I personally believe that TELLING a woman that you "like her" is one of the WORST things you can do. If you want a woman to know that you like her, the best way is to have her FIGURE IT OUT.
Let me confuse the issue further...
"Telling her" that you like her and "feeling like you really want to tell her" are two completely different issues, and they're BOTH bad... but for different reasons.
TELLING her is bad because it takes the MAGIC, the SUSPENSE, the MYSTERY, and the segxwal TENSION out of the situation.
It pops the balloon.
It kills the chemistry....why?
Ok, Check this out, let's talk a bit about ATTRACTION.
It happens for reasons that are difficult to explain to a person who has a "bad model" of how it works.
But, let's just say that if it DOES happen, you want to AMPLIFY it. You don't want to WEAKEN it. One of the problems with "telling her how you feel" is that it instantly changes the dynamics of the situation.
When you say, "I like you" - in her head the woman hears:
"He is admitting to me that he likes me, which gives me all the power, which, for some strange reason, makes me not like him as much anymore."
I realize that this sounds crazy, and doesn't make a whole lot of "logical sense", but it's what usually happens. It has a lot to do with the fact that when most guys say, "I like you" they sound like needy kittens that just want to cuddle and suckle the bosom of mommy... which isn't exactly "attraction creating" stuff.
If you want to "tell" a woman that you "like her", the best way to do it is to ADVANCE PHYSICALLY.
In other words, TAKE THINGS TO THE NEXT LEVEL.
DO something, don't SAY something. Words are to be used when ACTIONS don't work better.
"Attraction Isn't A Choice"...Don't beg for it oh!!!
Wanna Understand this more?....join Sabi Club...on Naijapals.com/groups
Sabizy-2-bizy
Posted: at 6-04-2009 07:40 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
diplomatik at 6-04-2009 09:17 PM (16 years ago) (f)
i no read am...cut am short....BRB
u've seen me right? i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool
Posted: at 6-04-2009 09:17 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
If ya didnt read it...den its not meant 4 u...and please dnt cut ma flow if ya didnt read it jst move on I mean heck!!! ..ders lots of post on d page...ugh!!!!..U can't tell me wat to post or how to post it...I mean dats y d site is free ryt?...bullies!
Sabizy-2-bizy
Posted: at 27-04-2009 03:27 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
chrissiebee at 27-04-2009 03:57 PM (16 years ago) (f)
................
<a href="http://tinypic.com" target="_blank"><img src="http://i41.tinypic.com/2ezmli0.jpg" border="0" alt="Image and video hosting by TinyPic">[/url]STILL A CERTIFIED V-SQUADER!! Take it or leave it! A wise man told me don't argue with fools,Cause people from a distance, can't see who is who
Posted: at 27-04-2009 03:57 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
chrissiebee at 28-04-2009 01:20 AM (16 years ago) (f)
passing...
<a href="http://tinypic.com" target="_blank"><img src="http://i41.tinypic.com/2ezmli0.jpg" border="0" alt="Image and video hosting by TinyPic">[/url]STILL A CERTIFIED V-SQUADER!! Take it or leave it! A wise man told me don't argue with fools,Cause people from a distance, can't see who is who
Posted: at 28-04-2009 01:20 AM (16 years ago) | Hero
I personally believe that TELLING a woman that you "like her" is one of the WORST things you can do. If you want a woman to know that you like her, the best way is to have her FIGURE IT OUT.
Let me confuse the issue further...
"Telling her" that you like her and "feeling like you really want to tell her" are two completely different issues, and they're BOTH bad... but for different reasons.
TELLING her is bad because it takes the MAGIC, the SUSPENSE, the MYSTERY, and the segxwal TENSION out of the situation.
It pops the balloon.
It kills the chemistry....why?
Ok, Check this out, let's talk a bit about ATTRACTION.
It happens for reasons that are difficult to explain to a person who has a "bad model" of how it works.
But, let's just say that if it DOES happen, you want to AMPLIFY it. You don't want to WEAKEN it. One of the problems with "telling her how you feel" is that it instantly changes the dynamics of the situation.
When you say, "I like you" - in her head the woman hears:
"He is admitting to me that he likes me, which gives me all the power, which, for some strange reason, makes me not like him as much anymore."
I realize that this sounds crazy, and doesn't make a whole lot of "logical sense", but it's what usually happens. It has a lot to do with the fact that when most guys say, "I like you" they sound like needy kittens that just want to cuddle and suckle the bosom of mommy... which isn't exactly "attraction creating" stuff.
If you want to "tell" a woman that you "like her", the best way to do it is to ADVANCE PHYSICALLY.
In other words, TAKE THINGS TO THE NEXT LEVEL.
DO something, don't SAY something. Words are to be used when ACTIONS don't work better.
"Attraction Isn't A Choice"...Don't beg for it oh!!!
Wanna Understand this more?....join Sabi Club...on Naijapals.com/groups
ok ooo, we don hear
2.0.
Posted: at 28-04-2009 11:45 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
diplomatik at 28-04-2009 03:51 PM (16 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Pires07 on 28-04-2009 03:49 PM
reading through... brb
come bck here....where r u going sef....
u've seen me right? i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool
Posted: at 28-04-2009 03:51 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
diplomatik at 28-04-2009 03:59 PM (16 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Pires07 on 28-04-2009 03:56 PM
Quote from: diplomatik on 28-04-2009 03:51 PM
Quote from: Pires07 on 28-04-2009 03:49 PM
reading through... brb
come bck here....where r u going sef....
aww plz dnt be angry i did'nt knw u were there, how is osi?
he's fine...he went home....
so how r u?
u've seen me right? i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool
Posted: at 28-04-2009 03:59 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
onchedu
i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either 
, i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool 
A wise man told me don't argue with fools,Cause people from a distance, can't see who is who
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