Can some1 tell dis woman 2 leave me alone plse?   
I will never fade and I will never blend....not here to be ur friend or enemy, i say what i ave to say & i'll be out as soon as i'm done, not hard to find & not here to keep i'm the beauty that you can never sight asleep!  | Posted: at 22-05-2009 07:54 PM (15 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "HOPEA23") HOPEA23 at 22-05-2009 07:59 PM (15 years ago)  (f) Do you play hard to get because you do not want to come off as too easy? Does playing games make you more desirable?
When you play hard to get, the only type of men you will attract are players. Players are thrilled with the chase and those who love the chase are the ones who will break your heart.
By playing games, you spark a lot of interest and curiosity and make it all extremely exciting. However, this excitement dies as soon as he has 'caught' you. In most cases, chances are, he will leave you as soon as the game is over. When you play games, you are pretending. You are not your true self. So unless you keep on playing games for the whole duration of your relationship, the excitement that was initially created will die. This is because players do not want a long term relationship. They are happy with a short term passionate affair where they can move on and enjoy the next game that leads up to another conquest. Relationships that start off by playing games never last. Besides, why would you ever want to be in a superficial relationship?
Playing hard to get is not love. It is CONTROL. Relationships that are based on control, where one person dominates is NOT healthy. In this case, the only person you need to control is you.
Mind games are tiring. REAL men do not play games. They know what they want. A REAL man who is truthfully seeking a long term and mature relationship wants an upfront woman desiring the same thing and not someone who plays hard to get or who feels dating is merely a game.
If you pretend to be someone else, you may ward off the good men and end up with players who will only break your heart. When you're genuine, you will attract mature, genuine and quality men that you truly deserve.
Ray
told you i brb....i dont pretend to be someone ..am not i do my thing..
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE. | Posted: at 22-05-2009 07:59 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "Beauti4") Beauti4 at 22-05-2009 08:06 PM (15 years ago) (f) Can some1 tell dis woman 2 leave me alone plse? aint nobody knw u...ok laff small....  .  make i see how ya face looks like na... | Posted: at 22-05-2009 08:06 PM (15 years ago) | Hero | |
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Plse-------------------------Leave---------------------------------Me--------------------------Alone
I will never fade and I will never blend....not here to be ur friend or enemy, i say what i ave to say & i'll be out as soon as i'm done, not hard to find & not here to keep i'm the beauty that you can never sight asleep! | Posted: at 22-05-2009 08:16 PM (15 years ago) | Hero | |
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Do you play hard to get because you do not want to come off as too easy? Does playing games make you more desirable?
When you play hard to get, the only type of men you will attract are players. Players are thrilled with the chase and those who love the chase are the ones who will break your heart.
By playing games, you spark a lot of interest and curiosity and make it all extremely exciting. However, this excitement dies as soon as he has 'caught' you. In most cases, chances are, he will leave you as soon as the game is over. When you play games, you are pretending. You are not your true self. So unless you keep on playing games for the whole duration of your relationship, the excitement that was initially created will die. This is because players do not want a long term relationship. They are happy with a short term passionate affair where they can move on and enjoy the next game that leads up to another conquest. Relationships that start off by playing games never last. Besides, why would you ever want to be in a superficial relationship?
Playing hard to get is not love. It is CONTROL. Relationships that are based on control, where one person dominates is NOT healthy. In this case, the only person you need to control is you.
Mind games are tiring. REAL men do not play games. They know what they want. A REAL man who is truthfully seeking a long term and mature relationship wants an upfront woman desiring the same thing and not someone who plays hard to get or who feels dating is merely a game.
If you pretend to be someone else, you may ward off the good men and end up with players who will only break your heart. When you're genuine, you will attract mature, genuine and quality men that you truly deserve.
Ray
doesn't go with gamerzzzzzzz | Posted: at 22-05-2009 08:25 PM (15 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Rambukar") Rambukar at 22-05-2009 08:25 PM (15 years ago) (m) beauti4 let trouble sleep na! | Posted: at 22-05-2009 08:25 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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beauti4 let trouble sleep na! bro ve told her this but she wouldn't hear | Posted: at 22-05-2009 08:30 PM (15 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Rambukar") Rambukar at 22-05-2009 08:32 PM (15 years ago) (m) beauti4 let trouble sleep na! bro ve told her this but she wouldn't hear Trouble dey sleep, nyanga dey wake am! | Posted: at 22-05-2009 08:32 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "happy75") happy75 at 22-05-2009 11:55 PM (15 years ago) (f) good to know | Posted: at 22-05-2009 11:55 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "Beauti4") Beauti4 at 23-05-2009 12:12 AM (15 years ago) (f) so u guys have gang up against me huh  :'( :'( :'( | Posted: at 23-05-2009 12:12 AM (15 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Kennee") Kennee at 23-05-2009 12:39 AM (15 years ago) (m) l go read am Nex year
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE | Posted: at 23-05-2009 12:39 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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Better no decieve urself u no say u no go ever read dat 1 grandpa lol...later
I will never fade and I will never blend....not here to be ur friend or enemy, i say what i ave to say & i'll be out as soon as i'm done, not hard to find & not here to keep i'm the beauty that you can never sight asleep! | Posted: at 23-05-2009 12:43 AM (15 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "chik2005") chik2005 at 23-05-2009 02:30 AM (15 years ago) (m) once i read d word: game...i automatically knw u aint talkin to me....
i want a real relationship...not gambling.
NEXT!
So u still never hook up abi? | Posted: at 23-05-2009 02:30 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "chik2005") chik2005 at 23-05-2009 02:32 AM (15 years ago) (m) Better no decieve urself u no say u no go ever read dat 1 grandpa lol...later
you dey lok for Kennee trouble abi? Beauti4 oya nack her more wahala for my head. | Posted: at 23-05-2009 02:32 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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l go read am Nex year
<a href=" http://tinypic.com" target="_blank"><img src=" http://i41.tinypic.com/2ezmli0.jpg" border="0" alt="Image and video hosting by TinyPic">[/url]STILL A CERTIFIED V-SQUADER!! Take it or leave it!   A wise man told me don't argue with fools,Cause people from a distance, can't see who is who | Posted: at 23-05-2009 02:35 AM (15 years ago) | Hero | |
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Better no decieve urself u no say u no go ever read dat 1 grandpa lol...later
you dey lok for Kennee trouble abi? Beauti4 oya nack her more wahala for my head.
I will never fade and I will never blend....not here to be ur friend or enemy, i say what i ave to say & i'll be out as soon as i'm done, not hard to find & not here to keep i'm the beauty that you can never sight asleep! | Posted: at 23-05-2009 03:28 AM (15 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "shanique") shanique at 23-05-2009 04:32 AM (15 years ago) (f) wtf
U SwEaR U KnOw Me CuZ Ya HeArD My NaMe BuT iF Ya EvA rEaLLy MeT Me YuD KnOw Da GaMe dRaMa NeVa EnDs And HaTaS ArE aLL tHa SaMe tHeY sMiLe To Ya FacE aNd sPiT oN yA NaMe | Posted: at 23-05-2009 04:32 AM (15 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "chik2005") chik2005 at 23-05-2009 08:56 PM (15 years ago) (m) wtf
you wan phyuk? | Posted: at 23-05-2009 08:56 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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<a href=" http://tinypic.com" target="_blank"><img src=" http://i41.tinypic.com/2ezmli0.jpg" border="0" alt="Image and video hosting by TinyPic">[/url]STILL A CERTIFIED V-SQUADER!! Take it or leave it! A wise man told me don't argue with fools,Cause people from a distance, can't see who is who | Posted: at 23-05-2009 08:57 PM (15 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "vivian07") vivian07 at 23-05-2009 09:04 PM (15 years ago) (f) | Posted: at 23-05-2009 09:04 PM (15 years ago) | Hero | |
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