pls everyone, i need your advice. my situation is dt i met a wondaful guy, hes nigerian. hes studyin in ma country. we just broke wit ma ex wen i met dis guy. we started d relationship very fast. i dunno mayb it was a mistake but d chemistry was so strong =))...as i sed he is a student n so am i so we dnt reli have much time 2spend 2geda. its like we are seein once or twice a week only. hes very carin n lovin with me. he even sed he loves me..i kno some nigerian guys say dat words very fast but no he wasnt like dat, it took him abt a month 2say dat 2me. but i dunno if its 2ru. some days ago my gud frnd added him on a social netwrok. dey didnt kno each oda n she asked him if he has a girl den he sed no i dnt. n he was askin her 2giv him her num n sayin lets go out 2geda..i dunno wat 2tink..mayb am jst so stupid dat i dnt notice wen ppl are usin me? pls tel me some1..
Posted: at 20-01-2010 04:44 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
dirtykid at 20-01-2010 04:47 PM (15 years ago) (m)
Thats so so bad act.. i really dont know what to advise u my dear. I think he dont mean his Love like he told u. too sad. I dont even know when this Love games will stop sef.
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !!
Posted: at 20-01-2010 04:47 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
dirtykid at 20-01-2010 04:54 PM (15 years ago) (m)
Quote from: myragonza on 20-01-2010 04:50 PM
maybe u didn't tell him ur mind that u like him or gave him the impression that u both are dating...
Another good point could be this. have u been long with him in this relationship? and also the gap btw both of u in early relationship is not too good. Another thing is this, dont always remind a guy or see him as Your Ex-boy. this is one mistake most girls when they broke up with some, they always want to refer their new guys as their ex-boi with every little move. Check urself well, if u actualy given him reasons to stick with u.
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !!
Posted: at 20-01-2010 04:54 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
myragonza at 20-01-2010 04:57 PM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: GlamourPuss on 20-01-2010 04:51 PM
Quote from: myragonza on 20-01-2010 04:50 PM
maybe u didn't tell him ur mind that u like him or gave him the impression that u both are dating...
i alredy stayed 4 a nite wit him..mayb it was too fast
staying a nite with him does not indicate that u both are dating....it just mean like a one night stand...maybe u were moving a bit too fast coz of ur previous break-up......
GlamourPuss at 20-01-2010 05:02 PM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: myragonza on 20-01-2010 04:57 PM
Quote from: GlamourPuss on 20-01-2010 04:51 PM
Quote from: myragonza on 20-01-2010 04:50 PM
maybe u didn't tell him ur mind that u like him or gave him the impression that u both are dating...
i alredy stayed 4 a nite wit him..mayb it was too fast
staying a nite with him does not indicate that u both are dating....it just mean like a one night stand...maybe u were moving a bit too fast coz of ur previous break-up......
yeah dats one of d reasons. but i reli feel atrectted to him. we are 2geda only abt 2 months but wen hes wit me hes sayin ''u can tell me evrytin, am ur bf" n wen his frnd called him he sed ''am wit ma girl'' so i thot hes tinkin am reli his girl but if so den y askin oda girls out?am confused
Posted: at 20-01-2010 05:02 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
GlamourPuss at 20-01-2010 05:03 PM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: dirtykid on 20-01-2010 04:54 PM
Quote from: myragonza on 20-01-2010 04:50 PM
maybe u didn't tell him ur mind that u like him or gave him the impression that u both are dating...
Another good point could be this. have u been long with him in this relationship? and also the gap btw both of u in early relationship is not too good. Another thing is this, dont always remind a guy or see him as Your Ex-boy. this is one mistake most girls when they broke up with some, they always want to refer their new guys as their ex-boi with every little move. Check urself well, if u actualy given him reasons to stick with u.
dats rite but am workin wit maself n i dnt reli tink abt ma ex wen am wit ma guy nw. reasons..i dunno..am tryin ma best 2sho him ma luv n care, mayb is nt enuf
Posted: at 20-01-2010 05:03 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
myragonza at 20-01-2010 05:05 PM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: GlamourPuss on 20-01-2010 05:02 PM
Quote from: myragonza on 20-01-2010 04:57 PM
Quote from: GlamourPuss on 20-01-2010 04:51 PM
Quote from: myragonza on 20-01-2010 04:50 PM
maybe u didn't tell him ur mind that u like him or gave him the impression that u both are dating...
i alredy stayed 4 a nite wit him..mayb it was too fast
staying a nite with him does not indicate that u both are dating....it just mean like a one night stand...maybe u were moving a bit too fast coz of ur previous break-up......
yeah dats one of d reasons. but i reli feel atrectted to him. we are 2geda only abt 2 months but wen hes wit me hes sayin ''u can tell me evrytin, am ur bf" n wen his frnd called him he sed ''am wit ma girl'' so i thot hes tinkin am reli his girl but if so den y askin oda girls out?am confused
thats man's nature....u need to make things clear to him and confirm the relationship...u know guys and their sweet talk.....they say everything just to get jiggy with ya.....
GlamourPuss at 20-01-2010 05:07 PM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: myragonza on 20-01-2010 05:05 PM
Quote from: GlamourPuss on 20-01-2010 05:02 PM
Quote from: myragonza on 20-01-2010 04:57 PM
Quote from: GlamourPuss on 20-01-2010 04:51 PM
Quote from: myragonza on 20-01-2010 04:50 PM
maybe u didn't tell him ur mind that u like him or gave him the impression that u both are dating...
i alredy stayed 4 a nite wit him..mayb it was too fast
staying a nite with him does not indicate that u both are dating....it just mean like a one night stand...maybe u were moving a bit too fast coz of ur previous break-up......
yeah dats one of d reasons. but i reli feel atrectted to him. we are 2geda only abt 2 months but wen hes wit me hes sayin ''u can tell me evrytin, am ur bf" n wen his frnd called him he sed ''am wit ma girl'' so i thot hes tinkin am reli his girl but if so den y askin oda girls out?am confused
thats man's nature....u need to make things clear to him and confirm the relationship...u know guys and their sweet talk.....they say everything just to get jiggy with ya.....
ur rite but d prblm is dat am scared 2put up dis topic wen talkin wit him cuz am scared 2push him away
Posted: at 20-01-2010 05:07 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
ebony_cutie at 20-01-2010 05:12 PM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: GlamourPuss on 20-01-2010 05:07 PM
Quote from: myragonza on 20-01-2010 05:05 PM
Quote from: GlamourPuss on 20-01-2010 05:02 PM
Quote from: myragonza on 20-01-2010 04:57 PM
Quote from: GlamourPuss on 20-01-2010 04:51 PM
Quote from: myragonza on 20-01-2010 04:50 PM
maybe u didn't tell him ur mind that u like him or gave him the impression that u both are dating...
i alredy stayed 4 a nite wit him..mayb it was too fast
staying a nite with him does not indicate that u both are dating....it just mean like a one night stand...maybe u were moving a bit too fast coz of ur previous break-up......
yeah dats one of d reasons. but i reli feel atrectted to him. we are 2geda only abt 2 months but wen hes wit me hes sayin ''u can tell me evrytin, am ur bf" n wen his frnd called him he sed ''am wit ma girl'' so i thot hes tinkin am reli his girl but if so den y askin oda girls out?am confused
thats man's nature....u need to make things clear to him and confirm the relationship...u know guys and their sweet talk.....they say everything just to get jiggy with ya.....
ur rite but d prblm is dat am scared 2put up dis topic wen talkin wit him cuz am scared 2push him away
Myra has given you a good advice and you dont have to be scared to talk with him, you just have to so you know your stand.
Posted: at 20-01-2010 05:12 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
dirtykid at 20-01-2010 05:17 PM (15 years ago) (m)
Quote from: GlamourPuss on 20-01-2010 05:03 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on 20-01-2010 04:54 PM
Quote from: myragonza on 20-01-2010 04:50 PM
maybe u didn't tell him ur mind that u like him or gave him the impression that u both are dating...
Another good point could be this. have u been long with him in this relationship? and also the gap btw both of u in early relationship is not too good. Another thing is this, dont always remind a guy or see him as Your Ex-boy. this is one mistake most girls when they broke up with some, they always want to refer their new guys as their ex-boi with every little move. Check urself well, if u actualy given him reasons to stick with u.
dats rite but am workin wit maself n i dnt reli tink abt ma ex wen am wit ma guy nw. reasons..i dunno..am tryin ma best 2sho him ma luv n care, mayb is nt enuf
Maybe ur enuf trying is not enuf for him, but i will suggest u ask him what he really take u as, if he really mean his words, if he say yes, then switch in this situation with ur friend. and another thing i will tell u is,,, be very sure from that ur friend, if she really mean what she told u abt the guy, or did u see evidence to his message to ur friend asking for his number and to meet her? be very sure atimes is not the way u see it. dont be scared of chasing him away, if he is for u, he will be, if he is not for u, u cant force it to take place.
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !!
Posted: at 20-01-2010 05:17 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
GlamourPuss at 20-01-2010 08:34 PM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: dirtykid on 20-01-2010 05:17 PM
Quote from: GlamourPuss on 20-01-2010 05:03 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on 20-01-2010 04:54 PM
Quote from: myragonza on 20-01-2010 04:50 PM
maybe u didn't tell him ur mind that u like him or gave him the impression that u both are dating...
Another good point could be this. have u been long with him in this relationship? and also the gap btw both of u in early relationship is not too good. Another thing is this, dont always remind a guy or see him as Your Ex-boy. this is one mistake most girls when they broke up with some, they always want to refer their new guys as their ex-boi with every little move. Check urself well, if u actualy given him reasons to stick with u.
dats rite but am workin wit maself n i dnt reli tink abt ma ex wen am wit ma guy nw. reasons..i dunno..am tryin ma best 2sho him ma luv n care, mayb is nt enuf
Maybe ur enuf trying is not enuf for him, but i will suggest u ask him what he really take u as, if he really mean his words, if he say yes, then switch in this situation with ur friend. and another thing i will tell u is,,, be very sure from that ur friend, if she really mean what she told u abt the guy, or did u see evidence to his message to ur friend asking for his number and to meet her? be very sure atimes is not the way u see it. dont be scared of chasing him away, if he is for u, he will be, if he is not for u, u cant force it to take place.
yh she showed me all d messages he wrote wen she found out dat hes ma guy so i saw evrytin wit ma own eyes. i guess talkin 2him is d only way out. will try 2find d courage 2do dat.goshh y tins always hav 2b so complicated?
Posted: at 20-01-2010 08:34 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
pls everyone, i need your advice. my situation is dt i met a wondaful guy, hes nigerian. hes studyin in ma country. we just broke wit ma ex wen i met dis guy. we started d relationship very fast. i dunno mayb it was a mistake but d chemistry was so strong =))...as i sed he is a student n so am i so we dnt reli have much time 2spend 2geda. its like we are seein once or twice a week only. hes very carin n lovin with me. he even sed he loves me..i kno some nigerian guys say dat words very fast but no he wasnt like dat, it took him abt a month 2say dat 2me. but i dunno if its 2ru. some days ago my gud frnd added him on a social netwrok. dey didnt kno each oda n she asked him if he has a girl den he sed no i dnt. n he was askin her 2giv him her num n sayin lets go out 2geda..i dunno wat 2tink..mayb am jst so stupid dat i dnt notice wen ppl are usin me? pls tel me some1..
Yu're always so Naive... Dis is a Similar Story to the First Guy yu wrote about here dat yu just Broke up with
Pls, do slow down and think before yu fall deep for people
Sorry, there's no Love from him, obviously, can't yu see dat for yurself ?
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE
Posted: at 20-01-2010 11:58 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
GlamourPuss at 21-01-2010 11:56 AM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Kennee on 20-01-2010 11:58 PM
Quote from: GlamourPuss on 20-01-2010 04:44 PM
pls everyone, i need your advice. my situation is dt i met a wondaful guy, hes nigerian. hes studyin in ma country. we just broke wit ma ex wen i met dis guy. we started d relationship very fast. i dunno mayb it was a mistake but d chemistry was so strong =))...as i sed he is a student n so am i so we dnt reli have much time 2spend 2geda. its like we are seein once or twice a week only. hes very carin n lovin with me. he even sed he loves me..i kno some nigerian guys say dat words very fast but no he wasnt like dat, it took him abt a month 2say dat 2me. but i dunno if its 2ru. some days ago my gud frnd added him on a social netwrok. dey didnt kno each oda n she asked him if he has a girl den he sed no i dnt. n he was askin her 2giv him her num n sayin lets go out 2geda..i dunno wat 2tink..mayb am jst so stupid dat i dnt notice wen ppl are usin me? pls tel me some1..
ye i always tink of ppl betta dan dey reli ar..guess i shud leav him nw b4 it went too far
Yu're always so Naive... Dis is a Similar Story to the First Guy yu wrote about here dat yu just Broke up with
Pls, do slow down and think before yu fall deep for people
Sorry, there's no Love from him, obviously, can't yu see dat for yurself ?
Posted: at 21-01-2010 11:56 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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