How do you get over the “fear of commitment”?

Date: 15-07-2010 3:02 pm (14 years ago) | Author: koko
- at 15-07-2010 03:02 PM (14 years ago)
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Every time we meet someone special , we appreciate for a while and boom..... it's over.
Most times, it's unintentional so i asked myself "could it be commitment related?

Posted: at 15-07-2010 03:02 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
- Akpan01 at 15-07-2010 03:06 PM (14 years ago)
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Posted: at 15-07-2010 03:06 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- kokokool at 15-07-2010 03:40 PM (14 years ago)
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? u de learn how to type?
Posted: at 15-07-2010 03:40 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- sophiebaby at 15-07-2010 04:03 PM (14 years ago)
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Posted: at 15-07-2010 04:03 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sexy_error at 15-07-2010 04:24 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: kokokool on 15-07-2010 03:02 PM
Every time we meet someone special , we appreciate for a while and boom..... it's over.
Most times, it's unintentional so i asked myself "could it be commitment related?

@poster, you've got a tight topic there,
my take on this is simple.......you know
committment has to do with two..(things),
personality or object..there a saying that
goes thus:  How you lay ypur bed is how
you lay on it. Tongue
Posted: at 15-07-2010 04:24 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- bhl72 at 15-07-2010 04:26 PM (14 years ago)
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by just making the commitment. Next!
Posted: at 15-07-2010 04:26 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sophiebaby at 15-07-2010 04:28 PM (14 years ago)
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hahahahahahahaha
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- bhl72 at 15-07-2010 04:32 PM (14 years ago)
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no laugh na...
Posted: at 15-07-2010 04:32 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sexy_error at 15-07-2010 04:33 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: bhl72 on 15-07-2010 04:26 PM
by just making the commitment. Next!

you got it tight....!!!! simple
Posted: at 15-07-2010 04:33 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- kokokool at 15-07-2010 04:36 PM (14 years ago)
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@sexy_error...yes indeed.
 but u see, the thing is, we actually(somtimes) even love but along the line when things get serious, somehow find excuses and reasons(no matter how flimsy) why a breakup should take place.
 i guess the thought/feeling of being tied down places a major role
Posted: at 15-07-2010 04:36 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- kokokool at 15-07-2010 05:16 PM (14 years ago)
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@sexy_error...yes indeed.
 but u see, the thing is, we actually(somtimes) even love but along the line when things get serious, somehow find excuses and reasons(no matter how flimsy) why a breakup should take place.
 i guess the thought/feeling of being tied down plays a major role
Posted: at 15-07-2010 05:16 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- sexy_error at 15-07-2010 05:32 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: kokokool on 15-07-2010 05:16 PM
@sexy_error...yes indeed.
 but u see, the thing is, we actually(somtimes) even love but along the line when things get serious, somehow find excuses and reasons(no matter how flimsy) why a breakup should take place.
 i guess the thought/feeling of being tied down plays a major role

you what...? a good and lasting relationship
is purely best on maturity, tolerant  and understanding
most sometimes..partners find it difficult to tolerate
each other....knowing very well that...mistakes are
subject to play in any relationshp...

Fear of been tied down.. Shocked Shocked ofcourse if you
dont placed priority on anything..then there's
need for the game to be over...anytime.
Posted: at 15-07-2010 05:32 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- qunodinga at 15-07-2010 05:40 PM (14 years ago)
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@poster, Sexy _error as said it all:
been committed most at tyms has to do with seriousness....and in most cases sacrifice to one another.

Posted: at 15-07-2010 05:40 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sophiebaby at 15-07-2010 05:44 PM (14 years ago)
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serious relatnshp ppl are talkinh
Posted: at 15-07-2010 05:44 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- PreetyInstinct at 15-07-2010 05:46 PM (14 years ago)
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Ok..
Posted: at 15-07-2010 05:46 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- kokokool at 15-07-2010 05:54 PM (14 years ago)
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@sophie...nor be serious relationshp o, na pple wey nor fit serious need answers
Posted: at 15-07-2010 05:54 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Kennee at 15-07-2010 06:45 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: kokokool on 15-07-2010 03:02 PM
Every time we meet someone special , we appreciate for a while and boom..... it's over.
Most times, it's unintentional so i asked myself "could it be commitment related?

Yu asked yurself a Good Question and yes is the Answer
Posted: at 15-07-2010 06:45 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- esonu at 15-07-2010 07:00 PM (14 years ago)
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i no dey
Posted: at 15-07-2010 07:00 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- ceejay58 at 16-07-2010 12:40 AM (14 years ago)
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poster YES is the answer in most cases.

when one is not yet ready 4 commitment then all one does is to "hit and run".

but then, at times we discover at the long run that perhaps the person is not exactly what we tot they re at the very beginning.
Posted: at 16-07-2010 12:40 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- dickman2 at 17-06-2013 06:33 PM (11 years ago)
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