Should i reconcile with my old boyfriend? (Page 3)

Date: 19-08-2009 5:24 pm (14 years ago) | Author: amanda james
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- Akpan01 at 21-08-2009 12:49 PM (14 years ago)
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YAWA...HEHEHEH

Posted: at 21-08-2009 12:49 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- hilljoyjoy at 21-08-2009 01:14 PM (14 years ago)
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Well, I can see from your reaction that u still care about him or love him. However, u should be smart and walk with ur brain. I mean he can't leave u for 7 months, only to come back and give u instruction on where to see him. if am thinking right, he is the one that left u not u leaving him. so, if he wants to see u or get back to u, then it should be based on your instructions and conditions. he should be the one to come and see u at ur own convient time and place. Finally, try to be wise and don't let him use u as a spare tyre.
Posted: at 21-08-2009 01:14 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- melvis4love2003 at 21-08-2009 05:18 PM (14 years ago)
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[quote author=hilljoyjoy link=topic=19459.msg729181#msg729181 date=1250856844]
Well, I can see from your reaction that u still care about him or love him. However, u should be smart and walk with ur brain. I mean he can't leave u for 7 months, only to come back and give u instruction on where to see him. if am thinking right, he is the one that left u not u leaving him. so, if he wants to see u or get back to u, then it should be based on your instructions and conditions. he should be the one to come and see u at ur own convient time and place. Finally, try to be wise and don't let him use u as a spare tyre.
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He should be the one to come and see u at ur own convient time and place and in an open place. Wishing u d best.
Posted: at 21-08-2009 05:18 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- lilsezy at 21-08-2009 11:07 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: jsquareedd on 19-08-2009 05:24 PM
i have this heavy decission to make:i have this boyfriend we were so in love and one day he wakes up and for reason decides he needs space. seven months later he calls me and says he wants to make up and dat i should meet him up next week.at first i was so happy dat i started gettin ready immediately but later when i was a bit cooler i realised i am beginin to become cold feeted about this reconcilation.right now am so confused;should i meet him next week or should i take caution?

Sit, Think and make ur decision......
Posted: at 21-08-2009 11:07 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ceejay58 at 22-08-2009 02:54 AM (14 years ago)
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passing
Posted: at 22-08-2009 02:54 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- SAmyrocko at 22-08-2009 08:26 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: pope12 on 20-08-2009 01:43 PM
Quote from: jsquareedd on 19-08-2009 05:24 PM
i have this heavy decission to make:i have this boyfriend we were so in love and one day he wakes up and for reason decides he needs space. seven months later he calls me and says he wants to make up and dat i should meet him up next week.at first i was so happy dat i started gettin ready immediately but later when i was a bit cooler i realised i am beginin to become cold feeted about this reconcilation.right now am so confused;should i meet him next week or should i take caution?

d pomo d hungry you?
Abegi, u may go but do not make rash and silly decisions to jump into the relationship too soon. take some tyme to reason.
wish ya the best.
if pomo dey hungry you, just lie down it will pass  

 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 22-08-2009 08:26 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- melody7 at 22-08-2009 12:18 PM (14 years ago)
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must he ask u to meet him up, after leaving u? thankgod for ur second thought. let him 'meet u up'. then u cn hear wat he has to say. wat a nerve. Angry Angry
Posted: at 22-08-2009 12:18 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- eddybabs at 22-08-2009 12:59 PM (14 years ago)
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passing.....
Posted: at 22-08-2009 12:59 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Kennee at 23-08-2009 12:33 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: jsquareedd on 19-08-2009 05:24 PM
i have this heavy decission to make:i have this boyfriend we were so in love and one day he wakes up and for reason decides he needs space. seven months later he calls me and says he wants to make up and dat i should meet him up next week.at first i was so happy dat i started gettin ready immediately but later when i was a bit cooler i realised i am beginin to become cold feeted about this reconcilation.right now am so confused;should i meet him next week or should i take caution?

l can see yu love being a Rag

Posted: at 23-08-2009 12:33 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- onchedu at 23-08-2009 07:53 PM (14 years ago)
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Posted: at 23-08-2009 07:53 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- mazi at 23-08-2009 09:08 PM (14 years ago)
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do wot ur heart directs u
Posted: at 23-08-2009 09:08 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- sandie at 24-08-2009 02:02 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: jsquareedd on 19-08-2009 05:24 PM
i have this heavy decission to make:i have this boyfriend we were so in love and one day he wakes up and for reason decides he needs space. seven months later he calls me and says he wants to make up and dat i should meet him up next week.at first i was so happy dat i started gettin ready immediately but later when i was a bit cooler i realised i am beginin to become cold feeted about this reconcilation.right now am so confused;should i meet him next week or should i take caution?

 Shocked Shocked What?Huh?? Hell no.... Don't even let it cross ur mind... if u plant a flower in ur house and one day u just decide to stop wetting that flower...
Its either d flower dies or its alive bcuz of d rain that often wets it or someone else decided to wet it.

Secondly...He's not even man enough to keep to his decision... A man has to be atleast as good as his words...
Thirdly... He belongs to ur past... And going back to him means u're going backward and i guess thats d last thing u'd like to do baby... So look forward and move on with ur life...Cut ur losses and don't waste ur time in some weird dating limbo.

Posted: at 24-08-2009 02:02 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- erikaakpan at 24-08-2009 02:03 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: mazi on 23-08-2009 09:08 PM
do wot ur heart directs u

hmmm

Posted: at 24-08-2009 02:03 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- McBona at 24-08-2009 03:28 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: jsquareedd on 19-08-2009 05:24 PM
i have this heavy decission to make:i have this boyfriend we were so in love and one day he wakes up and for reason decides he needs space. seven months later he calls me and says he wants to make up and dat i should meet him up next week.at first i was so happy dat i started gettin ready immediately but later when i was a bit cooler i realised i am beginin to become cold feeted about this reconcilation.right now am so confused;should i meet him next week or should i take caution?

he's crazy. . .  I'm a young Man, perhaps I hate Ma fellow Men messing up 'em relationship.
Posted: at 24-08-2009 03:28 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Hearthrob at 24-08-2009 09:50 AM (14 years ago)
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Tell him you need space and time as well, don't let him see you as a cheap girl. If he truly want reconciliation, he should be the one to come looking for you not the other way round. And make it hard to get for him to make him realise what he did was wrong. Make him beg and beg and beg, then you'll know if he truly want to come back or just teasing.
Posted: at 24-08-2009 09:50 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- top1989 at 24-08-2009 12:31 PM (14 years ago)
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ask d reason why he is doing dis to u
Posted: at 24-08-2009 12:31 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- mazi at 24-08-2009 12:37 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: erikaakpan on 24-08-2009 02:03 AM
Quote from: mazi on 23-08-2009 09:08 PM
do wot ur heart directs u

hmmm
wot is there to say again...d handwriting is there on d wall for her to see
Posted: at 24-08-2009 12:37 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Hakeem2 at 24-08-2009 06:29 PM (14 years ago)
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No problem Reconcile with that but waste his time first & see if he still loves you or just want to hm hm
Posted: at 24-08-2009 06:29 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- eddymoore at 24-08-2009 07:21 PM (14 years ago)
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"It is not all that glitters that is gold", also, "an enemy you know is better than an angel you don't know". By this, i am suggesting that you take stocks of the good things you can remember him back and the negatives you can also recall about him and see which one out numbers other. Good things does not come easily and at time the devil try to mess up the good thing that comes your way. Above all, God alone can open your eyes and heart to understand if he is good for you if you seek His face specifically in regards to this. Follow your instinct as he directs you, not blindly. Good luck choosing!
Posted: at 24-08-2009 07:21 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- McBona at 24-08-2009 09:42 PM (14 years ago)
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Seating and thinking about Ma new friends
Posted: at 24-08-2009 09:42 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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