My candid advice on relationship of nowadays

There are 3 kinds of people, 1. the pious 2. the unpious and 3. those struggling to either be pious and unpious. There are different reasons for a man chassing a woman or woman chassing a man. But indeed the most pious one is to chase for marriage if you find the person worthy of good character and steedfast in worship to his Creator in deeds and words, open and hidden. The challenges we face today are many indeed but definitely the one who seeks Allahs guidiance and direction shall not be wrongly guided. The truth is that we have grown lazy as a people and always looking for the shortcut and have almost lost our sense of honor. A lady wants to be appreciated, treated as queen and given gifts of fine qualities she can boast about among her peers while a man wants sex. for the player among men to achieve these they either use their sweet tongue, wealth or both and for the women to achieve these they use their seductive prowess as a means to an end, Alas they both deceive each other after the man has gotten what he wants he abandons like wise the woman ignores those that come with true purpose and intent to marry even when poor and strugling and instead gets attracted to the pretenders who go the extra mile to give comfort or have promise of comfort. My advice is seek Allahs guidiance in all things and strive to earn a living from thr toil of your hands. indeed these is a good advice for both men and women from Akanbi Abdullahi Adeshola Source: https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=10201383125938079&id=1772079369&refid=17&_ft_=top_level_post_id.10201383125938079:tl_objid.10201383125938079:thid.1772079369:306061129499414:2:0:1456819199:-5980061871021711474#footer_action_list

Posted: at 22-03-2016 02:50 PM (8 years ago) | Newbie

I hope u take ur own advice cos me i no need am...
Women don show me well well and mesef don show dem well well....
So we no oursefs....

Posted: at 23-03-2016 04:04 AM (8 years ago) | Hero