Should Lovers Keep Secrets From Their Past From Each Other?

Date: 21-05-2010 11:06 pm (13 years ago) | Author: Lexy
- at 21-05-2010 11:06 PM (13 years ago)
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Hi pals,
do you think new lovers should keep  secrets from their past from each other,especially if it is a dirty secret that could make or mar the relationship.
Maybe there is a secret child somewhere ,you lied about your age , there has been an incident of despoil ,you have been to jail before,etc.
Secret is not "all about segxwal secrets"

Posted: at 21-05-2010 11:06 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
- black_samurai at 21-05-2010 11:57 PM (13 years ago)
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Some things are better kept for your selfish interest! Some about your past have to be told. Not every disgusting thing about your past is funny to your present.

Posted: at 21-05-2010 11:57 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- lilmisslily at 22-05-2010 12:23 AM (13 years ago)
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Well I think since he or she is a person u luv so much nd its a relationship u feel it gonna av a bright future its best u open up ur past cos if u do not it cud ruin ur luv and relationship. ur past cud hunt ur present nd even ur future

Posted: at 22-05-2010 12:23 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- attamem at 22-05-2010 12:27 AM (13 years ago)
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you know say luv and shawo na thesame you no go know the time wey you go talk the one wey go spoil things.
the best bi say try sabi talk. Mind your hole wooooooooooo.
Posted: at 22-05-2010 12:27 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- PreetyInstinct at 22-05-2010 12:59 AM (13 years ago)
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Depends do i want 2 hear it? Huh?

If we break-up i mean really badly will he use it against me?will i be tempted 2 use it against him?
Undecided Lips Sealed

Posted: at 22-05-2010 12:59 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- esonu at 22-05-2010 09:58 AM (13 years ago)
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yes cos if u reveal ur past secret to people like me, dat will make me have less confidence in u

Posted: at 22-05-2010 09:58 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Tuks at 22-05-2010 10:31 AM (13 years ago)
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Its gud u cum clean on ur past.Most especially if there's a secret child,tho it dependz if d present relationship wud lead 2 marriage....If ur partner is understandin,u can bare all,if not keep sum gist close 2 ur chest...
Posted: at 22-05-2010 10:31 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- esonu at 22-05-2010 11:37 AM (13 years ago)
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lol

Posted: at 22-05-2010 11:37 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- blings_is_back at 22-05-2010 11:51 AM (13 years ago)
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ur past might come to hurt............let the past be
Posted: at 22-05-2010 11:51 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- esonu at 22-05-2010 11:55 AM (13 years ago)
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@bling><gbam

Posted: at 22-05-2010 11:55 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- dan007 at 22-05-2010 03:13 PM (13 years ago)
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HI DONT THINK SECRETS SHOULD BE KEPT FROM EACH OTHER WEN THE LOVE IS THEIR EVERY BODY AS HIS OR HER OWN PAST SO THINK LIKE THIS SHOULD BE OPENED UP IN RELATIONSHIP Smiley
Posted: at 22-05-2010 03:13 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- Miss_precious at 22-05-2010 03:19 PM (13 years ago)
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i can lie about my age..been to jail..but can never lie about having a child......

Posted: at 22-05-2010 03:19 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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