Please guys, help me on this one? (Male or Female)

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at 04:21 PM, 27/04/2009 (10 years ago)

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I am a bit confused. Just because your fiance(or a man who calls himself your husband) cheats on you does it mean that something is wrong with you? Or how do you handle the situation?, when he is cheating and you know he is but if you mention something that you know he tells you that you are useless, stupid, and insecure, and he says that nothing is going on, but you know better, evidence is all around and there are facts to prove it. At times you don't say anything to avoid an argument, but inside its hurting you because you don't want to go into a marriage where a man is cheating and lying to you in the name of God. Its just wrong, but help me on this one, What should be done?  Undecided

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blessedchidon at 04:50 PM, 27/04/2009 (10 years ago)
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give him red card, not joking quit right now the man is not 4u beliv it or not, he dnt luv u and u'll continue 2regret feeling hurt {see, marriage is nt 2be endure but 2be enjoy ok}
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d_man at 05:03 PM, 27/04/2009 (10 years ago)
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If you think he's been cheating..confront him
avioding arguements wont solve the problem..dialogue might..However if he continues to do that
quit!..A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage

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PreetyInstinct at 05:35 PM, 27/04/2009 (10 years ago)
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@Poster bring d proof now and let us anlayze d situation 4 u(jokes)i don't really know wat 2 say but i guess u should just pray because now u say u can see signs but u have not actually caught him red handed(not dat u have 2)menh u gottta just pray y don't u talk 2 him first and c wat he says because if ur feeling dis way now it's not 2 good 4 ur relationship dats all i gotta say c ya Smiley.

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Beauti4 at 05:41 PM, 27/04/2009 (10 years ago)
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please pray for your marriage ooo. there r various temptation in this issue so call marriage. pls take it easy. i think u should also talk to some of his/your elder ones if they can help u talk to her. do anything to save your marriage. if he aint yours then let God decide. B strong!
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blessedchidon at 05:44 PM, 27/04/2009 (10 years ago)
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Quote from: Beauti4 on 05:41 PM, 27/04/2009
please pray for your marriage ooo. there r various temptation in this issue so call marriage. pls take it easy. i think u should also talk to some of his/your elder ones if they can help u talk to her. do anything to save your marriage. if he aint yours then let God decide. B strong!
he wnt change oo
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vivian07 at 05:48 PM, 27/04/2009 (10 years ago)
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Quote from: Beauti4 on 05:41 PM, 27/04/2009
please pray for your marriage ooo. there r various temptation in this issue so call marriage. pls take it easy. i think u should also talk to some of his/your elder ones if they can help u talk to her. do anything to save your marriage. if he aint yours then let God decide. B strong!
word !!!
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diplomatik at 05:49 PM, 27/04/2009 (10 years ago)
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Quote from: d_man on 05:03 PM, 27/04/2009
If you think he's been cheating..confront him
avioding arguements wont solve the problem..dialogue might..However if he continues to do that
quit!..A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage

U HEARD HIM.... Cheesy

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chrissiebee at 05:50 PM, 27/04/2009 (10 years ago)
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Quote from: d_man on 05:03 PM, 27/04/2009
If you think he's been cheating..confront him
avioding arguements wont solve the problem..dialogue might..However if he continues to do that
quit!..A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage

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Beauti4 at 06:01 PM, 27/04/2009 (10 years ago)
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Quote from: vivian07 on 05:48 PM, 27/04/2009
Quote from: Beauti4 on 05:41 PM, 27/04/2009
please pray for your marriage ooo. there r various temptation in this issue so call marriage. pls take it easy. i think u should also talk to some of his/your elder ones if they can help u talk to her. do anything to save your marriage. if he aint yours then let God decide. B strong!
word !!!
word of Benlandin  Cool
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vivian07 at 06:03 PM, 27/04/2009 (10 years ago)
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Quote from: Beauti4 on 06:01 PM, 27/04/2009
Quote from: vivian07 on 05:48 PM, 27/04/2009
Quote from: Beauti4 on 05:41 PM, 27/04/2009
please pray for your marriage ooo. there r various temptation in this issue so call marriage. pls take it easy. i think u should also talk to some of his/your elder ones if they can help u talk to her. do anything to save your marriage. if he aint yours then let God decide. B strong!
word !!!
word of Benlandin  Cool
nice. its a woman that keeps the home.
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Beauti4 at 06:05 PM, 27/04/2009 (10 years ago)
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Quote from: blessedchidon on 05:44 PM, 27/04/2009
Quote from: Beauti4 on 05:41 PM, 27/04/2009
please pray for your marriage ooo. there r various temptation in this issue so call marriage. pls take it easy. i think u should also talk to some of his/your elder ones if they can help u talk to her. do anything to save your marriage. if he aint yours then let God decide. B strong!
he wnt change oo

He might change ooo...d poster sounds like she havent step out of her comfort zone yet. she argues and tryna prove d evidence but she needs to take d case byond levels. d tougher she is; d better her TIME tick wisely.
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Beauti4 at 06:06 PM, 27/04/2009 (10 years ago)
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Quote from: vivian07 on 06:03 PM, 27/04/2009
Quote from: Beauti4 on 06:01 PM, 27/04/2009
Quote from: vivian07 on 05:48 PM, 27/04/2009
Quote from: Beauti4 on 05:41 PM, 27/04/2009
please pray for your marriage ooo. there r various temptation in this issue so call marriage. pls take it easy. i think u should also talk to some of his/your elder ones if they can help u talk to her. do anything to save your marriage. if he aint yours then let God decide. B strong!
word !!!
word of Benlandin  Cool
nice. its a woman that keeps the home.

yea u right! real woman of FIRE!
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chrissiebee at 06:09 PM, 27/04/2009 (10 years ago)
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,........

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vivian07 at 06:10 PM, 27/04/2009 (10 years ago)
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wetin now  Grin Grin ?
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chrissiebee at 06:12 PM, 27/04/2009 (10 years ago)
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i just dey laff ni oo!

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Beauti4 at 06:30 PM, 27/04/2009 (10 years ago)
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 Cool
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shanique at 11:43 PM, 27/04/2009 (10 years ago)
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hemale

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chrissiebee at 12:59 AM, 28/04/2009 (10 years ago)
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......

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myragonza at 07:50 AM, 28/04/2009 (10 years ago)
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Quote from: MsJaida09 on 04:21 PM, 27/04/2009
I am a bit confused. Just because your fiance(or a man who calls himself your husband) cheats on you does it mean that something is wrong with you? Or how do you handle the situation?, when he is cheating and you know he is but if you mention something that you know he tells you that you are useless, stupid, and insecure, and he says that nothing is going on, but you know better, evidence is all around and there are facts to prove it. At times you don't say anything to avoid an argument, but inside its hurting you because you don't want to go into a marriage where a man is cheating and lying to you in the name of God. Its just wrong, but help me on this one, What should be done?  Undecided


he gets worked up coz he is guilty conscious.....u don't deserve that kinda man

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