imagine u r dating for 2 years and u r crazy in luv with d person who is also telling u he luv u very much...
but he neva take u out, not for dinner, walk, party, even when ur best friend invite u guys over
he refuse to go....
gals, wht does this mean?? he doesnt luv u enough or...? guys, when u do this wht does it mean?
Posted: at 26-07-2010 07:48 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
mat-James at 26-07-2010 07:56 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Can't u understand? Jealousy, man never want his babe being seeing by others guys and telling her "baby would u be my luv?" so he thinks kipin her prisoner will save his dam mind 2 b at rest,
or wat..............
Posted: at 26-07-2010 07:56 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
Some of these men, might b testin u. they want to see if u have longer-throat for their spending. or maybe he is not financially stable, or he is just a simple guy or maybe is he in a documental r/ship and doesnt want to put sand in his garri. but above all, him takin u out doesn't prove love as well...or maybe he is tryin to heal his wounded soul. or maybe he is confused, or maybe he not CONFIDENT at all...there are so many things. if he couldn't create time for you beside your conversational moment then he is up to something. Well...pple say that u can knw love in 6months, but hey, 2yrs is not even enough o...
Posted: at 26-07-2010 08:02 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
FlyMamacita at 26-07-2010 08:12 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: mat-James on 26-07-2010 07:56 PM
Can't u understand? Jealousy, man never want his babe being seeing by others guys and telling her "baby would u be my luv?" so he thinks kipin her prisoner will save his dam mind 2 b at rest,
or wat..............
so he hurt d woman just cuz he is jealous ? he can not keep her as a prisoner....hmmm
Posted: at 26-07-2010 08:12 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
FlyMamacita at 26-07-2010 08:15 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Beauti4 on 26-07-2010 08:02 PM
Some of these men, might b testin u. they want to see if u have longer-throat for their spending. or maybe he is not financially stable, or he is just a simple guy or maybe is he in a documental r/ship and doesnt want to put sand in his garri. but above all, him takin u out doesn't prove love as well...or maybe he is tryin to heal his wounded soul. or maybe he is confused, or maybe he not CONFIDENT at all...there are so many things. if he couldn't create time for you beside your conversational moment then he is up to something. Well...pple say that u can knw love in 6months, but hey, 2yrs is not even enough o...
it is not abt spending his money, just tht he dont wanna... even when friends invite them, he refuse to go with any gud reason... i just dont understand wht it means...cunfused over wht? not confident abt d relationship or himself? is it possible he is not proud of d gal? wht do u mean with healin his wounded soul dear ?
Posted: at 26-07-2010 08:15 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
tantabanana at 26-07-2010 08:18 PM (13 years ago) (m)
the question is, is he financially comfortable to mix up? u know, financial problem can make someone lose confidence. just give him some time and be patient.
Posted: at 26-07-2010 08:18 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
mat-James at 26-07-2010 08:20 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 26-07-2010 08:12 PM
Quote from: mat-James on 26-07-2010 07:56 PM
Can't u understand? Jealousy, man never want his babe being seeing by others guys and telling her "baby would u be my luv?" so he thinks kipin her prisoner will save his dam mind 2 b at rest,
or wat..............
so he hurt d woman just cuz he is jealous ? he can not keep her as a prisoner....hmmm
abeg flymama not me oh, am talking of others, as for me; enough joly ride, and waka waka in town with her if she likes, see others and follow, me also go my way, period.
Posted: at 26-07-2010 08:20 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
Some of these men, might b testin u. they want to see if u have longer-throat for their spending. or maybe he is not financially stable, or he is just a simple guy or maybe is he in a documental r/ship and doesnt want to put sand in his garri. but above all, him takin u out doesn't prove love as well...or maybe he is tryin to heal his wounded soul. or maybe he is confused, or maybe he not CONFIDENT at all...there are so many things. if he couldn't create time for you beside your conversational moment then he is up to something. Well...pple say that u can knw love in 6months, but hey, 2yrs is not even enough o...
it is not abt spending his money, just tht he dont wanna... even when friends invite them, he refuse to go with any gud reason... i just dont understand wht it means...cunfused over wht? not confident abt d relationship or himself? is it possible he is not proud of d gal? wht do u mean with healin his wounded soul dear ?
wat i mean by wounded soul is that he must have been through so much b4 meet this particular gurl. but ist of all, find out if he is financally stable like i said. if not then u might want to take him out yourself. try to understand him very well, u need to knw wat he likes or dislike. he might have environmental phobia i forgot the name. but something is wrong somewhere cos he is a man and these pple are meant to release energy. my main focus here is that he doesnt have confident in himself. but men do worry too much i think at the age of 25 but try to understand him.
Posted: at 26-07-2010 08:26 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
black_samurai at 26-07-2010 09:20 PM (13 years ago) (m)
BUt ...how do women actually reason? isn't it strange that women believe anything a guy does contrary to what they would do, he does not love them!
Lovin someone does not change your person. Me for instance, i'm not the party freak. I hate loud and noisy places like clubs, some parties etc. I may go there at times but if i say no to my woman on some occasions does not mean i don't love her.
Speach is silver, silence is Gold!
Posted: at 26-07-2010 09:20 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
FlyMamacita at 26-07-2010 09:22 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: tantabanana on 26-07-2010 08:18 PM
the question is, is he financially comfortable to mix up? u know, financial problem can make someone lose confidence. just give him some time and be patient.
well financially things r not going well for him at d moment... but there were times he was ok, and he still didnt do those things?
Posted: at 26-07-2010 09:22 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
FlyMamacita at 26-07-2010 09:23 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: mat-James on 26-07-2010 08:20 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 26-07-2010 08:12 PM
Quote from: mat-James on 26-07-2010 07:56 PM
Can't u understand? Jealousy, man never want his babe being seeing by others guys and telling her "baby would u be my luv?" so he thinks kipin her prisoner will save his dam mind 2 b at rest,
or wat..............
so he hurt d woman just cuz he is jealous ? he can not keep her as a prisoner....hmmm
abeg flymama not me oh, am talking of others, as for me; enough joly ride, and waka waka in town with her if she likes, see others and follow, me also go my way, period.
when d cheatin is already in d mind, no matter wht u do u cant get it out...
Posted: at 26-07-2010 09:23 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
FlyMamacita at 26-07-2010 09:25 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Beauti4 on 26-07-2010 08:26 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 26-07-2010 08:15 PM
Quote from: Beauti4 on 26-07-2010 08:02 PM
Some of these men, might b testin u. they want to see if u have longer-throat for their spending. or maybe he is not financially stable, or he is just a simple guy or maybe is he in a documental r/ship and doesnt want to put sand in his garri. but above all, him takin u out doesn't prove love as well...or maybe he is tryin to heal his wounded soul. or maybe he is confused, or maybe he not CONFIDENT at all...there are so many things. if he couldn't create time for you beside your conversational moment then he is up to something. Well...pple say that u can knw love in 6months, but hey, 2yrs is not even enough o...
it is not abt spending his money, just tht he dont wanna... even when friends invite them, he refuse to go with any gud reason... i just dont understand wht it means...cunfused over wht? not confident abt d relationship or himself? is it possible he is not proud of d gal? wht do u mean with healin his wounded soul dear ?
wat i mean by wounded soul is that he must have been through so much b4 meet this particular gurl. but ist of all, find out if he is financally stable like i said. if not then u might want to take him out yourself. try to understand him very well, u need to knw wat he likes or dislike. he might have environmental phobia i forgot the name. but something is wrong somewhere cos he is a man and these pple are meant to release energy. my main focus here is that he doesnt have confident in himself. but men do worry too much i think at the age of 25 but try to understand him.
ok thx for d advice...
Posted: at 26-07-2010 09:25 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Miss_precious at 26-07-2010 09:26 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: black_samurai on 26-07-2010 09:20 PM
BUt ...how do women actually reason? isn't it strange that women believe anything a guy does contrary to what they would do, he does not love them!
Lovin someone does not change your person. Me for instance, i'm not the party freak. I hate loud and noisy places like clubs, some parties etc. I may go there at times but if i say no to my woman on some occasions does not mean i don't love her.
true
You know you're the best when people you don't know hate you
Posted: at 26-07-2010 09:26 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
FlyMamacita at 26-07-2010 09:27 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: black_samurai on 26-07-2010 09:20 PM
BUt ...how do women actually reason? isn't it strange that women believe anything a guy does contrary to what they would do, he does not love them!
Lovin someone does not change your person. Me for instance, i'm not the party freak. I hate loud and noisy places like clubs, some parties etc. I may go there at times but if i say no to my woman on some occasions does not mean i don't love her.
on some occasions yea...but wht if u get to hear NO all d time?
not only for club but just d average stuff like dinner, movies,...
Posted: at 26-07-2010 09:27 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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