I am a bit confused. Just because your fiance(or a man who calls himself your husband) cheats on you does it mean that something is wrong with you? Or how do you handle the situation?, when he is cheating and you know he is but if you mention something that you know he tells you that you are useless, stupid, and insecure, and he says that nothing is going on, but you know better, evidence is all around and there are facts to prove it. At times you don't say anything to avoid an argument, but inside its hurting you because you don't want to go into a marriage where a man is cheating and lying to you in the name of God. Its just wrong, but help me on this one, What should be done?
Posted: at 27-04-2009 04:21 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
blessedchidon at 27-04-2009 04:50 PM (16 years ago) (m)
give him red card, not joking quit right now the man is not 4u beliv it or not, he dnt luv u and u'll continue 2regret feeling hurt {see, marriage is nt 2be endure but 2be enjoy ok}
Posted: at 27-04-2009 04:50 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
If you think he's been cheating..confront him avioding arguements wont solve the problem..dialogue might..However if he continues to do that quit!..A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage
Be yourself
Posted: at 27-04-2009 05:03 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
PreetyInstinct at 27-04-2009 05:35 PM (16 years ago) (f)
@Poster bring d proof now and let us anlayze d situation 4 u(jokes)i don't really know wat 2 say but i guess u should just pray because now u say u can see signs but u have not actually caught him red handed(not dat u have 2)menh u gottta just pray y don't u talk 2 him first and c wat he says because if ur feeling dis way now it's not 2 good 4 ur relationship dats all i gotta say c ya .
I will never fade and I will never blend....not here to be ur friend or enemy, i say what i ave to say & i'll be out as soon as i'm done, not hard to find & not here to keep i'm the beauty that you can never sight asleep!
Posted: at 27-04-2009 05:35 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
please pray for your marriage ooo. there r various temptation in this issue so call marriage. pls take it easy. i think u should also talk to some of his/your elder ones if they can help u talk to her. do anything to save your marriage. if he aint yours then let God decide. B strong!
Posted: at 27-04-2009 05:41 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
blessedchidon at 27-04-2009 05:44 PM (16 years ago) (m)
Quote from: Beauti4 on 27-04-2009 05:41 PM
please pray for your marriage ooo. there r various temptation in this issue so call marriage. pls take it easy. i think u should also talk to some of his/your elder ones if they can help u talk to her. do anything to save your marriage. if he aint yours then let God decide. B strong!
he wnt change oo
Posted: at 27-04-2009 05:44 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
vivian07 at 27-04-2009 05:48 PM (16 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Beauti4 on 27-04-2009 05:41 PM
please pray for your marriage ooo. there r various temptation in this issue so call marriage. pls take it easy. i think u should also talk to some of his/your elder ones if they can help u talk to her. do anything to save your marriage. if he aint yours then let God decide. B strong!
word !!!
Posted: at 27-04-2009 05:48 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
diplomatik at 27-04-2009 05:49 PM (16 years ago) (f)
Quote from: d_man on 27-04-2009 05:03 PM
If you think he's been cheating..confront him avioding arguements wont solve the problem..dialogue might..However if he continues to do that quit!..A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage
U HEARD HIM....
u've seen me right? i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool
Posted: at 27-04-2009 05:49 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
chrissiebee at 27-04-2009 05:50 PM (16 years ago) (f)
Quote from: d_man on 27-04-2009 05:03 PM
If you think he's been cheating..confront him avioding arguements wont solve the problem..dialogue might..However if he continues to do that quit!..A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage
<a href="http://tinypic.com" target="_blank"><img src="http://i41.tinypic.com/2ezmli0.jpg" border="0" alt="Image and video hosting by TinyPic">[/url]STILL A CERTIFIED V-SQUADER!! Take it or leave it! A wise man told me don't argue with fools,Cause people from a distance, can't see who is who
Posted: at 27-04-2009 05:50 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
please pray for your marriage ooo. there r various temptation in this issue so call marriage. pls take it easy. i think u should also talk to some of his/your elder ones if they can help u talk to her. do anything to save your marriage. if he aint yours then let God decide. B strong!
word !!!
word of Benlandin
Posted: at 27-04-2009 06:01 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
vivian07 at 27-04-2009 06:03 PM (16 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Beauti4 on 27-04-2009 06:01 PM
Quote from: vivian07 on 27-04-2009 05:48 PM
Quote from: Beauti4 on 27-04-2009 05:41 PM
please pray for your marriage ooo. there r various temptation in this issue so call marriage. pls take it easy. i think u should also talk to some of his/your elder ones if they can help u talk to her. do anything to save your marriage. if he aint yours then let God decide. B strong!
word !!!
word of Benlandin
nice. its a woman that keeps the home.
Posted: at 27-04-2009 06:03 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
please pray for your marriage ooo. there r various temptation in this issue so call marriage. pls take it easy. i think u should also talk to some of his/your elder ones if they can help u talk to her. do anything to save your marriage. if he aint yours then let God decide. B strong!
he wnt change oo
He might change ooo...d poster sounds like she havent step out of her comfort zone yet. she argues and tryna prove d evidence but she needs to take d case byond levels. d tougher she is; d better her TIME tick wisely.
Posted: at 27-04-2009 06:05 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
please pray for your marriage ooo. there r various temptation in this issue so call marriage. pls take it easy. i think u should also talk to some of his/your elder ones if they can help u talk to her. do anything to save your marriage. if he aint yours then let God decide. B strong!
word !!!
word of Benlandin
nice. its a woman that keeps the home.
yea u right! real woman of FIRE!
Posted: at 27-04-2009 06:06 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
chrissiebee at 27-04-2009 06:09 PM (16 years ago) (f)
,........
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Posted: at 27-04-2009 06:09 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
chrissiebee at 27-04-2009 06:12 PM (16 years ago) (f)
i just dey laff ni oo!
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Posted: at 27-04-2009 06:12 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
shanique at 27-04-2009 11:43 PM (16 years ago) (f)
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Posted: at 27-04-2009 11:43 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
chrissiebee at 28-04-2009 12:59 AM (16 years ago) (f)
......
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Posted: at 28-04-2009 12:59 AM (16 years ago) | Hero
myragonza at 28-04-2009 07:50 AM (16 years ago) (f)
Quote from: MsJaida09 on 27-04-2009 04:21 PM
I am a bit confused. Just because your fiance(or a man who calls himself your husband) cheats on you does it mean that something is wrong with you? Or how do you handle the situation?, when he is cheating and you know he is but if you mention something that you know he tells you that you are useless, stupid, and insecure, and he says that nothing is going on, but you know better, evidence is all around and there are facts to prove it. At times you don't say anything to avoid an argument, but inside its hurting you because you don't want to go into a marriage where a man is cheating and lying to you in the name of God. Its just wrong, but help me on this one, What should be done?
he gets worked up coz he is guilty conscious.....u don't deserve that kinda man
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i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either 
, i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool 
A wise man told me don't argue with fools,Cause people from a distance, can't see who is who
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