She want 2 commit suicide what can she do??

She was the second of the three wives of her husband. The first wife doesn't care about anything that happens in the family and she as the second wife barely gets attention from her husband but the husband always give the last wife anything she wants. He always give the third wife money 2 feed herself, send her children 2 school,gave her work in his company which he can't do 4 the second wife,now he is gave her one of his cars & pay for her driving school. The second wife is tired on enduring this, Please what can she do. She really needs your advice. [color=][/color]

Posted: at 17-05-2010 03:05 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie

But a lot of people think she's using juju on the man because the man is not that nice to the extent of given out his money despite of his car and i'm also confuse,he always tell the second wife that he loves her,Pls,is that possible???

Posted: at 17-05-2010 03:51 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie

polygamy has lots of trouble, when u accept to marry a married man sure must bear in mind to care for urself

Posted: at 17-05-2010 04:06 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

that woman juju dey work well well

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Posted: at 17-05-2010 04:19 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Admitted, the man is acing irresponsibly not caring fr the other wives he married; nevertheless it's a jungle in polygamous homes and war must be made with diplomacy. Sword in one hand and olive branch in the other. Some people just don't know where to take the war or who the "enemy" is. This first wife character sounds like one.

Tell her to re-invent herself and make it look effortless. Restore her former appeal the man found in her when he went for her.

I think one of the very few things that can make a man terminally mean to a wife he married is infidelity on her part. Besides that and the other not so popular things, as long as she knows what he loved about her and can bring it back to his clear view and perception, she can have him love her as he did nd treat her good too.

Shaoyang, U make sense.

Posted: at 17-05-2010 04:25 PM (14 years ago) | Hero

@donsino,actually she's a very close friend of mine.

Posted: at 17-05-2010 04:56 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie

@onchedu, i think that's,maybe she's just feedup.

Posted: at 17-05-2010 08:18 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie

Posted: at 1-06-2010 10:27 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac

@bomsiluv,thanks.

Posted: at 1-06-2010 04:03 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie