• Always be honest with your friend(s).
• Be there when they need you.
• Cheer them on as they strive towards excellence.
• Don’t look for their faults.
• Encourage and edify them in the lord.
• Forgive them without nursing grudges.
. Get together often-to pray and to do other things that will improve your
general well being.
. Have confidence in them.
. Include them in your prayer list.
. Just listen, even if you don’t have the solution to their problem. Rachel Remen;
Counsels: the most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to
Listen. Just listen. Perhaps the most important thing we ever give each other is
Our attention… A loving silence often has far more power to heal and to
Connect than the most well-intentioned words.”
. Know their dreams and aspirations.
. Love them unconditionally.
. Make them feel special.
. Never forget them.
. Offer to help them without waiting to be asked.
. Praise them honestly.
. Quietly disagree, when necessary.
. Reject unproven rumours about them.
. Say you’re sorry, when they’re offended.
. Take time to know their likes and dislikes.
. Use good judgment.
. Vouch for them: verify rumours.
. Wish them well.
. X-ray yourself first, before counseling or correcting hem.
. Your words count: so measure them carefully.
. Zip your mouth when told a secret.


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