I had a problem with my girl last 3 months and i decided to go out on one sunday to a fun park without her for a relaxation and reflection. I met a girl on that day who was heart broken by a man she trusted so much and she was cryin a heavy heart. After hearin her story, i try to comfort her and through out two weeks i was callin her on a regular to know how she was doin, we went out together for about to 5 times to romatic places so that i can make her forget her sorrow and we end up having french kisses in two occasions and i never told her my own side of the story. My girl came back apologizing for mistakes and we resolved our indifferences and i didn't call her (the other girl) for about 3 days and my no was not on so she came to look for of in the house and was suprise when my girl opened the door. It caused a lot misunderstanding and now am losin both. The question is.. Who am i suppose to go and beg for for forgiveness. Cos am still in love with my girl and the other girl has fallen in love with me.
Posted: at 4-07-2010 06:38 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
bittersweet at 4-07-2010 07:09 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Hope you realize in what kind of mess you got in,by yourself, because you didn't use the right head! If your girl would forgive you, who will warrant her that at your next fight you'll not do the same?
Live and let live!
Posted: at 4-07-2010 07:09 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
guy this is indeed a tragedy---you are in a big mess right now. Hmmm I think you've made yourself a bigger fool by not letting the other girl know about your on side of the story before the mess up. Try and plead with the other girl and make her see reasons with you in order for her not to think all men are thesame.Then later tell your girlfriend how it all happened.I am sure they will both understand and things will go back to normal with time.
Posted: at 4-07-2010 07:17 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
eagleseyez at 4-07-2010 07:20 PM (14 years ago) (m)
U've not done nothing wrong God loves a cheerful giver U helped a needy when she needed sm1 most. distribute the love becos if God loves just one person, others wont be living
Feel not Bad for thou hast been loving to all
Posted: at 4-07-2010 07:20 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
bittersweet at 4-07-2010 07:23 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: eagleseyez on 4-07-2010 07:20 PM
U've not done nothing wrong God loves a cheerful giver U helped a needy when she needed sm1 most. distribute the love becos if God loves just one person, others wont be living
Feel not Bad for thou hast been loving to all
It's no other way to comfort ppl,than french kissing? You're not serious! If a lot of ppl with problems come our way,that's how we should comfort them! Come ooooooooooooon!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 4-07-2010 07:23 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
I think your real girlfriend will understand if u explain to her . After all she did not see you in bed with the new girl
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing".
Posted: at 4-07-2010 07:28 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
eagleseyez at 4-07-2010 07:35 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Quote from: bittersweet on 4-07-2010 07:23 PM
Quote from: eagleseyez on 4-07-2010 07:20 PM
U've not done nothing wrong God loves a cheerful giver U helped a needy when she needed sm1 most. distribute the love becos if God loves just one person, others wont be living
Feel not Bad for thou hast been loving to all
It's no other way to comfort ppl,than french kissing? You're not serious! If a lot of ppl with problems come our way,that's how we should comfort them! Come ooooooooooooon!
Why not see it this way He is a nice guy who helped comfort a gir when she needed sm1, who knows, that babe might be attempting suicide but for the early intervention of this dude...he just saved a life his gf shouldnt be greedy, he has a big heart
@ Poster, i admirer U
Posted: at 4-07-2010 07:35 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
He did well but i think he owes his girl an explanation . i believe she will understand and forgive her
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing".
Posted: at 4-07-2010 07:39 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
bittersweet at 4-07-2010 07:43 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: eagleseyez on 4-07-2010 07:35 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 4-07-2010 07:23 PM
Quote from: eagleseyez on 4-07-2010 07:20 PM
U've not done nothing wrong God loves a cheerful giver U helped a needy when she needed sm1 most. distribute the love becos if God loves just one person, others wont be living
Feel not Bad for thou hast been loving to all
It's no other way to comfort ppl,than french kissing? You're not serious! If a lot of ppl with problems come our way,that's how we should comfort them! Come ooooooooooooon!
Why not see it this way He is a nice guy who helped comfort a gir when she needed sm1, who knows, that babe might be attempting suicide but for the early intervention of this dude...he just saved a life his gf shouldnt be greedy, he has a big heart
@ Poster, i admirer U
I'm not surprised you admire him! But you know he didn't choose the right way for comforting someone! I've comforted a lot of ppl in my life,ppl who were in even worse situations, but not by messing around with them! Come on!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 4-07-2010 07:43 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
eagleseyez at 4-07-2010 07:51 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Quote from: bittersweet on 4-07-2010 07:43 PM
Quote from: eagleseyez on 4-07-2010 07:35 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 4-07-2010 07:23 PM
Quote from: eagleseyez on 4-07-2010 07:20 PM
U've not done nothing wrong God loves a cheerful giver U helped a needy when she needed sm1 most. distribute the love becos if God loves just one person, others wont be living
Feel not Bad for thou hast been loving to all
It's no other way to comfort ppl,than french kissing? You're not serious! If a lot of ppl with problems come our way,that's how we should comfort them! Come ooooooooooooon!
Why not see it this way He is a nice guy who helped comfort a gir when she needed sm1, who knows, that babe might be attempting suicide but for the early intervention of this dude...he just saved a life his gf shouldnt be greedy, he has a big heart
@ Poster, i admirer U
I'm not surprised you admire him! But you know he didn't choose the right way for comforting someone! I've comforted a lot of ppl in my life,ppl who were in even worse situations, but not by messing around with them! Come on!
Sometimes the flesh aint strong enuf to fight such temptations, he's a gentle man, he obliged her and saved her. Who knows, the gf should be understanding
Again, its not his fault that he helped sm1 and it lead to somethin else, shit happens If the gf wants him back, she should be understanding why being greedy...wanting to monopolise the guy
For wetin na
Posted: at 4-07-2010 07:51 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
bittersweet at 4-07-2010 07:55 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: eagleseyez on 4-07-2010 07:51 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 4-07-2010 07:43 PM
Quote from: eagleseyez on 4-07-2010 07:35 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 4-07-2010 07:23 PM
Quote from: eagleseyez on 4-07-2010 07:20 PM
U've not done nothing wrong God loves a cheerful giver U helped a needy when she needed sm1 most. distribute the love becos if God loves just one person, others wont be living
Feel not Bad for thou hast been loving to all
It's no other way to comfort ppl,than french kissing? You're not serious! If a lot of ppl with problems come our way,that's how we should comfort them! Come ooooooooooooon!
Why not see it this way He is a nice guy who helped comfort a gir when she needed sm1, who knows, that babe might be attempting suicide but for the early intervention of this dude...he just saved a life his gf shouldnt be greedy, he has a big heart
@ Poster, i admirer U
I'm not surprised you admire him! But you know he didn't choose the right way for comforting someone! I've comforted a lot of ppl in my life,ppl who were in even worse situations, but not by messing around with them! Come on!
Sometimes the flesh aint strong enuf to fight such temptations, he's a gentle man, he obliged her and saved her. Who knows, the gf should be understanding
Again, its not his fault that he helped sm1 and it lead to somethin else, shit happens If the gf wants him back, she should be understanding why being greedy...wanting to monopolise the guy
For wetin na
Thanks God you admitted that it's a s**t!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 4-07-2010 07:55 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
poster i admire ur big heart.... u re just like moi
anyways... it's a matter of talking things over...
since u love ur gurl then try and mend fences with her first. and then maybe u should take ur gurl (that's after u ve both sorted things out) to see the other and try to explain things to her... if ur gurl is matured enough then i guess she can play a part here and may even become friends with the other gurl.
Posted: at 4-07-2010 07:58 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
eagleseyez at 4-07-2010 08:04 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Quote from: ceejay58 on 4-07-2010 07:58 PM
poster i admire ur big heart.... u re just like moi
anyways... it's a matter of talking things over...
since u love ur gurl then try and mend fences with her first. and then maybe u should take ur gurl (that's after u ve both sorted things out) to see the other and try to explain things to her... if ur gurl is matured enough then i guess she can play a part here and may even become friends with the other gurl.
Word Up brother U is the man
Posted: at 4-07-2010 08:04 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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