She wants to trap me...

Date: 08-06-2012 7:01 pm (12 years ago) | Author: Ramadhan
- at 8-06-2012 07:01 PM (12 years ago)
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I found out from her friend that my current girl wants to get pregnant. We've
only been going a couple of weeks after I broke off with me previous girl. But
to my surprise, this news is very disturbing. Why would she want to get herself
pregnant without my consent, deliberately? I haven't confronted her with this.
What would you naijapals advise me about this disturbing matter?

Posted: at 8-06-2012 07:01 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
- wandepope at 8-06-2012 07:16 PM (12 years ago)
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With  Name like jasonbond i dont think anyone can trap you.but seriously i dont think its right for her to do that by the way if you have slept with her i dont think there is anything you can do now that does not have  the possibility of back firing .waait till 9 months  and do a DNA test...how well do you trust that other friend anyway?
Posted: at 8-06-2012 07:16 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- jasonbod at 8-06-2012 07:31 PM (12 years ago)
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Jasonbod not bond lol. She is not pregnant yet, as far as I know, but her friend tells me she is trying to get
pregnant. And yes, I've slept with her many times but I was sure she was taking precautions. But now I find out
differently from her friend. It's a delicate issue cos if I confront her she will know her friend revealed the truth about her
intentions. What do I do? Dump her?
Posted: at 8-06-2012 07:31 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- bittersweet at 8-06-2012 07:34 PM (12 years ago)
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That so called "friend" of her,who gave you that information, is a man or a woman?

Posted: at 8-06-2012 07:34 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- jasonbod at 8-06-2012 07:38 PM (12 years ago)
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Her friend is a woman.
Posted: at 8-06-2012 07:38 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- bittersweet at 8-06-2012 07:43 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: jasonbod on  8-06-2012 07:38 PM
Her friend is a woman.

I thought as much!
Don't trust anybody for the moment, just try to find out more,and meanwhile...keep your pants on!

Posted: at 8-06-2012 07:43 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- jasonbod at 8-06-2012 07:45 PM (12 years ago)
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Are you for real? You think she could be lying?
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- jossy4reall at 8-06-2012 07:46 PM (12 years ago)
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No1: u do it raw......No2: u dont want her pregnant..........No3: u listen 2 gossips......No4: U dont want 2 confront her....finally the problem hia is U and U alone...........she want 2 get pregnant culd be bcuz she is either in love or in lust.......but probably, u only want sex 4rm her......so my advise drop d gal now b4 she become a victim circumstance.........I mean no insult plz

Posted: at 8-06-2012 07:46 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- jasonbod at 8-06-2012 07:52 PM (12 years ago)
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jossy4reall, I hear you buddy. It's my fault man, I know. Everything you said is true. I seriously want to drop her man.
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- bittersweet at 8-06-2012 07:54 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: jasonbod on  8-06-2012 07:45 PM
Are you for real? You think she could be lying?

Very possible...but that doesn't mean that you should be relaxed and continue sleeping with ur girlfriend as before.
Trust only yourself for now,and as I said, try to find out more,maybe just from ur girlfriend directly!
(Just be careful at her behavior, her words and so on!) 

But that only if you feel something for that girl, and u think it's worth the trouble, if not....u know what to do!

Posted: at 8-06-2012 07:54 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- jasonbod at 8-06-2012 08:01 PM (12 years ago)
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I only found out today. So I guess I need to be on red alert now.
She is a lovely girl and for 2 weeks now we've had a good thing
going. This news is devastating. She never hinted anything of the
sort and I never suspected anything at all.
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- jossy4reall at 8-06-2012 08:04 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: jasonbod on  8-06-2012 07:52 PM
jossy4reall, I hear you buddy. It's my fault man, I know. Everything you said is true. I seriously want to drop her man.


Gud 2 hear dat cuz a stitch in time prevent future tear tear

Posted: at 8-06-2012 08:04 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- jasonbod at 8-06-2012 08:06 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: jossy4reall on  8-06-2012 08:04 PM

Gud 2 hear dat cuz a stitch in time prevent future tear tear

Yes, for real bro.
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- ajanni at 8-06-2012 08:08 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: jasonbod on  8-06-2012 07:01 PM
I found out from her friend that my current girl wants to get pregnant. We've
only been going a couple of weeks after I broke off with me previous girl. But
to my surprise, this news is very disturbing. Why would she want to get herself
pregnant without my consent, deliberately? I haven't confronted her with this.
What would you naijapals advise me about this disturbing matter?

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Posted: at 8-06-2012 08:08 PM (12 years ago) | Grande Master
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- FlyMamacita at 9-06-2012 10:39 AM (12 years ago)
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No b u who dey in control of dat one  Huh? Huh? CONDOM  Cool
Posted: at 9-06-2012 10:39 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- mizcollins1 at 9-06-2012 10:44 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on  8-06-2012 07:43 PM
I thought as much!
Don't trust anybody for the moment, just try to find out more,and meanwhile...keep your pants on!

nicely said sis!!
Posted: at 9-06-2012 10:44 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ajanni at 9-06-2012 03:38 PM (12 years ago)
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Posted: at 9-06-2012 03:38 PM (12 years ago) | Grande Master
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- omomarty at 9-06-2012 03:51 PM (12 years ago)
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- ajanni at 9-06-2012 04:26 PM (12 years ago)
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Posted: at 9-06-2012 04:26 PM (12 years ago) | Grande Master
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- Beauti4 at 9-06-2012 11:55 PM (12 years ago)
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Na wa for you oh... I think the man should answer you on this one.
Posted: at 9-06-2012 11:55 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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