3 Questions You Should Never Ask Your Unless You’re Prepared For The Answer

Date: 13-06-2012 12:13 pm (11 years ago) | Author: psalmmy
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- at 13-06-2012 12:13 PM (11 years ago)
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“Do you still love me?” “Do you want to break up?” “Do you want to get back together?” These questions and others like them are inquiries that should never be asked unless you are prepared to hear both answers.



By the time these questions are asked, the answer is never going to be good. Yet, I have counseled so many couples and continue to speak to people on a daily basis who ask these questions. The hope is that they are just being insecure and the answer will be the one they want. However, when the answer is not the one they are looking for, they exhibit behavior that is not very attractive and can be humiliating.

If you suspect that your partner does not love you anymore, is seeing someone else, or you are unsure if your ex wants to get back together and the uncertainty is driving you crazy, then, by all means, ask. Just make sure you are prepared for any answer. To not be prepared for the worst possible news is to be in denial. Denial can lead to wishing for something that you know is not going to happen.

Posted: at 13-06-2012 12:13 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
- clarionblack at 13-06-2012 12:56 PM (11 years ago)
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Infact u r right
Posted: at 13-06-2012 12:56 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- habiziz at 13-06-2012 01:01 PM (11 years ago)
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 Roll Eyes
Posted: at 13-06-2012 01:01 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- mizcollins1 at 13-06-2012 01:02 PM (11 years ago)
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 Undecided
Posted: at 13-06-2012 01:02 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Solidstonez at 13-06-2012 01:05 PM (11 years ago)
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Alright
Posted: at 13-06-2012 01:05 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- zoe61 at 13-06-2012 01:07 PM (11 years ago)
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u damn right most ladies always ask those questions
Posted: at 13-06-2012 01:07 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- moriztuos at 13-06-2012 01:47 PM (11 years ago)
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 Grin
Posted: at 13-06-2012 01:47 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Annizzle at 13-06-2012 01:49 PM (11 years ago)
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 Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes
Posted: at 13-06-2012 01:49 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- sophiebaby at 13-06-2012 02:09 PM (11 years ago)
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do you still love me? poster am guilty of this question..i kip asking on and on and on  Cry Cry Cry .. i quit asking..thanks
Posted: at 13-06-2012 02:09 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- naturalqueen at 13-06-2012 02:13 PM (11 years ago)
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okay
Posted: at 13-06-2012 02:13 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mankaa at 13-06-2012 02:24 PM (11 years ago)
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yeahhhhhhhhhh
Posted: at 13-06-2012 02:24 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- kennynaija at 13-06-2012 02:36 PM (11 years ago)
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 Smiley Smiley Smiley
Posted: at 13-06-2012 02:36 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- denmal at 13-06-2012 02:53 PM (11 years ago)
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ok na
Posted: at 13-06-2012 02:53 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- jamesbondchick at 13-06-2012 02:59 PM (11 years ago)
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 Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes
Posted: at 13-06-2012 02:59 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- chicco77 at 13-06-2012 03:38 PM (11 years ago)
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EXATLY
Posted: at 13-06-2012 03:38 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- interpo77 at 13-06-2012 03:47 PM (11 years ago)
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ask me this questions when i just met u, then repeat it again after some months , i will tell u the exact fact, cos moving with u all these while has opened to me whom u re,,,,, I DONT CARE IF HEAD ROLES, i will tell u i dont love u if really i dont
Posted: at 13-06-2012 03:47 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- verah at 13-06-2012 03:51 PM (11 years ago)
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 Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue
Posted: at 13-06-2012 03:51 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- aso4life1 at 13-06-2012 04:31 PM (11 years ago)
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Those questions shows there are problems
Posted: at 13-06-2012 04:31 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- Idbabe at 13-06-2012 04:54 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: zoe61 on 13-06-2012 01:07 PM
u damn right most ladies always ask those questions

How many of them don ask u so far?
Posted: at 13-06-2012 04:54 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- jossy4reall at 13-06-2012 05:55 PM (11 years ago)
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poster which ones do I suppose to ask??
Posted: at 13-06-2012 05:55 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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