be serious my friend
Girl na u dey talk this thing. I have seen some previous posts and advises you gave people in the past on similar topics. This is time you need 2 be strong not just 4 yourselve but also 4 your guy. Just cos you have gone out with the temptation a few time doesn't mean that he got the juice or that he will replace your guy. If you fall now, its no going back. Is that what you want?
Look, we all get tempted. I am also in a distance relationship. I got one sweet oyinbo chick wey dey bother my life, dey follow me everywhere wey I go, so dey all my colleagues (esp. the married ones) dey call me fool, say person dey give me make I chop I dey fumble. Its not fully cos I have been fighting her so a year now but looks like am slowly loosing this fight cos she dey really sweet. Still I will hold on 2 the end and not betray my woman. So its not like we all don't get tempted cos we all do. Whats important is how hard and how much we remain faithful 2 the one we've promised ourselves to.
If it gets hard 4 u, try 2 remember the good times u've hard with ur boyfriend. It helps me keep my feeling 4 my woman alive. Try also not 2 allow the other person (the tempter) hang around you cos it would always make you keep thinking of the temptation. LAst of all, please I repeat never ever compare the 2 men 2gether. Please never do so cos since your guy is not around he won't be winning any comparison you do. It would be too unfair cos the other guy wey dey, wey you dey see his effects will win any comparison you do. Its just plain simple, stay away from the temptation
Confucius says: Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in getting up every time we do.
Posted: at 16-12-2011 01:06 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming |
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