marriage in hell

Date: 23-08-2008 10:03 pm (15 years ago) | Author: lolade lolade
- at 23-08-2008 10:03 PM (15 years ago)
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a friend of mine is having probs with her relationship the guy want her to address him as with e you know the yorubas way of respect this marriage is not even 1 year with problem why i dont even know what to advise the girl should she call her husband use e or not and what is the point definitely looking forward for all point of view. Huh? Angry

Posted: at 23-08-2008 10:03 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
- Vixenx at 23-08-2008 11:12 PM (15 years ago)
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sorry but i don't comprehend........ Undecided
Posted: at 23-08-2008 11:12 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- solazed at 24-08-2008 11:31 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: vixenx on 23-08-2008 11:12 PM
sorry but i don't comprehend........ Undecided
allow me to explain..........her guy wants her to address him with a plural pronoun, because he feels it is insulting for her to address him with a singular pronoun in yoruba............... so rather than say 'honey i love you', she should say 'honey i love they' or 'honey i love them' ..........you get the picture now?   

Posted: at 24-08-2008 11:31 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- philomena87 at 24-08-2008 12:38 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: solazed on 24-08-2008 11:31 AM
Quote from: vixenx on 23-08-2008 11:12 PM
sorry but i don't comprehend........ Undecided
allow me to explain..........her guy wants her to address him with a plural pronoun, because he feels it is insulting for her to address him with a singular pronoun in yoruba............... so rather than say 'honey i love you', she should say 'honey i love they' or 'honey i love them' ..........you get the picture now?   

wait ooo una sure se he no get problem wit brain .. he go school at all.. so na tis kind of thing dey bring problem for family ... truelly if i was the gurl .. wen he tries actin foolish i will give a break and see wats really passin thru he's head.. and if he does love me he will come and we discuss issues.. wat a nonsense....
mugus abi na mumus fool .... kai ... na waooo..
no inshort make she even dey call am like tat na.... even put the third xson singular ... has he eaten ... have they eaten even add the we .. have we eaten... nonsense ..abeg dis dey make me vex .. just bcos of tis na e dey bring problem for family con fit affect poor children later ...
if he no go school no be em he do dey act stupid towards the wife weh go school....  make i even ask he get workk... i wonder wetin he go dey speak to the boss.
Posted: at 24-08-2008 12:38 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onyin at 24-08-2008 01:07 PM (15 years ago)
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ah Philo see hw u dey yab the man.lol.
Posted: at 24-08-2008 01:07 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- philomena87 at 24-08-2008 01:22 PM (15 years ago)
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@oyin ...no be my fault na wetin dey happen weh i dey see dey make me vex like tat ..
its been said a good family depends on the well behaved husband and his responsibilties.. etc... even though other things are fine and good but only the husband is not in the track .. the family will  be in mess... so if just bcos of his illitracy or ignorance of not knowin the difference btween singular and plural wen to be used.. he really need check ups .. so not to affect the rest family mainly the children tas my point of bein angry cos he might extend tat stupidity to them and tell dem to use.."US". then the children instead of tellin their dad ... have u paid our school fees..
they will say .....have us paid .... and wit tis spoilin the good education they learn from school...
Posted: at 24-08-2008 01:22 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- solazed at 24-08-2008 01:57 PM (15 years ago)
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Philo, problem dey o.........hmmm...........this is why you women usually have more problems because you have to put up with thinhs like this......and that on its own is a problem ........sorry :'(

Posted: at 24-08-2008 01:57 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onyin at 24-08-2008 01:58 PM (15 years ago)
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 @Philo. lol.lol."hv us paid".yawa!.which kind yeye english the man waa teach him family.mak him go bcak to school i beg.ppl dey complain of better things,reasonable stuff him own na "we ", and "us".i feel u jo.lol
Posted: at 24-08-2008 01:58 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- Kennee at 24-08-2008 04:43 PM (15 years ago)
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Come to see Wahala ooo. hhm

Posted: at 24-08-2008 04:43 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- darkocean002 at 25-08-2008 03:34 AM (15 years ago)
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rubbish
Posted: at 25-08-2008 03:34 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- chiomsx at 25-08-2008 04:07 AM (15 years ago)
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duh!!! d probs are uncalled for.... marriage ruined juz becos of 'we, they, us'..lol..this is pathetic...
Posted: at 25-08-2008 04:07 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- lolawale at 27-08-2008 07:57 AM (15 years ago)
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thank you all i didn't thinks so
Posted: at 27-08-2008 07:57 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- prencess at 2-09-2008 02:12 PM (15 years ago)
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others are thinking to marry in heaven u are thinking to marry in hall no bi me and u
Posted: at 2-09-2008 02:12 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mazi at 2-09-2008 02:18 PM (15 years ago)
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until they stop paying bride price 4 africa.
Posted: at 2-09-2008 02:18 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- indie at 2-09-2008 03:06 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: mazi on  2-09-2008 02:18 PM
until they stop paying bride price 4 africa.

osho free master!

who is marring in hell?
Posted: at 2-09-2008 03:06 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mazi at 2-09-2008 03:13 PM (15 years ago)
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it is doing more harm dan good to marriages now.
Posted: at 2-09-2008 03:13 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- darkocean002 at 2-09-2008 03:51 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: mazi on  2-09-2008 03:13 PM
it is doing more harm dan good to marriages now.

dont think so
Posted: at 2-09-2008 03:51 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- morgrawl231 at 19-04-2016 05:04 PM (8 years ago)
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Not important,,,
Posted: at 19-04-2016 05:04 PM (8 years ago) | Hero
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