I found out from her friend that my current girl wants to get pregnant. We've only been going a couple of weeks after I broke off with me previous girl. But to my surprise, this news is very disturbing. Why would she want to get herself pregnant without my consent, deliberately? I haven't confronted her with this. What would you naijapals advise me about this disturbing matter?
Posted: at 8-06-2012 07:01 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
wandepope at 8-06-2012 07:16 PM (12 years ago) (m)
With Name like jasonbond i dont think anyone can trap you.but seriously i dont think its right for her to do that by the way if you have slept with her i dont think there is anything you can do now that does not have the possibility of back firing .waait till 9 months and do a DNA test...how well do you trust that other friend anyway?
Posted: at 8-06-2012 07:16 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
Jasonbod not bond lol. She is not pregnant yet, as far as I know, but her friend tells me she is trying to get pregnant. And yes, I've slept with her many times but I was sure she was taking precautions. But now I find out differently from her friend. It's a delicate issue cos if I confront her she will know her friend revealed the truth about her intentions. What do I do? Dump her?
Posted: at 8-06-2012 07:31 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
jossy4reall at 8-06-2012 07:46 PM (12 years ago) (m)
No1: u do it raw......No2: u dont want her pregnant..........No3: u listen 2 gossips......No4: U dont want 2 confront her....finally the problem hia is U and U alone...........she want 2 get pregnant culd be bcuz she is either in love or in lust.......but probably, u only want sex 4rm her......so my advise drop d gal now b4 she become a victim circumstance.........I mean no insult plz
Love or Hate me its ur Biz, I have more important things to think abt since u never gonna change me
Posted: at 8-06-2012 07:46 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
bittersweet at 8-06-2012 07:54 PM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: jasonbod on 8-06-2012 07:45 PM
Are you for real? You think she could be lying?
Very possible...but that doesn't mean that you should be relaxed and continue sleeping with ur girlfriend as before. Trust only yourself for now,and as I said, try to find out more,maybe just from ur girlfriend directly! (Just be careful at her behavior, her words and so on!) But that only if you feel something for that girl, and u think it's worth the trouble, if not....u know what to do!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 8-06-2012 07:54 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
I only found out today. So I guess I need to be on red alert now. She is a lovely girl and for 2 weeks now we've had a good thing going. This news is devastating. She never hinted anything of the sort and I never suspected anything at all.
Posted: at 8-06-2012 08:01 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
I found out from her friend that my current girl wants to get pregnant. We've only been going a couple of weeks after I broke off with me previous girl. But to my surprise, this news is very disturbing. Why would she want to get herself pregnant without my consent, deliberately? I haven't confronted her with this. What would you naijapals advise me about this disturbing matter?
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Posted: at 8-06-2012 08:08 PM (12 years ago) | Grande Master