What will i do to save my relationship

Date: 06-02-2010 3:24 pm (15 years ago) | Author: Aminat Ozavize
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- at 6-02-2010 03:24 PM (15 years ago)
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I have a boy friend who i'm very sure love's me and i love him too but sometimes when he calls me on phone i don't feel like receiving it. Even when he comes to my house I'll just abandone him and continue with what ever i'm doing

Posted: at 6-02-2010 03:24 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
- onchedu at 7-02-2010 01:50 PM (15 years ago)
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U HAVE NO REGARD FOR HIS PERSON? COS SEEING U CAN ABANDON HIM SUGGESTS THAT TO ME.
DON'T U FIND HIM INTERESTING ENOUGH OR IS HE NOT OF THE CLASS U WOULD RATHER HE WAS?
Posted: at 7-02-2010 01:50 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- temi07 at 7-02-2010 01:56 PM (15 years ago)
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ok, Two scenerios
1. You guys have been together for so long and too much that sometimes you get sick of seeing him or hearing his voice even though you do love him--this perfectly normal just let him know so you don't hurt his feelings.
2. like Onche said, ....read above... u av no respect 4 him.
Posted: at 7-02-2010 01:56 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- myragonza at 7-02-2010 02:52 PM (15 years ago)
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maybe u should tell him that u need some space...

Posted: at 7-02-2010 02:52 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Priceless-jewel at 7-02-2010 03:00 PM (15 years ago)
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If u treat me dat way,dats d end of our friendship.I hate devaluatn
Posted: at 7-02-2010 03:00 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- temi07 at 7-02-2010 03:06 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: Priceless-jewel on  7-02-2010 03:00 PM
If u treat me dat way,dats d end of our friendship.I hate devaluatn
Shes not devaluating, shes reassessing or reevaluating,lol.
Posted: at 7-02-2010 03:06 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- franklly at 7-02-2010 03:10 PM (15 years ago)
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hmm this is funny i think u have tested another dick that is more stronger and sweeter than is oh,to me is better u tell him u don,t need him again,b4 is too later
Posted: at 7-02-2010 03:10 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- Priceless-jewel at 7-02-2010 03:20 PM (15 years ago)
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Can u treat ur man da way@ebony
Posted: at 7-02-2010 03:20 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- temi07 at 7-02-2010 03:45 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: Priceless-jewel on  7-02-2010 03:20 PM
Can u treat ur man da way@ebony
Shes going about the whole thing wrong. She should just tell the guy she needs space, not making him feel like he isn't important to her.
Posted: at 7-02-2010 03:45 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- teeze at 7-02-2010 03:50 PM (15 years ago)
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I'm avin a similar situation in my relationship. I was angry @ him cos he took me for granted. U see, dis guy was my first in every way and as soon as i ad sex with anoda guy, i just knew smth was missing. Although am still with d guy and i told him of my infidelity, i don't feel like pickin his calls nd @ tyms, i dnt wanna see him. So, Ozavise, smth must av happened to warrant ur behaivour to him. B4 u can solve any problem, u need to know d root of the problem. Locate where d problem started, and share it wit us. Only then can we offer sme advice. Otherwise, we wld jst b making silly assumptions....
Posted: at 7-02-2010 03:50 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- chik001 at 7-02-2010 06:57 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: ozavize on  6-02-2010 03:24 PM
I have a boy friend who i'm very sure love's me and i love him too but sometimes when he calls me on phone i don't feel like receiving it. Even when he comes to my house I'll just abandone him and continue with what ever i'm doing

Pay £20 for consultation fee. I go give you tips...tested and proven.
Posted: at 7-02-2010 06:57 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ebony_cutie at 7-02-2010 07:01 PM (15 years ago)
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i think i agree wit wot Temi said.....u probably need ur space and "your" time, to do stuffs u like without him having  to be wit u 24/7
Posted: at 7-02-2010 07:01 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- humblej at 7-02-2010 07:08 PM (15 years ago)
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U don't need to save it again cos U are the one who is causing the fault, I think the relationship is at the edge of getting kaput

Posted: at 7-02-2010 07:08 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Miss_precious at 7-02-2010 07:19 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: ozavize on  6-02-2010 03:24 PM
I have a boy friend who i'm very sure love's me and i love him too but sometimes when he calls me on phone i don't feel like receiving it. Even when he comes to my house I'll just abandone him and continue with what ever i'm doing


you have fallen out of love with him and you guys need some time apart

Posted: at 7-02-2010 07:19 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ajose1 at 8-02-2010 10:42 AM (15 years ago)
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There must be a  reason 4 ur action, is better u tell me 2 give u some space
Posted: at 8-02-2010 10:42 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Dguy at 8-02-2010 04:45 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: ozavize on  6-02-2010 03:24 PM
I have a boy friend who i'm very sure love's me and i love him too but sometimes when he calls me on phone i don't feel like receiving it. Even when he comes to my house I'll just abandone him and continue with what ever i'm doing

That is not love, maybe its pity.

Posted: at 8-02-2010 04:45 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mazi at 8-02-2010 04:50 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: ozavize on  6-02-2010 03:24 PM
I have a boy friend who i'm very sure love's me and i love him too but sometimes when he calls me on phone i don't feel like receiving it. Even when he comes to my house I'll just abandone him and continue with what ever i'm doing
u r confused.
u need d Oracle....so visit d shrine.
Posted: at 8-02-2010 04:50 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- erikaakpan at 8-02-2010 04:53 PM (15 years ago)
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thats messed up

Posted: at 8-02-2010 04:53 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dreamsweet at 8-02-2010 06:00 PM (15 years ago)
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u guys have to give space for sometime ok
Posted: at 8-02-2010 06:00 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- qualitysmart at 8-02-2010 10:05 PM (15 years ago)
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person tell me say she luv me but she no won hear my voice nor see me.it means there is sometin i needed 2 know.and please paster don't call dat luv again call it madness.i'm sorry if i don talk 2 much.peace out.
Posted: at 8-02-2010 10:05 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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