Ok, so i met this guy who arrived at the U.S. 5 years ago. At first, I was like how can i date a JJC from 9ja..and i was born in the U.S. so anyhow sha, at first, I wasnt into him, i cheated on him with my ex , he almost went crazy and committed suicide. i felt bad, so i decided wow, this guy really loves me and i decided to give him a try to be truthful and stay away from every other. I let go all of my males friends and bad friends.I want to have a new start ova with this my man. we embarked on this journey of "I LOVE YOU, AM CRAZY IN LOVE WITH YOU for 3 and half years. I took care of him, changed him, by the help of God, he was a changed man. if you see him today, you will be like, wow.. he is FINEEEEEEEE. however, through all this journey, it hasnt been ez because i was educated and have my masters, he is a high school diploma and works as a mechanic. I encouraged him to go to school, at first, he did and then later he stop after me and God find him a good job as a bank teller. despite it all, I was at my man's side. our families does not want us to be together because i am educated and he is not and his family(not his parents, but his extended relatives) does not like me because they said i will be enforcing him to be a great man, (they want someone they can be sendng errands, and be saying yes ma, yes sir) but me and my love did not let the family stuff bother me. We fought and fought to declare our love for each other but still because of families disapproval, we got tired and fed up and both of us were unhappy. he started talking to other females, and he claimed them to be friends and i became so jealous that i will insult all this girls. he saw i didnt want him to have any friends. anyhow, last month, he told me, he is dating an american girl and this girl loves him and cares about him and accept him for who he is. he told me to move on with my life, i should come and pack my things from his house we both paid for. he said he hated me, he regret me and us being together. he has agreed to marry the american girl. he even beat me because i call one of females friend and insulted her on the phone. he has moved on with his new girl and i am here, stuck and cant even move on. i missed him so much. after everything, my life, my money, i gave to him, i did not even reap the benefits. another girl come want chop the soup that i have been cooking for my husband. I learnt my lesson. is tough to move on when i have built everything i had around this man. he doesn't want us to be friends or nothing.. all he want is, he wants to move on.. WHAT HAPPEN TO LOVE..good 4 years of my life, money and properties to this jjc.. I want him back but in his eyes, i am his worst enemy after the fight and his new girlf. my friends told me he was going to leave me, i said no, he is different. not knowing the future.. if i c snake and man, i will kill man first b4 snake. this man did me dirty.i cant sleep, eat, think normal, all i want is my MAN back.. but i guess he aint coming back. .
Posted: at 25-02-2013 09:09 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
A woman's makeup is in such a way that she gets attached to a man's soul to the extent that she feels the man is the essence of her living BUT a man is different and that's why its easy for a man to walk away.
Whatever the case is no matter how hard it is to move on with your life,just do so. When you've used all your cards at your disposal to fight for a broken mirror all you'll do is bruise urself with blood oozing. Don't try to fix,let go
Posted: at 25-02-2013 09:32 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Pele, move on. Your life is more important than that. Just see it as a service to humanity. Perhaps you were not meant to be, so dont force it so u wont regret in the long run. Life continues
Posted: at 26-02-2013 11:42 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
bittersweet at 27-02-2013 06:05 PM (12 years ago) (f)
It's normal to suffer after a relationship you've invested a lot,but...NOT TOO MUCH! Don't isolate yourself ,get yourself busy in ways that to not have time thinking of him/past! Don't waste your time,because it's not worth it!Move on(for real) and next time be more cautious! Good-luck!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 27-02-2013 06:05 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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