Should You Play Hard To Get With a Man? A Must Read For Ladies (Page 3)

Date: 22-05-2009 6:11 pm (15 years ago) | Author: Chuks Ray
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- chrissiebee at 23-05-2009 09:05 PM (15 years ago)
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- Kennee at 23-05-2009 10:17 PM (15 years ago)
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- Kennee at 23-05-2009 10:18 PM (15 years ago)
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- shanique at 25-05-2009 04:04 AM (15 years ago)
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Posted: at 25-05-2009 04:04 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- myragonza at 25-05-2009 07:53 AM (15 years ago)
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Do you play hard to get because you do not want to come off as too easy? Does playing games make you more desirable?

When you play hard to get, the only type of men you will attract are players. Players are thrilled with the chase and those who love the chase are the ones who will break your heart.

By playing games, you spark a lot of interest and curiosity and make it all extremely exciting. However, this excitement dies as soon as he has 'caught' you. In most cases, chances are, he will leave you as soon as the game is over. When you play games, you are pretending. You are not your true self. So unless you keep on playing games for the whole duration of your relationship, the excitement that was initially created will die. This is because players do not want a long term relationship. They are happy with a short term passionate affair where they can move on and enjoy the next game that leads up to another conquest. Relationships that start off by playing games never last. Besides, why would you ever want to be in a superficial relationship?

Playing hard to get is not love. It is CONTROL. Relationships that are based on control, where one person dominates is NOT healthy. In this case, the only person you need to control is you.

Mind games are tiring. REAL men do not play games. They know what they want. A REAL man who is truthfully seeking a long term and mature relationship wants an upfront woman desiring the same thing and not someone who plays hard to get or who feels dating is merely a game.

If you pretend to be someone else, you may ward off the good men and end up with players who will only break your heart. When you're genuine, you will attract mature, genuine and quality men that you truly deserve.

Ray


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Posted: at 25-05-2009 07:53 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- BobbyL at 25-05-2009 04:04 PM (15 years ago)
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Didnt u here? @ poster said if u play hard 2 get, u can hardly keep ur catch...
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- Akpan01 at 25-05-2009 04:16 PM (15 years ago)
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CHEI THE THING TOO LONG I NOT FIT READ AM OO

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- Beauti4 at 25-05-2009 04:17 PM (15 years ago)
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use telescope read am
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- SAmyrocko at 25-05-2009 04:20 PM (15 years ago)
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hmmm.

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- Beauti4 at 25-05-2009 04:22 PM (15 years ago)
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hmmm wat?
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- BobbyL at 25-05-2009 04:28 PM (15 years ago)
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Didnt u here? @ poster said if u play hard 2 get, u can hardly keep ur catch...
In summary....
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- Akpan01 at 25-05-2009 04:57 PM (15 years ago)
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use telescope read am

I DONNO HOW TO USE IT TEACH ME NOW Grin Grin Grin

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- Beauti4 at 25-05-2009 05:05 PM (15 years ago)
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use telescope read am

I DONNO HOW TO USE IT TEACH ME NOW Grin Grin Grin

just open it...press d adjustment, adjust it until poster's essay become 3 sentences that way it ll b more easier to read. but make sure u wear google. Grin. Cool
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- Akpan01 at 25-05-2009 05:27 PM (15 years ago)
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NA SO I GO DO AM NOW SO...:-):-)

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- SAmyrocko at 25-05-2009 06:09 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: Beauti4 on 25-05-2009 04:22 PM
hmmm wat?

u won't understand me..

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- shanique at 25-05-2009 08:31 PM (15 years ago)
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wtf

you wan ?


yea i wan 4ck

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Posted: at 25-05-2009 08:31 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- myragonza at 26-05-2009 06:30 AM (15 years ago)
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playing easy to get....

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