Hi pals,I have been dating my bf for 3yrs now and we love n care for each other so much, and for this past yrs we never had sex and he promised never to touch me until the day that am ready for it.last week he called and told me he can't wait for me again that it's either we have sex or breakup.I stil love n care for him because he is first and only love. I dnt want 2 lose him. Pls what do I do cos am not ready for sex now!!!
Posted: at 5-01-2010 10:02 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
dis is rubbish and mental torture.....3 yrs without sex? do u even know what d guy's going thru.....nobody on dis planet will ever do dat rubbish with u and i give a big slap not kudos to dat guy of urs......3yrs nosex? not me believe i wld have...
but pls if he needs sex after 3 yrs pls give it to him dont be so bad he tried keeping u for a long time ooh
such a good guy....let him have his way with u cos it wont kill u nor will it remove ur honeypot
Here comes d Great King Xtervaganza
Posted: at 5-01-2010 10:43 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
errr, yes you're losing your mind if all that is stopping you is the thought of bleeding and pain... your parents lied to you, ask them if they've never had sex or how did you enter your mothers womb, this is hard to believe, its ridiculous.... if your abstaining for religious or personal value, don't change, u'll probably regret it... but if it for fear of pain, theres nothing to be scared about.
Posted: at 6-01-2010 01:17 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
Hi pals,I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 yrs now n we love and care for each other so much..he promised not to force me into sex until am ready for it and just last week he called me and told me he can't wait for me again it's either we have sex or breakup! I hate sex so much cos my parents alwaz tld me that sex can make me bleed n even cause me pains and I grew with it,can't open my legs for anyone.I really love this guy n dnt want to lose him,please what do I do cos am losing my mind
Just wait for 3 years more, u still need to grow
Naturally lifted, naturally gifted.
Posted: at 6-01-2010 01:28 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
@my son xter three years is nutting..there are some men that can stay for more than 6 to 7years without sex...do you think every men are like you? sex lover lemme see one of those gurls in my house again....
@poster....about the bleed and pain side..that one na big lie..i can recall what my mother told when i was a teens she told me that if a man touch me..just common touch that i will get pregnant....and then i don't like for anyman to touch me or even speak to me but now common na i am not still a kid or teens i am now a wish gurl.. if you are still a virgin it will only hurt or pain and bleed because it is your first time and the pain and bleed is not going to last for long...it will just take you maybe 3 to 5 days....
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE.
Posted: at 6-01-2010 06:52 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
I will never fade and I will never blend....not here to be ur friend or enemy, i say what i ave to say & i'll be out as soon as i'm done, not hard to find & not here to keep i'm the beauty that you can never sight asleep!
Posted: at 6-01-2010 07:40 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
huy this gurl dey wicked ooooo!! so u have been starving my fellow guy for the past 3yrs? if gives u money, u go chop... abeg let him in he has even tried
CHILDREN ARE BORN BUT MEN ARE MADE;THE GOLD THAT WILL BE REFINED MUST PASS THROUGH THE FURNACE.WORDS
Posted: at 6-01-2010 08:12 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
hi i need advice like now u have a boyfriend and u love him very much he don't gave u what u what and u dont ask him he love u becase of six his family love u very much what will u do if is u this xman he do gave u anythin he do not take u out notin notin we u satin going out with the person
Posted: at 6-01-2010 10:16 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
brightossy at 6-01-2010 10:50 AM (15 years ago) (m)
Quote from: lynnobi on 5-01-2010 10:02 PM
Hi pals,I have been dating my bf for 3yrs now and we love n care for each other so much, and for this past yrs we never had sex and he promised never to touch me until the day that am ready for it.last week he called and told me he can't wait for me again that it's either we have sex or breakup.I stil love n care for him because he is first and only love. I dnt want 2 lose him. Pls what do I do cos am not ready for sex now!!!
Sex b/w lovers shld be under agreement. If u are not ready, bulshit it cos u ganna regret it moro if u 4orce urself just 2 pls him. Anyway, pretty, if he pushes u off come to me, i kno hw 2 control my tin.
Posted: at 6-01-2010 10:50 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
hmmm he is a man he get his needs...if u love and trust him do make love with him...as i see he whated enough..try satisfy him my dear..if he no get it from u ..he most get it from some1..
"THE WICKED MAN FLEES THOUGHT NO ONE PURSUES, BUT THE RIGHTEOUD ARE AS BOLD AS A LION"
Posted: at 6-01-2010 12:54 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
hi i need advice like now u have a boyfriend and u love him very much he don't gave u what u what and u dont ask him he love u becase of six his family love u very much what will u do if is u this xman he do gave u anythin he do not take u out notin notin we u satin going out with the person
Both of u i guess is not into real relationship yet, u dont ask and he dont give u what u want... hmmm simple becos u dont ask. and Sex is only what u share in common. I think .. u guys are just bedmate.
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !!
Posted: at 6-01-2010 01:10 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
ebony_cutie at 6-01-2010 01:12 PM (15 years ago) (f)
If you are not ready, then you not...dont let him pressurise you into doin somthg against your wish cos he might as well leave after you give it to him.
Do not do things to please ppl cos we humans cant be pleased my dear.
Posted: at 6-01-2010 01:12 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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