MARRIAGE!

Date: 28-07-2010 1:29 pm (14 years ago) | Author: Obiajunwa
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- at 28-07-2010 01:29 PM (14 years ago)
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When is marriage said to have taken place?

Personally, I think if me and my guy have consented, our parents have consented and given their blessing, then an exchange of gift (dowry) between both families then am free to go home with my guy.  Or isnt that what we call the traditional wedding?  Must we call the world before we are recognised as married?  Do we even need to be recognised?  Must we wed in the church?  Does God not recognise our wedding simply becos we didnt wed in the church?........

Oya lets rub minds....what do you think? Grin


Posted: at 28-07-2010 01:29 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
- HOPEA23 at 28-07-2010 01:46 PM (14 years ago)
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Talking for myself
I don't really need people to recognized my guy and I that we married but I want them (people)to come and merry with me,and spary me(&$$$$$$$$).
 I love church wedding...but is not must we have to wed in the church.
He does.

Posted: at 28-07-2010 01:46 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- blessedme at 28-07-2010 01:50 PM (14 years ago)
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tradition is the inn thing
Posted: at 28-07-2010 01:50 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- divineproject at 28-07-2010 02:18 PM (14 years ago)
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Hopea, you want people to come spray you abi?...dem send you go marry?........lol

Posted: at 28-07-2010 02:18 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- sexy_error at 28-07-2010 02:20 PM (14 years ago)
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Abeg leave that kind yarn jor.....buy drinks make we come flex...
Posted: at 28-07-2010 02:20 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- sophiebaby at 28-07-2010 02:24 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 28-07-2010 01:29 PM
When is marriage said to have taken place?

Personally, I think if me and my guy have consented, our parents have consented and given their blessing, then an exchange of gift (dowry) between both families then am free to go home with my guy.  Or isnt that what we call the traditional wedding?  Must we call the world before we are recognised as married?  Do we even need to be recognised?  Must we wed in the church?  Does God not recognise our wedding simply becos we didnt wed in the church?........

Oya lets rub minds....what do you think? Grin

Gbam.

marriage don start be dat ooooooooo

Posted: at 28-07-2010 02:24 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- divineproject at 28-07-2010 02:56 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: sexy_error on 28-07-2010 02:20 PM
Abeg leave that kind yarn jor.....buy drinks make we come flex...

Ok, as we no get money to buy drinks, does it mean we no fit marry again?

Posted: at 28-07-2010 02:56 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- esonu at 28-07-2010 03:01 PM (14 years ago)
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marriage matter? not me

Posted: at 28-07-2010 03:01 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 28-07-2010 03:02 PM (14 years ago)
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i wonder for some ppl tinking ooooooooooooo. money no be everything ooooooooo

Posted: at 28-07-2010 03:02 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sexy_error at 28-07-2010 03:04 PM (14 years ago)
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@POSTER, YOUR ATTIRE SHOWS YOU ARE BACK FROM WEDDING ALREADY...BUT I MUST SHINE MY EYEZ
Posted: at 28-07-2010 03:04 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- sophiebaby at 28-07-2010 03:07 PM (14 years ago)
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so person dey dress only wen en wan go wedding.. see brain

Posted: at 28-07-2010 03:07 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 28-07-2010 03:08 PM (14 years ago)
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@sop dey there dey wonder

Posted: at 28-07-2010 03:08 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- onchedu at 28-07-2010 03:11 PM (14 years ago)
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A marriage is a marriage and when marital vows are exchanged before witnesses, whether in traditional gathering or a western event, it will remain recognized as long as the rites are followed through accordingly.
Posted: at 28-07-2010 03:11 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 28-07-2010 03:13 PM (14 years ago)
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gud

Posted: at 28-07-2010 03:13 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- qunodinga at 28-07-2010 03:14 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 28-07-2010 03:07 PM
so person dey dress only wen en wan go wedding.. see brain

baby...wetin happen b/w u and ERROR...leave her matter now...na your sister.o..o
Posted: at 28-07-2010 03:14 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- waco at 28-07-2010 03:15 PM (14 years ago)
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i am coming with my opinion later

Posted: at 28-07-2010 03:15 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- divineproject at 28-07-2010 03:24 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on 28-07-2010 03:11 PM
A marriage is a marriage and when marital vows are exchanged before witnesses, whether in traditional gathering or a western event, it will remain recognized as long as the rites are followed through accordingly.

Good........so why e be say if some people never call the whole world, dem no go believe say dem don marry??

Dont we think it is the fear of all these spend spend that make some guys refuse to marry, thereby making us have so many spinsters everywhere?

Posted: at 28-07-2010 03:24 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- esonu at 28-07-2010 03:28 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: waco on 28-07-2010 03:15 PM
i am coming with my opinion later
is now or never

Posted: at 28-07-2010 03:28 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- divineproject at 28-07-2010 03:36 PM (14 years ago)
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LOL, you nko, wey ur own?

Posted: at 28-07-2010 03:36 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 28-07-2010 03:47 PM (14 years ago)
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lol

Posted: at 28-07-2010 03:47 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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