I 've got a kid sister and her orientation to life seems a bit muddled up.I feel academics r very important and a priority but she views it in the opposite.She told me she's in a relationship with a dude 15yrs older than she is.Frankly I was embarrassed.What do I do ?Don't want to scare her into making the wrong choices? She say she wants to marry him and she's not gotten a degree.I don't even think she loves him.
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Posted: at 17-06-2009 08:04 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
I 've got a kid sister and her orientation to life seems a bit muddled up.I feel academics r very important and a priority but she views it in the opposite.She told me she's in a relationship with a dude 15yrs older than she is.Frankly I was embarrassed.What do I do ?Don't want to scare her into making the wrong choices? She say she wants to marry him and she's not gotten a degree.I don't even think she loves him.
well, u cant read her mind..the only thing u can do, is to sit her down nd advice her...dats if she'll change sha
as for the Education part......My friend 1nce said, 4ck school, it wasnt meant 4 evrybody..
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Posted: at 17-06-2009 08:12 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
I 've got a kid sister and her orientation to life seems a bit muddled up.I feel academics r very important and a priority but she views it in the opposite.She told me she's in a relationship with a dude 15yrs older than she is.Frankly I was embarrassed.What do I do ?Don't want to scare her into making the wrong choices? She say she wants to marry him and she's not gotten a degree.I don't even think she loves him.
damn..she already don make her choice finish oooo
welll gettin a degree got nuttin to do with this relationship issue...she can still go to school while she is in her husby house..gettin a degree is not the problem...about the gettin marriage with a man older than her by 1years old..hehhehehhheheh,na tht one be sa small problem dey but not to much.sit her down and talk senses into her brian,, na love dey shark her sha....but if she did not follow your advice....i advice you to let her be...;et her do what she think is best for her okie.
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE.
Posted: at 17-06-2009 09:01 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
I 've got a kid sister and her orientation to life seems a bit muddled up.I feel academics r very important and a priority but she views it in the opposite.She told me she's in a relationship with a dude 15yrs older than she is.Frankly I was embarrassed.What do I do ?Don't want to scare her into making the wrong choices? She say she wants to marry him and she's not gotten a degree.I don't even think she loves him.
How old is she?
SSCE, BSC, ABS, ADN, AAS, AAGS, PHD, MASTERS....I'm Qualified, So Shut Up And Listen .
Posted: at 17-06-2009 09:36 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
shanique at 17-06-2009 09:37 PM (15 years ago) (f)
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Posted: at 17-06-2009 09:37 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
shanique at 17-06-2009 09:42 PM (15 years ago) (f)
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U SwEaR U KnOw Me CuZ Ya HeArD My NaMe BuT iF Ya EvA rEaLLy MeT Me YuD KnOw Da GaMe dRaMa NeVa EnDs And HaTaS ArE aLL tHa SaMe tHeY sMiLe To Ya FacE aNd sPiT oN yA NaMe
Posted: at 17-06-2009 09:42 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
Dear....I think she is old enuff to bear consequences for her actions. All I think You should do is offer a brotherly advise, giving her the pros and cons of marriage and at the end of the day...The choice is hers to make. Sometimes, no matter how weird we think pple's decisions are.....They could be right!!
SSCE, BSC, ABS, ADN, AAS, AAGS, PHD, MASTERS....I'm Qualified, So Shut Up And Listen .
Posted: at 17-06-2009 09:42 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
I am not married.I guess experience counts when talking to post teenagers.But I just have this gut feeling this does not seem right.Well what are the pros and cons of marriage ?
aquila non decapit muscas
Posted: at 17-06-2009 09:48 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
I am not married.I guess experience counts when talking to post teenagers.But I just have this gut feeling this does not seem right.Well what are the pros and cons of marriage ?
You might feel it ain't right but the Choice is hers to make. That's why I earlier said, advise her and leave the rest. Pros=The responsibilities expected of her.....It's not as easy as it seems. Cons=The wedding and party and Mr&Mrs thang and first few months of sugar and honey...etc.
SSCE, BSC, ABS, ADN, AAS, AAGS, PHD, MASTERS....I'm Qualified, So Shut Up And Listen .
Posted: at 17-06-2009 09:52 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
ceejay58 at 18-06-2009 01:08 AM (15 years ago) (m)
Quote from: fireman on 17-06-2009 08:04 PM
I 've got a kid sister and her orientation to life seems a bit muddled up.I feel academics r very important and a priority but she views it in the opposite.She told me she's in a relationship with a dude 15yrs older than she is.Frankly I was embarrassed.What do I do ?Don't want to scare her into making the wrong choices? She say she wants to marry him and she's not gotten a degree.I don't even think she loves him.
no be her life?
Posted: at 18-06-2009 01:08 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
myragonza at 18-06-2009 03:37 AM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: fireman on 17-06-2009 08:04 PM
I 've got a kid sister and her orientation to life seems a bit muddled up.I feel academics r very important and a priority but she views it in the opposite.She told me she's in a relationship with a dude 15yrs older than she is.Frankly I was embarrassed.What do I do ?Don't want to scare her into making the wrong choices? She say she wants to marry him and she's not gotten a degree.I don't even think she loves him.
ceejay58 u de talk cus e neva happen 2 u.na her life but the consequences of her actions will always affect us the family.myra I'll try the mum/daughter stuff.
aquila non decapit muscas
Posted: at 18-06-2009 05:23 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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