He wants to marry me but his father refuses (Page 3)

Date: 31-10-2009 11:15 am (15 years ago) | Author: Ogechukwu
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- biamblinks at 2-11-2009 06:05 PM (15 years ago)
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Dis Should Be Posted On the Confesstion Board anyway.Ask am if him really love you
Posted: at 2-11-2009 06:05 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- macgreat at 2-11-2009 06:54 PM (15 years ago)
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EveryBody dey talk patience since... Una no ask why the man refuse his son to marry her.

Maybe the man don enter her place before... i mean man no fit just refuse his son marriing someone... na woman dey do that kin thing especailly if she no like her atitude. 
Posted: at 2-11-2009 06:54 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- gimac at 2-11-2009 07:54 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: RosemaryI on  2-11-2009 02:40 PM
Quote from: gimac on  2-11-2009 09:47 AM
u are bad girl to suggest such a thing...without blessing for the parent ,no bridgeprice,wine carry,do u think the marriage will last....who taught that ....let not nigeria movie decieve u

seeing is believing.... i've seen more than 4 couples that did that, and today their parents have blessed the marriage and eveybody is happy after many children.....

i've even lived in the same neighborhood with couple that's got six children(two set of twins). in their own case the lady's parent refused their marriage because the guy was from a poor family, the lady did not argue o, one day they woke up and couldn't find the lady...the guy too was nowhere to be found, from Benue to lagos. when they made money, they went back and begged, now they are legally married with six good looking and healthy children.

no curse... no calamity...

NOTE:- it's the hard way o. Roll Eyes Roll Eyes



sometime what u see is not real the are mirage....pls dont give someone that kind of advice and you should not try it atall..have u also see many that die in place the run to....infact u elope with someone is bad,i know,no good man of GOD can wed u without the consent of father...

will like to be marry like that...without traditional rites...brideprize and etc
Posted: at 2-11-2009 07:54 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- luvvy at 2-11-2009 07:57 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: everis on 31-10-2009 11:15 AM
The relationship has lasted for about three years but when it is time for us to say "I DO"  his father said no.  And after about two attempts to see if the "old" man will accept the proposal he (my freind's father) attempted suicide.He said he will kill himself if my freind did not marry his tribal girl.  For me, I want to run for my dear life considering the fact that even if my freind get his father convinced, the man might not like me and he can go to any lenght to eliminate me, who knows.  But my friend said I should please wait  that he will still do some thing about it. So many suitors have come and gone, and am still wiiting. I love him and he too do.  Now i am comfused, I dont know what to do HEEEEEEEEEEEEEEELP!!!!


make all the naijapals go him father's house go beg abi?
Posted: at 2-11-2009 07:57 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Toks-E at 2-11-2009 08:02 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: vivian07 on  1-11-2009 08:04 AM
Quote from: Toks-E on 31-10-2009 03:09 PM
Quote from: diplomatik on 31-10-2009 02:38 PM
u want to run...what happens to ur love...na fake love u get for ur friend..mcheww

dnt mind her nd her fake love...i guess the guy'z dad had seen this thing afar off in a dream..dats why he hates her, cuz she claims to love his son, when she doesnt  Tongue
hmmm..

oooooo
Posted: at 2-11-2009 08:02 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- xter at 2-11-2009 08:04 PM (15 years ago)
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hmmmmmmmmmm
Posted: at 2-11-2009 08:04 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- luvvy at 2-11-2009 08:17 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: xter on  2-11-2009 08:04 PM
hmmmmmmmmmm

u dey ok?
Posted: at 2-11-2009 08:17 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- xter at 2-11-2009 08:26 PM (15 years ago)
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yes na...what about u?......u still be  cartoon?
Posted: at 2-11-2009 08:26 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- mpotoh at 2-11-2009 09:22 PM (15 years ago)
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traditionally and normally the blessings of the father is needed but for the fact that he dont support the marriage,the best solution is not run away and leave the love you have toiled for years,instead you two gat to get more closer and tighter to overcome his decission.try to find out why he dont support the marriage.
Posted: at 2-11-2009 09:22 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- Toks-E at 2-11-2009 09:38 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: mpotoh on  2-11-2009 09:22 PM
traditionally and normally the blessings of the father is needed but for the fact that he dont support the marriage,the best solution is not run away and leave the love you have toiled for years,instead you two gat to get more closer and tighter to overcome his decission.try to find out why he dont support the marriage.

love kini?

Posted: at 2-11-2009 09:38 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- compo2500 at 2-11-2009 10:11 PM (15 years ago)
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only God knws...........
Posted: at 2-11-2009 10:11 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- xter at 2-11-2009 10:14 PM (15 years ago)
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hmmmmmmm
Posted: at 2-11-2009 10:14 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- LisaAng at 2-11-2009 10:24 PM (15 years ago)
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How much of your life will you give for him?  There is no disgrace if you give in to the others who ask for your hand in marriage.  You have shown your love and faithfulness to him.  There has been a many love lost from this day to the ancient days.  It is not your duty to give up all happiness for him.  You can learn to respect, be comfortable, caring and eventually love someone else.  So give yourself permission to marry another, just make sure your personalities and and spirits are compatible. 

The love you have for your first is not lost, because you have loved him and he you, you did your duty as human being.  Now allow yourself to be loved by someone else.
Posted: at 2-11-2009 10:24 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- Beauti4 at 2-11-2009 10:29 PM (15 years ago)
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why is he your "friend" not boyfriend, fiance, or lover? anyways, time will tell, and there is nothin his father can do about it. wat will b sure will b.
Posted: at 2-11-2009 10:29 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- gimac at 3-11-2009 01:19 AM (15 years ago)
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play your part well in condition
Posted: at 3-11-2009 01:19 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- nestea at 3-11-2009 08:14 AM (15 years ago)
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I can't believe this olden age of thinking is still in existence. Asking parents to approve your relationship before you get married is totally idiotic. Your fucture father inlaw should be very happy if he is even invited to the wedding. This should be a warning to you not to marry this man. If you do, he will allow his family to dictate what happen in your home in future. Good luck.
Posted: at 3-11-2009 08:14 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- gimac at 3-11-2009 01:24 PM (15 years ago)
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nestea
which golden age ,what make it idiot....do just marry anywhere u see sopmebody with approval is not done like that..ok
Posted: at 3-11-2009 01:24 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- vivian07 at 3-11-2009 01:29 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: xter on  2-11-2009 10:14 PM
hmmmmmmm
........
Posted: at 3-11-2009 01:29 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- dirtykid at 3-11-2009 03:15 PM (15 years ago)
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D man dey kolo, seriously !! when he don marry born person wey reach to marry, why is he the one to make choice for the guy. abeg my guy open ur eyes and marry who u truely love.
Posted: at 3-11-2009 03:15 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- fa4rite at 3-11-2009 04:04 PM (15 years ago)
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you must be sure of the family you are going into, if they dont like you its better you stay off, cause they can do anything just to hurt you or your husban to be. go to family that will accept you.regrate is too late...
Posted: at 3-11-2009 04:04 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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