3 Questions You Should Never Ask Your Unless You’re Prepared For The Answer

Published 7 years ago by: psalmmy
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at 12:13 PM, 13/06/2012 (7 years ago)

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Do you still love me?” “Do you want to break up?” “Do you want to get back together?” These questions and others like them are inquiries that should never be asked unless you are prepared to hear both answers.



By the time these questions are asked, the answer is never going to be good. Yet, I have counseled so many couples and continue to speak to people on a daily basis who ask these questions. The hope is that they are just being insecure and the answer will be the one they want. However, when the answer is not the one they are looking for, they exhibit behavior that is not very attractive and can be humiliating.

If you suspect that your partner does not love you anymore, is seeing someone else, or you are unsure if your ex wants to get back together and the uncertainty is driving you crazy, then, by all means, ask. Just make sure you are prepared for any answer. To not be prepared for the worst possible news is to be in denial. Denial can lead to wishing for something that you know is not going to happen.

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clarionblack at 12:56 PM, 13/06/2012 (7 years ago)
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Infact u r right
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habiziz at 01:01 PM, 13/06/2012 (7 years ago)
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 Roll Eyes
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mizcollins1 at 01:02 PM, 13/06/2012 (7 years ago)
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 Undecided
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Solidstonez at 01:05 PM, 13/06/2012 (7 years ago)
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Alright

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zoe61 at 01:07 PM, 13/06/2012 (7 years ago)
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u damn right most ladies always ask those questions
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stephen153 at 01:39 PM, 13/06/2012 (7 years ago)
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ok
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moriztuos at 01:47 PM, 13/06/2012 (7 years ago)
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 Grin
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Annizzle at 01:49 PM, 13/06/2012 (7 years ago)
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 Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes
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sophiebaby at 02:09 PM, 13/06/2012 (7 years ago)
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do you still love me? poster am guilty of this question..i kip asking on and on and on  Cry Cry Cry .. i quit asking..thanks

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naturalqueen at 02:13 PM, 13/06/2012 (7 years ago)
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okay
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mankaa at 02:24 PM, 13/06/2012 (7 years ago)
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yeahhhhhhhhhh
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kennynaija at 02:36 PM, 13/06/2012 (7 years ago)
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 Smiley Smiley Smiley

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denmal at 02:53 PM, 13/06/2012 (7 years ago)
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ok na
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jamesbondchick at 02:59 PM, 13/06/2012 (7 years ago)
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 Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes

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chicco77 at 03:38 PM, 13/06/2012 (7 years ago)
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EXATLY
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interpo77 at 03:47 PM, 13/06/2012 (7 years ago)
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ask me this questions when i just met u, then repeat it again after some months , i will tell u the exact fact, cos moving with u all these while has opened to me whom u re,,,,, I DONT CARE IF HEAD ROLES, i will tell u i dont love u if really i dont
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verah at 03:51 PM, 13/06/2012 (7 years ago)
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 Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue

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aso4life1 at 04:31 PM, 13/06/2012 (7 years ago)
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Those questions shows there are problems

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Idbabe at 04:54 PM, 13/06/2012 (7 years ago)
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Quote from: zoe61 on 01:07 PM, 13/06/2012
u damn right most ladies always ask those questions

How many of them don ask u so far?
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