Who invest's more in a relationship? (Page 3)

Date: 17-03-2010 1:32 pm (15 years ago) | Author: Efe
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- Tuks at 19-03-2010 10:08 AM (15 years ago)
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@Onche...I dont think its 'mugurising'.Every one definitely wanna av a fulfillin relationship...So i feel such tinz done,such as investin ur time,energy,n probably monery is geared 2 wad such....But there re sum exceptional cases.
Posted: at 19-03-2010 10:08 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Toks-E at 19-03-2010 10:57 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: peax12 on 17-03-2010 03:03 PM
One rule of thumb is that when you are dating, don't count any amount of money you spend if not, it will hurt you if things go wrong. If you talk about money, guys in most cases invests more but you talk about time, ladies do that more
Posted: at 19-03-2010 10:57 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- wallas at 19-03-2010 11:25 AM (15 years ago)
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why u dey argue?
Posted: at 19-03-2010 11:25 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Dupsyexotic at 19-03-2010 12:15 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on 19-03-2010 08:59 AM
Ok so U ladies invest more time in relationships. Time daydreaming about what Ur wedding gown would look like on U and how U'd cry on Ur wedding day and whether or not U think he will kiss U in front of Ur guests and how Paul play and P-Square and Usher must be there at the reception to thrill and grill U, and how Ur Mumc must not come and sing with the other "Christian mothers."

Yes U invest more time thinking about how he has to give U good sex and how U will be a good wife and how Ur kids will have Ur eyes and go to this or that nursery school where the schl fees is N500k a term, and how his mother had better not come visiting and how he cant or shouldnt do this and that.

You mos definately invest more time... Usually just  on the WRONG THINGS!!!

To the girl up complaing bout washing a guys clothes and toilet and all that, pls make sure when u do anything for anyone U think of ur self as well. If Ur washing up his room or toilet, let it be cos Ur not the type that'l fel comfy in an unkempt environment that way no matter how things go, it'l be that U were just making Urself comfy and he was a beneficiary of the process.
If U are sewing or mending his garments, let it be that U just can't imagine Ur man in thorn apparels and he's fortunate to have been the one in the picture.

No eye service. Just do what makes U feel good and let him know he is lucky to have a girl like U.

rotflmaooooo.
ochendu, abeg i no agree with that oo, how can we be spending time on wrong tins   Grin Grin Grin Grin

well sha, is it not good to imagine hw gorgeous and hw the wedding and marriage wld be ? is anythin wrong with taht ?  Cool Cool Cool

anyway, u are entitled to ur own views and the fact still remains that ladies invest a lot of time and resources into a r/ship also   Tongue Tongue Tongue
Posted: at 19-03-2010 12:15 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- slimshaddy-8 at 19-03-2010 12:26 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on 19-03-2010 08:59 AM
Ok so U ladies invest more time in relationships. Time daydreaming about what Ur wedding gown would look like on U and how U'd cry on Ur wedding day and whether or not U think he will kiss U in front of Ur guests and how Paul play and P-Square and Usher must be there at the reception to thrill and grill U, and how Ur Mumc must not come and sing with the other "Christian mothers."

Yes U invest more time thinking about how he has to give U good sex and how U will be a good wife and how Ur kids will have Ur eyes and go to this or that nursery school where the schl fees is N500k a term, and how his mother had better not come visiting and how he cant or shouldnt do this and that.

You mos definately invest more time... Usually just  on the WRONG THINGS!!!

To the girl up complaing bout washing a guys clothes and toilet and all that, pls make sure when u do anything for anyone U think of ur self as well. If Ur washing up his room or toilet, let it be cos Ur not the type that'l fel comfy in an unkempt environment that way no matter how things go, it'l be that U were just making Urself comfy and he was a beneficiary of the process.
If U are sewing or mending his garments, let it be that U just can't imagine Ur man in thorn apparels and he's fortunate to have been the one in the picture.

No eye service. Just do what makes U feel good and let him know he is lucky to have a girl like U.





CHEI
Posted: at 19-03-2010 12:26 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- dolphinkate at 19-03-2010 03:02 PM (15 years ago)
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In old traditions and still some cultures it is the man, who has to be more active in getting and keeping his desired girl/woman.

But i think, a true love relation should not be counted by who spent how much money on what for the relation sake. A good and healthy love relation is a giving and taking in exchange on both sides. There must be a balance. It must not only be money, which is to give.

Anyway one can´t buy true love nor the guarantee, that the relation will last forever. Love is a gift. If u r lucky, u will find a good partner, who will truely love u and who wants to stay with u forever in happy good term. If a partner is only with u cause of the expensive gifts or money, then sorry, one day this person must disappoint u badly.
Posted: at 19-03-2010 03:02 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- abolafg at 19-03-2010 03:16 PM (15 years ago)
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i believe that a man will always invest more in the begining of any relationship than woman,that si my honest opinion.
Posted: at 19-03-2010 03:16 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- AJANIBABASH at 19-03-2010 03:29 PM (15 years ago)
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THE GIRLS OF COURSE
Posted: at 19-03-2010 03:29 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- nickyvil at 19-03-2010 03:58 PM (15 years ago)
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Any how
Posted: at 19-03-2010 03:58 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ILYASS at 20-03-2010 09:53 AM (15 years ago)
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Wow! Na both of them but i think the man spend most...Only when he's lucky 2 have an understanding lady...That his spendings 'll be minimal Cool
Posted: at 20-03-2010 09:53 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- Emawiz51 at 20-03-2010 08:03 PM (15 years ago)
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THERE IS NOTHING TO INVEST. . THE MAIN ISSUE IS HOW THE LOVE WORKS-OUT OR SHOULD I SAY GROWS? IF THERE IS A SINCERE LOVE BETWEEN THE LOVERS INVOLVE NOTHING CAN BREAK THEM APART EXCLUDING THE INEVITABLE ''DEATH''
Posted: at 20-03-2010 08:03 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- darkocean002 at 20-03-2010 08:19 PM (15 years ago)
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kinda childish..
Posted: at 20-03-2010 08:19 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- SWETI at 20-03-2010 09:29 PM (15 years ago)
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i thick both parties invest equally
Posted: at 20-03-2010 09:29 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- Bazemaster at 20-03-2010 11:06 PM (15 years ago)
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Peeping
Posted: at 20-03-2010 11:06 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- youngboss01 at 21-03-2010 12:24 AM (15 years ago)
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Well normally wen you start a relationship, the initiator(be it male or female) most spend more(buy way of cash, time patience etc) to win confidence trust and over. Along the line of progress, the initiator must check if he/she is making sense. If yes continue, if no pull out. If yes, you naturally expect the relationship to balance at some point. meaning demand and supply must coordinate. At this, all must hover around the 50% mark...........love could be blind at first but over a period of time, it must ve opened its eyes for it to make sense.  
Posted: at 21-03-2010 12:24 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Ify4life at 22-03-2010 02:31 PM (15 years ago)
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the man Tongue
Posted: at 22-03-2010 02:31 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Ify4life at 22-03-2010 02:46 PM (15 years ago)
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ARE U GOD?
Posted: at 22-03-2010 02:46 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- macgreat at 22-03-2010 02:59 PM (15 years ago)
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She chops more money in a relationship if the guy is a mugu
Posted: at 22-03-2010 02:59 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- wallas at 22-03-2010 04:38 PM (15 years ago)
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na wao, una still dey argue
PASSING TOO FAST Wink
Posted: at 22-03-2010 04:38 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sugaDaddy1forU at 22-03-2010 04:53 PM (15 years ago)
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The guys, cos u try to keep up with the girl, if not another guy might snatch her from u. Embarrassed
Posted: at 22-03-2010 04:53 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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