confused (Page 2)

God is showing you early sign how unhappy you will be if you marry the guy, yet you are still talking about love, if a man truely love a woman,he will never use abusive words on her, he will value her, and sees her as a gift from God, so my dear, stop fooling your self wake up, you guys are not in love

Posted: at 7-08-2012 08:39 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac

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Posted: at 7-08-2012 08:48 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac

What's going on here nah?

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Posted: at 7-08-2012 09:03 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac

 

Posted: at 7-08-2012 09:16 PM (11 years ago) | Hero

foluks24 and Sheyize. I think the two of you should bcome lovers  

@foluks24 for 3yrs you've been with this guy, blive me he will not change bcos u wants him to. All you need to do is to give him some space. If he calls u pick but let him understand your own perspective towards your r/ship and do not take him back. Just let him be. And blive me he will start seeing other girls just to ease himself.

@Sheyize: I read your second comment and I don't think you love her as you claim. I mean why would u take all the things you bought for her just to get her back? Common, you sound very controlling. You just need to stay in control of yourself and stop thinking that love can buy material things. Seriously, learn how to love without expecting anything in return. In your next r/ship, plz minimize your spending, if u wants to give her a gift, then help her find a job. You can never please anybody with material things. Set the thing you've given her aside, and search within yourself and you will know what you need to let go and what your need to adjust.

Also, the two of you need God to fill the gap in your heart! GOoD LuCk!

Posted: at 7-08-2012 09:27 PM (11 years ago) | Hero

Una get time for lOng story

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Posted: at 7-08-2012 09:32 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero

your date should be the one that makes you smile not crying. He/she should be the one to treat you right when things go wrong nothing making you sad. One thing for sure is that any relationship without God is likely to break. 2 must agree to be one but if other wise, they are not meant to be. Dont let what you have spoil the enjoyment of the things that lies ahead. Your date should live you better than he found you and give you all you ever wanted. I think you should seek for God now and let Him direct you.       

Posted: at 7-08-2012 10:36 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie

 

Posted: at 7-08-2012 11:45 PM (11 years ago) | Hero

Nonsense,material love.tell me,if he's not comfortable will u still be tolerating him?abeg make I hear word jare,Nigerian girls with true love,hahahahahahahhahahahhahahahahahhahahahahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.

Posted: at 8-08-2012 02:24 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming

My dear sister, you can't change him, you either take him for what he is or head for the border.

Posted: at 8-08-2012 02:42 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac