Women, Why? Why? Why?

Why on earth will a woman always welcome her family members to her matrimonial home but refuse blatantly the family members of her spouse?

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Posted: at 27-06-2012 06:20 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Its Vice versa My dear... Some Inlaws are TOXIC and they create genuine CHAOS through various assaults aggressive or subtle on you and your marriage. Toxic–in laws come in a wide variety of guises, " The Critics.; ", who tell you what you're doing wrong, "The Controllers.;", who try to run you and your partner's life, " The Engulfers.;", who make incessant demands on your time, " The Masters of Chaos.;", who drain you and your partner with their problems, and, " The Rejecters.;", who let you know they don't want you as part of their family....Most of the times Our rights with our in-laws include the right to say no, to disagree, to not love them, to let them know when they've offended us, to have them stay out of problems between we and our husband, to set limits on how much time we spend with them, these rights are a matter of freedom and common sense... Whenever an in-law wants to come visiting..be it from the man or woman.. limits ought to be set.. spell it out to them..and know their time of arrival andthe day they would want to go.. so than none will be inconvenienced... some inlaws come to creat probs for their brothers wife..or sisters husband ... u nvr can tell.. cos dem no dey write sey I BE WITCH or I BE WIZARD for dem forehead

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Posted: at 27-06-2012 09:17 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Thanks Sweetie 

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Posted: at 27-06-2012 10:57 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

   

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Posted: at 27-06-2012 11:33 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Sophie is said it before that you get wiser eeryday but i'm saying now that you i think you aer getting wiser per second.Anyway good one from sophiebaby.

Posted: at 27-06-2012 02:27 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

 

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Posted: at 27-06-2012 02:31 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Poster ask them again and again

Posted: at 27-06-2012 02:48 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

I can tell u of a man that puts it straight to his people and his wife's people.. that be it his mom or his wife's, his papa or hers.. the person should call him personally on the fone to tell him when he or she wants to visit.. that if he comes home and finds the person dia.. he wouldnt find it or take it lightly with the person.. like i said (some) Inlaws are very funny set of people.. all they know is come, take chop and go. Its not a woman thing..its vice versa

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Posted: at 27-06-2012 03:02 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Well, may be their is something.and sophy you are correct too.

Posted: at 27-06-2012 04:55 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Thanks for that sophy. But do not let them see me oo.

Posted: at 27-06-2012 05:06 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac