The way some men treat their wife is not good. If you know you can't cope with one wife just marry another one legitimately and stop the nasty act. Now see what a man pushed his wife into: I have a problem and I need advice from fellow readers of your blog. I got married to my husband in the year 2011 and our marriage has been consummated with a girl child. Our marriage was working smoothly until my husband got an offshore job to work with an oil servicing firm based in port Harcourt last year June. Ever since then, he hardly comes home. Most times he comes home just for the weekend once in two months and even when he comes he hardly touches me. I have spoken to him about this and he keeps telling me it's because of the stressful nature of his work. I am tired of tending to the baby at night alone and things got a head recently when hormones got the better of me and I ended up sleeping with a male colleague of mine at work...
Ever since this incident, I have been contemplating divorce because my husband led me into this shameful act. I would have loved to relocate from Lagos to Port Harcourt to be with him but he claims he works offshore most of the time.
Please your constructive advice is needed on how to handle this issue because I know this will not only benefit me but also several women in the same situation.
euwilliams at 26-06-2014 10:38 AM (10 years ago) (f)
You wants to sleep with another man. There are few women out there whose their husbands are in Europe for more than 10 years without coming back, but they are faithful till their husband comes back and take them to Europe. Your husband is there with you in the same country but can visit him and do what you want with you. SO SAY IT AGAIN.
Posted: at 26-06-2014 10:38 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
baggyRulesss at 26-06-2014 10:54 AM (10 years ago) (m)
Quote from: euwilliams on 26-06-2014 10:38 AM
You wants to sleep with another man. There are few women out there whose their husbands are in Europe for more than 10 years without coming back, but they are faithful till their husband comes back and take them to Europe. Your husband is there with you in the same country but can visit him and do what you want with you. SO SAY IT AGAIN.
Pls direct me to that woman....I'm afraid ur brain is smaller than the diameter of a honeypot Hole...knobhead!
Posted: at 26-06-2014 10:54 AM (10 years ago) | Newbie
First u have to confess to ur husband, u have cheated on him, he might be innocent, maybe he works too much, it might not be what u thinking. Try and be faithful, don't divorce bcus of ur child, be prayerful God will help ur family
Posted: at 26-06-2014 11:11 AM (10 years ago) | Hero
You wants to sleep with another man. There are few women out there whose their husbands are in Europe for more than 10 years without coming back, but they are faithful till their husband comes back and take them to Europe. Your husband is there with you in the same country but can visit him and do what you want with you. SO SAY IT AGAIN.
Na devil don enter dat woman so
Posted: at 26-06-2014 11:22 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Rhabboni at 26-06-2014 02:46 PM (10 years ago) (m)
COUNT ME OFF THIS TRASH WHEN U HAVE CHEATED ALREADY. U AR THE SAME THING WITH UR HUSBAND THAT IS IF HE IS ACTUALLY IN WHAT U THINK HE IS. MAY BE UR BABY IS LYING BY UR SIDE WHEN D GUY IS ON TOP OF U. IF THIS IS A REAL STORY, PLEASE I WANT U TO HAVE A RETHINK. U DIDNT REMEMBER TO PRAY U DIDNT REMEMBER TO REPORT HERE FIRST, LIKE U JUST DID WHEN IT IS LATE, U DIDNT CONSULT MARRIAGE SPECIALIST, WALFAIR, UR PASTOR, UR PRIEST. BUT WHAT U REMEMBERED WS UR HORMON. ASK GOD FOR FGIVNESS AND THEN UR HUSBAND BEFORE U PROCEED. LIKE U
Posted: at 26-06-2014 02:46 PM (10 years ago) | Newbie
Fantastic11 at 26-06-2014 06:28 PM (10 years ago) (m)
D husband is also cheating her.any man who stays away frm his wife rushes her like a new girl frn accept he cheated!!they shud kip cheating demselfs d husband realize dat she is not log of wood
Posted: at 26-06-2014 06:28 PM (10 years ago) | Newbie
Advice from the perfect human, just go and read your bible if u r a Christian.... their u will know what adultery means. Listen let me tell u there is no excuse for committing sin no matter what causes u to sin against God and against ur body.
Posted: at 26-06-2014 10:40 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
EVERYBODY at 27-06-2014 02:11 AM (10 years ago) (m)
WOMAN WETIN DEY FOR THIS SEX DAT U CHEATED ON UR HUSBAND,U DONT EVEN KNOW IF HIS WORK OR DE SAME CHEATING? BUT ANY MAN DAT MARRIED SUD HAVE BEEN ATLIST CLOSE TO HIS WIFE NO MATTER WHAT COS GOD SAID DONT GIVE SPACE TO EACH OTHER.YOUR HUSBAND IS WRONG BY LEAVING U ALONE AND YOU ARE IN SIN WOMAN REPENT.
Posted: at 27-06-2014 02:11 AM (10 years ago) | Upcoming