Infidelity - a destroyer of many marriages. So many years back it wasnt common to find it amongst the women folk, rather the men had a field day. But today it is increasing in an alarming rate amongst our women? What went wrong? Could it be that the women are out on a revenge mission or what? Is it a case of DO ME I DO YOU?........Take a look around and you will find so many marriages crumbling as a result of this. We need to find a way to reduce the number of divorce cases caused by INFIDELITY. And to do that, we together will find a way of dealing with that MONSTER.........
Anyone with an idea of how to deal with INFIDELITY in marriage?
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
Posted: at 18-08-2010 01:58 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
Infidelity - a destroyer of many marriages. So many years back it wasnt common to find it amongst the women folk, rather the men had a field day. But today it is increasing in an alarming rate amongst our women? What went wrong? Could it be that the women are out on a revenge mission or what? Is it a case of DO ME I DO YOU?........Take a look around and you will find so many marriages crumbling as a result of this. We need to find a way to reduce the number of divorce cases caused by INFIDELITY. And to do that, we together will find a way of dealing with that MONSTER.........
Anyone with an idea of how to deal with INFIDELITY in marriage?
Deal with it before marriage it would be more easily dealt with in marriage.
War's a more easily won when the little battles were first won.
It's the little things that make up the big things.
He who cannot be faithful in a little cannot be expected to be faithful in much.
A man is no more than the characters he is made up of. Where U have no proved Ur character do not expect to wake up and stand firm.
Habits will take U further than desire.
Posted: at 18-08-2010 02:17 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
A God-fearing man should marry a God-fearing woman so as to avoid that monster from taking a position in the marriage
Dem no dey sell God-fearing for market. It takes time to build the fear of God and that time is spent at the feet of God in prayer and devotion and service.
Quote from: abdulk on 18-08-2010 02:10 PM
come to think of it marrying for the wrong reasons is a major factor
WORD! Some people marry for the wrongest of reasons.
Posted: at 18-08-2010 02:25 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
I asked a question oo, why do you think the women are indulging in it?....what went wrong along the line?
Why don't U share ur thots on the possible reasons U have imagined and maybe those would spark our minds to reason along with U and suggest similar or other possibilities.
Obviously U have suggestions?
Posted: at 18-08-2010 02:32 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
qunodinga at 18-08-2010 02:34 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Infidelity can be physical or spiritual…or both ways but whatever let me quickly says this…55% of broken marriages is not caused by INFIDELITY…..ask divorcee in any continent. Anyway, to stop infidelity, couples have to be spiritually minded.
Posted: at 18-08-2010 02:34 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
justloveme at 18-08-2010 03:04 PM (14 years ago) (m)
that y preach good sex! satisfy ur man or woman with over dose of sex no need to look for it. am been vindicated by the rate of divorce. sex hypocrite in marriages
Posted: at 18-08-2010 03:04 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
divineproject at 18-08-2010 03:11 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: qunodinga on 18-08-2010 02:34 PM
Infidelity can be physical or spiritual…or both ways but whatever let me quickly says this…55% of broken marriages is not caused by INFIDELITY…..ask divorcee in any continent. Anyway, to stop infidelity, couples have to be spiritually minded.
I havent given a figure here.........but obviously the number of INFIDELITY-induced divorces has increased considerably in the past few years
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
Posted: at 18-08-2010 03:11 PM (14 years ago) | Hero