Are there such thing as positive and negative infidelity???

Date: 13-08-2012 8:56 pm (11 years ago) | Author: draGon Lord
- at 13-08-2012 08:56 PM (11 years ago)
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Are there such thing as positive or negative infidelity? Isn't evil seen as evil even when committed for a just course?...those were the exact weird questions i asked myself when i heard the story.

The story you are about to read is indeed a true story. It's a story about the wife of some young mega rich guy in my community and it is happening right now as you read this piece. It's a pretty long story but i am going to make it as precise as possible and of course the names used are all fictitious.

Dave and Amaka started out as childhood friends living in the same neighbourhood. They attended same primary and secondary schools while growing up...they were like best of friends and as fate would have it, 2yrs after rounding up secondary school, they got admission into the same university to study the same course and in their second year, they fell in love with each other and started dating. Their love, according to witnesses, was like Romeo and Juliet...it was literarily flawless. After graduation, they were posted to different states for their youth service and at the end of service year, luckily for Dave, he got retained at his place of service but Amaka wasn't so lucky and so she moved in with Dave while she continued her job hunt which was never fruitful. 2yrs later, they got married and just 5months into their marital bliss***, Dave lost his job and that was when things started turning from green to red for the young couple. A year past and no job for either of them and at that time, life was fast becoming a living hell for them and at one point in time, they agreed to quit hunting for jobs and try their hands on securing little contracts here and there independently just to keep body and soul together till they hopefully hit jackpot. Dave never got lucky in the contract hunt however, Amaka was lucky to secure a few meager*** ones which still wasn't enough to change their financial situation. Those who were willing to award her big contracts gave her stiff unthinkable conditions she couldn't bear as a married woman you know 'it's either you spread your legs or nothing' and that continued for several months until she got fed up and started yielding to their demands behind her husband's back and it did paid off big time! Within 3yrs of sleeping with big shots for contracts, Amaka and her husband became multi millionaires and proud owners of several multi million naira investments spread across the country.

With 2 lovely kids, their family was a very happy one but not until recently when Amaka's ugly past brought its ugly head into light. In a social function he attended, Dave had a pretty intense beef with some chief who apparently knew about Amaka's past. The chief publicly told Dave his (Dave) life history saying to his face and i quote..."You are here claiming to be a man ...you go about town spending money your public dog of a wife had to screw her way to secure...you should keep quiet when real men are talking". That was the straw that broke the carmel's back. Dave, out of anger or should i say shame, called up his driver and they drove off.

On getting home and in a highly furious state, Dave started questioning Amaka in a most ungentlemanly manner until Amaka confessed she actually did it. She said she had to do what she did to change their situation which was fast headed for ruins as at that time but she claimed to have stopped the act soon after she secured the contract that gave them the big break. To cut the long story short, Dave threatened to wipe out the full family including himself and Amaka, seeing how serious her husband sounded, had to move out real quick with her 2 kids to an unknown destination while she sends friends and family to help beg her husband for forgiveness.

It's been a mixed reaction in terms of views and comments from different folks on the matter...some say Amaka is evil and deserves to go while a few others say though what she did was evil and shameful, she did it for the betterment of her family and deserves to be forgiven completely.

Now having read through Amaka's story what do you think?


Posted: at 13-08-2012 08:56 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
- evaworld at 13-08-2012 09:23 PM (11 years ago)
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Honestly, infidelity is infidelity and I don't believe one can cheat on his/her patner 4 a right cause. I feel pity 4 Amaka though, but she shoul have continued wit d meager contracts and trusted God totaly 4 a bigger deal there are good hearted men out there who will help u without askin u d color of ur pant all she needed then was patience and evrytin would av been fine. Now wt is d essence of having millions of naira and not enjoyin it wit her family I pray God Himself settle d disaster on ground!   
 
Posted: at 13-08-2012 09:23 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Idbabe at 14-08-2012 01:16 PM (11 years ago)
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When one partner is faithful and the other is unfaithful = negative infidelity
When a faithful partner suddenly turn unfaithful as a revenge to unfaithful partner = positive infidelity.

hahahahahahhahahahaha
Posted: at 14-08-2012 01:16 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 14-08-2012 01:29 PM (11 years ago)
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I realized that there is actually very little logic behind this reasoning at least in terms of what makes human hearts tick. Because one couple chooses to live up to the vows they’ve made, doesn’t mean the rest of us will or that we even can, consistently, do the same. Sometimes a spouse might actually need to have an affair of sorts, if only to learn from such a profound mistake, so that they can finally get their you-know-what together and give that marriage the full dedication it deserves with a genuine till-death-do-us-part commitment. Ask anybody who’s been “there” and had to learn the hard way: Nothing gives the heart 20/20 vision quite like being in the arms of the wrong person.

Sometimes, infidelity can make a marriage stronger --- and If one couple can survive the aftermath of an affair and find genuine completeness in a love that strong, the rest of us can, too.  Cool  --- Sometimes, just knowing the impossible is possible, is all that it takes.  Wink

Posted: at 14-08-2012 01:29 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- globala at 14-08-2012 03:08 PM (11 years ago)
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 Cry Cry Cry Cry Cry Cry Cry

Posted: at 14-08-2012 03:08 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sophiebaby at 14-08-2012 03:21 PM (11 years ago)
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y u dey cry na.. AMAKA na ur wife?

Posted: at 14-08-2012 03:21 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- xena15 at 15-08-2012 12:22 AM (11 years ago)
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Chei!
Amaka own don finish!

Posted: at 15-08-2012 12:22 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- draG9 at 17-08-2012 12:43 AM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 14-08-2012 01:29 PM
I realized that there is actually very little logic behind this reasoning at least in terms of what makes human hearts tick. Because one couple chooses to live up to the vows they’ve made, doesn’t mean the rest of us will or that we even can, consistently, do the same. Sometimes a spouse might actually need to have an affair of sorts, if only to learn from such a profound mistake, so that they can finally get their you-know-what together and give that marriage the full dedication it deserves with a genuine till-death-do-us-part commitment. Ask anybody who’s been “there” and had to learn the hard way: Nothing gives the heart 20/20 vision quite like being in the arms of the wrong person.

Sometimes, infidelity can make a marriage stronger --- and If one couple can survive the aftermath of an affair and find genuine completeness in a love that strong, the rest of us can, too.  Cool  --- Sometimes, just knowing the impossible is possible, is all that it takes.  Wink

hmmm...

Posted: at 17-08-2012 12:43 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- draG9 at 17-08-2012 12:44 AM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: Idbabe on 14-08-2012 01:16 PM
When one partner is faithful and the other is unfaithful = negative infidelity
When a faithful partner suddenly turn unfaithful as a revenge to unfaithful partner = positive infidelity.

hahahahahahhahahahaha

Teacher!

Posted: at 17-08-2012 12:44 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Solidstonez at 27-08-2012 03:18 PM (11 years ago)
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WOW

Posted: at 27-08-2012 03:18 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Solidstonez at 27-08-2012 03:18 PM (11 years ago)
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INTERESTING

Posted: at 27-08-2012 03:18 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- draG9 at 27-08-2012 09:32 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: Solidstonez on 27-08-2012 03:18 PM
INTERESTING

 Huh?

Posted: at 27-08-2012 09:32 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- globalngr at 27-08-2012 09:54 PM (11 years ago)
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god will help us all

Posted: at 27-08-2012 09:54 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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