand why the people here are blaming the victim,this is a very common mistake that many of them have made and could make themseleves. Anyfriend that ask you to come meet them you meet them cause you already know that person and you trust them. people here are being hypocrites not everyone knows what they know, not everyone knows that these men are capable of killing or rapeing.
This happpens ,and at the end of the day we should be blaming the rapist for rapeing a frd that does not want sex. Am sure she will never go near a man again. Posted: at 2-06-2012 06:49 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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ghanalove at 2-06-2012 06:54 PM (12 years ago) (f) It's only foolish girls with little brain like you will be tricked into a guest house for such action. If she is not a foolish girl with a little brain like you why would she be tricked into a guest house and she also enter the room with them? She got what she is looking for and for you little rat,I know you have experinced lots of gang rape due to your little idiot brain. Daughter of a Prostitute
i hope you know your cursing for your sister to get raped,and you will see then who has the little brain. as for this its very terrible that rape victims cannot come out. Posted: at 2-06-2012 06:54 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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somelove at 2-06-2012 06:56 PM (12 years ago) (m) the lady is so bad for her to follow ex boyfriend enter into chalet.. what did she think that is going to happen.. the guys too need to jail Posted: at 2-06-2012 06:56 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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ghanalove at 2-06-2012 07:00 PM (12 years ago) (f) YOU BE CORRECT MAN AND VERY BRILLIANT, NAIJA GIRLS I KNOW TOO WELL WILL NEVER OPEN UP IN PUBLIC THAT THEY WERE REAPED,WHILE THE WEDDING IS TWO WEEKS AHEAD. IMPOSSIBLE!
SHE WAS CAUGHT BY SOMEONE THAT KNOWS HER VERY WELL, IF NOT,NO BODY WILL HEAR ABOUT IT,
so are you saying it is not good for rape victims to comeout. Posted: at 2-06-2012 07:00 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Kingoflion at 2-06-2012 07:03 PM (12 years ago) (m) HUMMMMMMMMMMMM ITS REALLY VERY FUNNY,LETS TAKE IT THIS WAY, THERE IS NO RAPE IN THE FIRST PLACE. MEANWHILE, I AM SURPRISED HOW THIS GIRL BY NAME OPEN_REALITY USED TO BLAST THE COMMENTS OF REASONABLE MEN IN THIS MATTER. IF THERE IS RAPE IN THIS MATTER, HOW DO YOU CONVINCE ME THAT IN A HOTEL, THREE GUYS HAD SEX WITH A GIRL AND THERE WAS NO ALARM IN THE HOTEL?. TAKING A TENTATIVE LOOK AT THE MATTER, THERE IS SOMETHING HIDEN WHICH WAS NOT DULLY EXPLAINED TO US WHO ARE COMMENTING HERE. AS FOR ME, I WILL TAKE A U-TURN JUST AS THE GUY DID AND WILL GO INhoneypot AND FOUND OUT EXACTLY WHAT HAPPENE BEFORE I TAKE A FINAL DECISION IF I WILL CONTINUE OR NOT. MEANWHILE, THE GIRL IN QUESTION MUST NOT BE A GOOD WIFE. BECAUSE IF SHE IS, NOTHING WILL ENTHISE HER TO HOTEL ROOM NO MATTER WHAT WHEN SHE KNOW THAT SHE IS ABOUT TO WEDD IN TWO WEEKS TIME. I THINK THAT THE INCIDENT HAPPENED IN ORDER TO OPEN THE EYES OF THE YOUNG MAN WHO WANTED TO MARRY HER. BECAUSE HUMAN BEINGS HAVE DIFFERENT SPIRITS THAT FOLLOWS THEM AROUND. I HOPE THIS WILL SERVE AS A LESSON TO THAT GIRL AND THE OTHER NIGERIA LADIES WHO ARE GAME PLAYERS. I CALL ANY WOMAN OR LADY WHO PLAYS GAME WITH HER FUTURE HUSBAND AS A BLOODY FOOL. END OF DISCUSSION. Posted: at 2-06-2012 07:03 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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abumzazzy at 2-06-2012 07:27 PM (12 years ago) (m) The guy is mean joor!e no try.
my dear sister. i sympathies with you. but hold firm to God for his ways are not ours, every disappointment is said to be blessing in disguise, trust God what he has for you is better than what you have just loosed, I declare in thy Name of Jesus CHRIST OF nazareth your missing rib will surely locate you not too long Shaout AMEN. Posted: at 2-06-2012 07:27 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie | |
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Ona sure say no be the so called husband plan the rape so that he can have excuse to call off the wedding??? Just wondering sha..Anything can happen Posted: at 2-06-2012 07:29 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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dickman2 at 2-06-2012 07:36 PM (12 years ago) (m) Ona sure say no be the so called husband plan the rape so that he can have excuse to call off the wedding??? Just wondering sha..Anything can happen
maybe ... Posted: at 2-06-2012 07:36 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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sunnyma at 2-06-2012 07:48 PM (12 years ago) (m) it is a pity,poor girl Posted: at 2-06-2012 07:48 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie | |
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toriaclaus at 2-06-2012 08:13 PM (12 years ago) (f) hmm 2 weeks to her wedding,in a guest house with young guys,any way maybe she wan take the last one before she enter her husband house,yeye girl Posted: at 2-06-2012 08:13 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie | |
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Bettychy at 2-06-2012 08:19 PM (12 years ago) (f) "This girl sure needs prayer so the guy can have a change of heart!" If the girl would marry that guy, that would be a terrible mistake that will give her a lasting regret. The guy never loved her in the first instance. Such a modern coward banboo that sees a family as children production factory and not a place to love and be loved is not ment for a lady but for a "woman" Posted: at 2-06-2012 08:19 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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fateewase at 2-06-2012 08:24 PM (12 years ago) (f) That's her palava,what was she doing at d guest house. Posted: at 2-06-2012 08:24 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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eoadex2003 at 2-06-2012 08:42 PM (12 years ago) (m) Thank God she did not marry him, d guy did not love d girl, GOD USE DAT TO SAVE HER FROM HORRIBLE MARRIED LIFE. And d rapers, u are heartless. Posted: at 2-06-2012 08:42 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Bettychy at 2-06-2012 08:58 PM (12 years ago) (f) HUMMMMMMMMMMMM ITS REALLY VERY FUNNY,LETS TAKE IT THIS WAY, THERE IS NO RAPE IN THE FIRST PLACE. MEANWHILE, I AM SURPRISED HOW THIS GIRL BY NAME OPEN_REALITY USED TO BLAST THE COMMENTS OF REASONABLE MEN IN THIS MATTER. IF THERE IS RAPE IN THIS MATTER, HOW DO YOU CONVINCE ME THAT IN A HOTEL, THREE GUYS HAD SEX WITH A GIRL AND THERE WAS NO ALARM IN THE HOTEL?. TAKING A TENTATIVE LOOK AT THE MATTER, THERE IS SOMETHING HIDEN WHICH WAS NOT DULLY EXPLAINED TO US WHO ARE COMMENTING HERE. AS FOR ME, I WILL TAKE A U-TURN JUST AS THE GUY DID AND WILL GO INt*t* AND FOUND OUT EXACTLY WHAT HAPPENE BEFORE I TAKE A FINAL DECISION IF I WILL CONTINUE OR NOT. MEANWHILE, THE GIRL IN QUESTION MUST NOT BE A GOOD WIFE. BECAUSE IF SHE IS, NOTHING WILL ENTHISE HER TO HOTEL ROOM NO MATTER WHAT WHEN SHE KNOW THAT SHE IS ABOUT TO WEDD IN TWO WEEKS TIME. I THINK THAT THE INCIDENT HAPPENED IN ORDER TO OPEN THE EYES OF THE YOUNG MAN WHO WANTED TO MARRY HER. BECAUSE HUMAN BEINGS HAVE DIFFERENT SPIRITS THAT FOLLOWS THEM AROUND. I HOPE THIS WILL SERVE AS A LESSON TO THAT GIRL AND THE OTHER NIGERIA LADIES WHO ARE GAME PLAYERS. I CALL ANY WOMAN OR LADY WHO PLAYS GAME WITH HER FUTURE HUSBAND AS A BLOODY FOOL. END OF DISCUSSION.
Good analysis! But don`t be offended if I tell you it makes no much sense to me
I don`t know where you live nor the generation you belong to but I smell a typical left-behind Nigerian mentality of the old generations.
First, the four persons involved where friends, probably very good friends that did things together. They live in the same area which suggests they know each other relatively well and they trusted each other. They might have, out of jealosy, wanted to have a taste of the girl before losing her to a man. Secondly, modern guesthouses do have restaurants, bars, Foto halls, gardens, swimming pools etc. that are not meant only for overnight guests but for all guests who cares and pays for the use/services. That means you can switch into a guesthouse for a lunch or a drink or even a quality ice creme. >I do that< You mustn`t get a room! (not all) When you put the above together and more, you`ll agree with me that there is a chance of TRICKING the girl "down the road" As for how she got rapped without people in the guesthouse helping, something could have gone wrong. Think about getting her drunk or drugged. Think about tying her to a position with her mouth binded (3 men against one girl) etc. This might not be the best of possible explanations but just to show you that the story could be true Posted: at 2-06-2012 08:58 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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